Some questions

CatusRose · #1 26-09-2009, 01:11 AM

Had a big problem. Some bro here can help :"(

My sex buddy of 3 months told me she went for an abortion and it's mine. I felt bad and want to find out the truth. I have never cum in her and how is that possible. Had so many years of unprotected sex with gfs and non got preg. Y here now. She is now very stickly and want to b with me. Anyway of finding out whether she is lying?

Medusa · #2 26-09-2009, 08:49 AM

baby "aborted"...how to check? cant even do a DNA...dont think there's any other way to find out...

CatusRose · #3 26-09-2009, 10:33 AM

That's the problem. Fk shit. I felt guilty cos I lost a life......It's driving me crazy.

naturegreen · #4 26-09-2009, 10:38 AM

First of all bro, ask yourself these questions.

1) So what if she did have your baby - Are you going to marry her because of the baby which she has aborted? (Is baby a which or whom?

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2) So what if you feel bad? Are you going to marry her because of guilt?

3) Never cum in her does not mean she cannot get pregnant. By having unprotected sex, there is a high possibility of getting a girl pregnant as you may have pre-cum. What is pre-cum? The clear liquid that comes out from a male's penis before they ejaculate or before the "Big Bang. Pre-cum is pre-ejaculate (also known as pre-ejaculatory fluid or Cowper's fluid) is the clear lubricating fluid that is issued from a man's penis when he is aroused. Slang terms for pre-ejaculate include pre-come, pre-cum, dog water, and speed drop. Although it is a small amount, you should always use protection because you can still get pregnant and contract STD's from it.

4) Mentioning of her being sticky with you makes me feel you are getting a little petrified and displeased. I think if I were you, I would also be as right from beginning, it started off as a fuck-buddy relationship.

So now you should be proud that your brother is in good working condition capable of life creation. So dun go around shooting cum anymore into other girls anymore. Use protection. As for your fuck buddy, you should be clearer now if you can answer my item (1) & (2). As for your last question to find out on whether she is lying, I guess Sis Medusa has replied you on that.

GeMiNiZzzzZzz · #5 27-09-2009, 12:08 AM

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Originally Posted by CatusRose

Had a big problem. Some bro here can help :"(

My sex buddy of 3 months told me she went for an abortion and it's mine. I felt bad and want to find out the truth. I have never cum in her and how is that possible. Had so many years of unprotected sex with gfs and non got preg. Y here now. She is now very stickly and want to b with me. Anyway of finding out whether she is lying?

Had many years of unprotected sex? You sound very proud in your sentence.
None got pregnant maybe the prob lies with you? Did you get a doc's checkup? Maybe because you will never get a girl pregnant.
I suggest you better be more humble & responsible.
Having unprotected sex with your gfs is nothin wrong if you intend to be responsible, i dun sense that in your above quote tough.

Seriously i dont even bother to bother about you.

Go think about it.

joew2005 · #6 27-09-2009, 12:13 AM

why did she went 4 the abortion w/o informing u b4 she went 4 it?
why did she tell u "aft" it has been done?
she could(most likely) be lying abt it ....

CatusRose · #7 27-09-2009, 12:44 AM

Bro Gemi, I am not proud about it. I am just stating an example. Like what I said, I intend to be responsible when I have unprotected sex with gfs. But in this case, it's different. Mayb I cut the whole lengthy Q short and you misunderstood me. Anyway I love this fk buddy but things got messy and she came and tell me this. If I fk care, I dun even have to bother cos the "life" is gone.

Oralcraz · #8 29-09-2009, 02:20 PM

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Originally Posted by CatusRose

Bro Gemi, I am not proud about it. I am just stating an example. Like what I said, I intend to be responsible when I have unprotected sex with gfs. But in this case, it's different. Mayb I cut the whole lengthy Q short and you misunderstood me. Anyway I love this fk buddy but things got messy and she came and tell me this. If I fk care, I dun even have to bother cos the "life" is gone.

There is no way to find out now. The only way is if you love her and think she will be a good life partner, then marry her.

NewandLost · #9 29-09-2009, 03:17 PM

SG braddahs getting more gullible by the day. Seems like someone can have a Phd but absolutely no street smarts. Generally, I don't think its wise to sleep with anyone but your wife without protection. The family, financial, moral and health implications are far too big for most of use to handle. Can you afford to take a financial or emotional hit in any of those categories? For family, if you are married, and for health, money can't fix a bad outcome from your indescretion. Braddah, wake up.

mebirdie · #10 29-09-2009, 05:35 PM

Now you have to think about it. Whether she is only your FB or GFs.
If u still treat her as FB, then forget about it.

For GFs, of course more committed........

But will you able to accept her 100%. Just think about it.

Once a playboy forever a play boy.

CatusRose · #11 30-09-2009, 02:38 PM

Thank you all for the advice. I just gota be HARD. I hate stickly gals.....No more unprotected sex with anyone except wife! Think the money I save on condoms all these year gota take out and restock

block11 · #12 30-09-2009, 04:55 PM

raw is war for many reasons... hope everyone can learn this sooner rather than later

thaivisitor · #13 08-10-2009, 03:38 PM

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Originally Posted by CatusRose

Had a big problem. Some bro here can help :"(

My sex buddy of 3 months told me she went for an abortion and it's mine. I felt bad and want to find out the truth. I have never cum in her and how is that possible. Had so many years of unprotected sex with gfs and non got preg. Y here now. She is now very stickly and want to b with me. Anyway of finding out whether she is lying?

What's your problem? She says she had an abortion and it's yours, so what? She didn't ask you to pay for it, or be responsible for it or anything like that. Did she. Why does she has to lie to you?

You feel she's being sticky or is she really sticky? Did she ask you to leave your wife for her or anything like that? What's wrong with her wanting to be with you? Aren't you fuck buddies? Define sticky.

Cos guys who feel guilty over something may tend to "imagine" the worst happening to them.

My 2 cents worth.
Tee Vee

icYcreamj · #14 09-10-2009, 02:16 PM

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Originally Posted by thaivisitor

What's your problem? She says she had an abortion and it's yours, so what? She didn't ask you to pay for it, or be responsible for it or anything like that. Did she. Why does she has to lie to you?

You feel she's being sticky or is she really sticky? Did she ask you to leave your wife for her or anything like that? What's wrong with her wanting to be with you? Aren't you fuck buddies? Define sticky.

Cos guys who feel guilty over something may tend to "imagine" the worst happening to them.

My 2 cents worth.
Tee Vee

Define sticky,i think now even the gal give her a sms to ask him abt minor issues,he would find her very 'fan' already.

In the past is sweet,after relationships sours out.sweet becomes sticky...

DO_I_BJ · #15 09-10-2009, 02:34 PM

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Originally Posted by icYcreamj

Define sticky,i think now even the gal give her a sms to ask him abt minor issues,he would find her very 'fan' already.

In the past is sweet,after relationships sours out.sweet becomes sticky...

Cos guys and girls love a challenge. too easy nobody wants it. Cold hard fact.