Falling in love...once again

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

to put it in nice words,i didnt want & expect all this to happen.to put it bluntly,i am just freaking downright STUPID.i knw all these comes to no gd ends but i choose to defy all odds,doing wat i think i could,hoping i can be that special guy she will like.they are here for $,the 2 gers i liked both already told me that but i choose to go for it,hurting myself deeply in the process.Bro Cherri & ct75 words have really woke me up,been thinking a lot of stuffs,thinking how silly i was,spending $ to put myself in such a torment.i must not gv any of these gers any chance to hurt me again.i had enough.its so comforting that so many bros came forward to share their piece of mind,really appreciate.u guys do really care.i promise i wont disappoint u guys.the next time i post will be gd news.

[ct75]

Dude now that you have half woken up... I will cease being acid tongue.... Cos the message has gone through. It's time to talk nicely to you. You will learn dude, trust me and you will learn from it. Most of us have been stupid before. I was duped by the same girl twice.... haha and yet I still went for it despite all her friends, even her best friend telling me she is a player. Got hurt badly and best thing actually bumped into her not once but 4 times after an absence of 5 years. What did I do? Carry on drinking and hugging other girls in front of her haha..... why? To tell not her but myself that life is beautiful and there is so much that we will see and feel and experience. Why waste our time over useless things like her......

Okay yah try to sleep well and work hard.... earn more money. When you have the money..... even you have no women, you still have the money to do alot of good things for yourself. Like go spa, facial, holiday, pamper yourself and your family.

[Cheri_Popper]

Bro SJG, There will be a

BETTER TOMORROW

for you. Failure is the mother of Success. Your Ms Right somewhere out there, it just that you might not have realized that she exsists or that you have not met her yet. The time might not be "ripe" yet for you two to meet.

Honestly, as someone whom is a husband to someone as well as a parent to 2kids, sometimes you think that life is blissful and good for me. Bro there is more than meets the eyes!

I really hope that after all the "blasts" from the other Bros, I sincerely hope that you will WAKE UP & SMELL THE COFFEE!!

Sting and PowerX would probably be meeting us on Thurs!

[Rof|maoxz]

Originally Posted by Cheri_Popper

I really hope that after all the "blasts" from the other Bros, I sincerely hope that you will WAKE UP & SMELL THE COFFEE!!

Sting and PowerX would probably be meeting us on Thurs!

Sidetrack abit hor, no more links over there liao lay? No new stocks arh?

[Cheri_Popper]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

the 2 gers i liked both already told me that but i choose to go for it

Like I had said before to put it bluntly, they are telling you to FO cos they are not interested but instead you choose to go for it like a fish to a bait and you fell for it hook, line & sinker. Your chance of success is slim, I think striking 4D 1st prize is easlier!

No harm done just your heart & ego is smashed!

Learn to read between the lines and if you read it properly, you will get a clearer picture. Learn when to pull and when to let loose of the line when you are in a relationship. It would be ideal choose someone who loves you more than you love her. Sometimes you must act that you don't give a damn about her and sometimes do things that will show your love for her. The more you treat her this way, then more she will be crazy about you. Play the game right and you will have your rewards.

[Cheri_Popper]

Originally Posted by Rof|maoxz

Sidetrack abit hor, no more links over there liao lay? No new stocks arh?

My supplier no sound no pic liao leh. Maybe he up the lorry liao. His website also taken down liao!

[ct75]

Originally Posted by Cheri_Popper

Like I had said before to put it bluntly, they are telling you to FO cos they are not interested but instead you choose to go for it like a fish to a bait and you fell for it hook, line & sinker. Your chance of success is slim, I think striking 4D 1st prize is easlier!

No harm done just your heart & ego is smashed!

Learn to read between the lines and if you read it properly, you will get a clearer picture. Learn when to pull and when to let loose of the line when you are in a relationship. It would be ideal choose someone who loves you more than you love her. Sometimes you must act that you don't give a damn about her and sometimes do things that will show your love for her. The more you treat her this way, then more she will be crazy about you. Play the game right and you will have your rewards.

Yup thats exactly how to treat a woman nowadays. The modern woman especially Singaporean Women, you treat them too well, you end up if lucky becoming their buddy, brother, best friend, if unlucky you end up being their spare tire. Dont you notice that the guys they fall head over heels for are normally those that are "players" Same for guys.... actually, if a girl likes you very much how often you will go for it? Rather you will go for the one that plays hard to get.....

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by ct75

Dude now that you have half woken up... I will cease being acid tongue.... Cos the message has gone through. It's time to talk nicely to you. You will learn dude, trust me and you will learn from it. Most of us have been stupid before. I was duped by the same girl twice.... haha and yet I still went for it despite all her friends, even her best friend telling me she is a player. Got hurt badly and best thing actually bumped into her not once but 4 times after an absence of 5 years. What did I do? Carry on drinking and hugging other girls in front of her haha..... why? To tell not her but myself that life is beautiful and there is so much that we will see and feel and experience. Why waste our time over useless things like her......

Okay yah try to sleep well and work hard.... earn more money. When you have the money..... even you have no women, you still have the money to do alot of good things for yourself. Like go spa, facial, holiday, pamper yourself and your family.

no hard feelings bro.in fact its ur harsh words that helped me in my awakening.life is too short.u live 1 day sad also 1 day,happy also 1 day,may as well make everyday a happy day.hope i can find "her" soon and will share my joys with u guys.like wat my colleague always tell me,u got $ scare no ger?wish every bros out there all the best & hope no one ends up like me.

[ct75]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

no hard feelings bro.in fact its ur harsh words that helped me in my awakening.life is too short.u live 1 day sad also 1 day,happy also 1 day,may as well make everyday a happy day.hope i can find "her" soon and will share my joys with u guys.like wat my colleague always tell me,u got $ scare no ger?wish every bros out there all the best & hope no one ends up like me.

Dude one of the impt lessons to learn from waking up. Is that to NOT TO HOPE for that one..... Seriously the main reason of how you and most people here end up getting hurt by women irregardless of what kind, WL, KTV, Clubber, Normal girl. Is that we hoped.... when you hope, you place expectations on yourself. every girl that comes along, you hope she is the one and you will find ways to make sure that she is the one. and when things dont work out, you will fall into the same shit again.

For me, I live each day as it is, I got girl to hug i hug, I got girl to fuck I fuck. and mind you many of these girls, I am not even courting them. I gave up on that a long time ago. They want pleasure, I also want hence we come together and give each other pleasure. Hope for a relationship? that is the last thing on my mind.

I have a buddy who learnt all these earlier, his present gf of 6 years. He met her while he was in his fucking around after gf broke his heart and left him stage. He met the new gf, they cohabited for a year with no committment to each other. and one day they suddentely realised hey we have been together for a year! haha and they then officially became a couple. No hoping but rather let fate take its course.

[Cheri_Popper]

Originally Posted by ct75

Yup thats exactly how to treat a woman nowadays.

There are actually quite a few different playing fields, you need the right knowledge and tactics to play in them.

Teenage Gals (14 - 23)
They are looking for someone whom can make them happy by telling them jokes & 'protect" them. The REBEL or BAD BOY image goes well with them.
The above image also applies to most KTV gals as they feel "protected"

Matured Young Ladies (24 - 28)
They are looking for someone who can provide for them in material life. The 5"C" are an important factor.

MILF
They are looking for company. They want to feel not only being wanted and love but also sexually attractive. Your chance of scoring are high in this Catogory.

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by Cheri_Popper

I really hope that after all the "blasts" from the other Bros, I sincerely hope that you will WAKE UP & SMELL THE COFFEE!!

Sting and PowerX would probably be meeting us on Thurs!

thks for everything bro.see u guys on thur.

[ct75]

Originally Posted by Cheri_Popper

There are actually quite a few different playing fields, you need the right equipments to play in them.

Teenage Gals (14 - 23)
They are looking for someone whom can make them happy by telling them jokes & 'protect" them. The REBEL or BAD BOY image goes well with them.
The above image also applies to most KTV gals as they feel "protected"

Matured Young Ladies (24 - 28)
They are looking for someone who can provide for them in material life. The 5"C" are an important factor.

MILF
They are looking for company. They want to feel not only being wanted and love but also sexually attractive. Your chance of scoring are high in this Catogory.

Important info!! Thanks man...... hmmmm

[Cheri_Popper]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

hope no one ends up like me.

There is a saying "No Man Is An Island"!

No matter how you look, there is someone out there. When you meet the right one, trust me, you will know. When the first time I met my Mrs. something inside me told me that she was the "ONE"!

When I courted my wife, she did not give a damn to me. But 2 mths down the road we became a couple and the rest is history!

[Cheri_Popper]

Originally Posted by ct75

Important info!! Thanks man...... hmmmm

No problem mate! Just sharing what I think!

Don't we always see gals falling head over heel over those BAD BOYS??!!

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

learnt so much today frm 2 exprienced bros.read thru the lines,now getting a much clearer picture.there is nth much i can say but thks deep down frm my heart.