Advice needed

[sweet_pea]

I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year already.
He has very high sex drive I would say. We do it every night 2 times minimum except for the standard few days in a month.

he doesn't watch porn and neither does he gets high watching porn.
it's very natural that he hugs me close when we sleep every night and sometimes when I totally falls asleep, he will undress me and awakes me by arousing me.
The weak point about me is, I fall into very deep sleep once I knock out and whenever he sorta awakes me in the midst of undressing me, I hardly have the strength to push him away and the next day, I am always tired when I go to work.

Much as I already tone down my dressing, it still gets him hard. It was worst last time. I don't even apply body lotion in the bedroom now. I make sure I apply after bath in the shower room and come out clothed. I don't know why it seems like my usual daily habits can get him so turned on, when it's nothing? Or I did it unknowingly to make him turned on. Guys, avice please. Even in the lift in shopping malls sometimes when it's crowded and he hugs me, I can feel the vibes of him wanting to make love to me very strongly.

What should I do or tell him in a way, not to want me so much? Sometimes when we go for walks in the park, he hugs me so tight and I know what he wants. I can only use my hands to push him gently away at his chest and tells him to hold it.

The best things about him though is that he doesn't force it on me. When I am really tired, he lets me have a good sleep. But being tired everyday is not the excuse for him right?

[ch33zy]

hey sis, the best thing is that you two have a good chat about this.. since you mentioned that he is understanding and accomodating to you, i believe that he will curb his urges to some extent for you ba.. both of you will have to find a common ground to comprise for each other..

hope that everything will work out for you soon..

[jasdude]

have a good talk about the issue . it will help but you have to consider the reverse side of it . He might look for other alternatives to release since he is not getting enough .

[sgbogyman]

Everyday? 2x min...kinda of unbelievable...

[BiRd13]

Originally Posted by sgbogyman

Everyday? 2x min...kinda of unbelievable...

It's possible... I think both were still young of age around 20?
I used to go for 3-4 rounds minimum every night... Till my gf was so 'tired' and just help me bj/hj instead of penetration... So she just 'rotate' =X

[naturegreen]

wOw, you sound as though he is a high sex drive pervert! I am beginning to imagine if you are not there for him and he has no girlfriend......... Wonder will he appear in newspaper.

[sweet_pea]

yes, it tires me out the next day.
I spoke to him before but it doesn't seem to work out.
He lets me sleep when I am really tired, which means actually he can curb his urges.
But I can't possibly be tired every night...
It's the vibes he sends out that I know when he looks at me.

[lee2001sg]

Your BF is worst than me. But think on the bright side, it's better he hugging you then hugging another gal. Not watching porn is one problem. Maybe you might show him some porn and ask him to self-help. Wait a minute, don't tell me you are so attractive that he felt nothing watching porn movies?

[sweet_pea]

i wouldn't say i am attractive. i think it's his personal preferences. he just doesn't like porn.

[alan0338]

TS must be very hot, make until BF always want

[4411]

Wow sis, 2 times every day! Your Bf is one hell bonker man! Then wat he be doing for few days of every month which you can't give him? Lady 5 for him?

[ch33zy]

well sis, i think you can ask ur bf to curb his urges to a number of times.. that way, it will be better for you ba.. rather than the current situation..

[watever1]

In my honest opinion (IMHO), I dont think there is a win win situation.

If your BF wants too much, it will tire you out in no time (he amazes me, twice a night, EVERY NIGHT! I can't maintain that kind of run during my early twenties). Vice versa, if he's sexually inactive after being sometime together (well, some guys are), then you will start wondering if he's cheating behind your back.

While I am not saying that it is certain that it will work, the below are alternatives (if you consider the "full course" tiring):
1. Hand job?
2. Blow Job?

Worst come to worst, buy a sex toy which mimicks blowjob or handjob. While the toy takes over the tiring task, you can provide foreplay..

Good luck!

[miniboy]

Dear TS

BE POSITIVE
I CAN ASSURE U YOUR BF WONT HAVE ENERGY GO OUT PLAY PLAY
like pay for sex in sammyboyboy

there is always good and bad thing

i believe both of u still in young twenties
always want to sex for males is perfectly normal

LL

[MitMit]

wow! MINIMIUM 2 times a night on every night

How i wish i hv half of his POWER