MIA FARANG (Foreigner's Wife)

[tirak69]

Originally Posted by thaivisitor

Well, that lady friend doesn't represent all the chiangmai girls attitude. For that matter, even 500 of them doesn't.

To say other provinces girls do "2-time" would be a very shallow statement. For that matter, even SG girls also 2-time.

But that does not make any representation to the characters of the girls in general.

As for taking the easy route to solutions, it's not only in the North, it is practically in the whole of Thailand. Maybe, you don't see too much of it in NE, that's because they "migrate" down to other places with more tourism.

That being said, Chiangmai is the 2nd largest city, and naturally you'll see more "action" then say Nakhon Panom. Does it mean Nakhon Panom girls are "better" or more conservative? I think not.

My 2 cents worth.

in my years of chionging thailand... i can safely conclude that most of the WL/FL are from 2 primary region - north (chiangmai/chiangrai/mae son hon) and north east (ubon, korat, buri ram, khon kaen).
but i would say not all are bad... it just depends on luck and who you happen to meet.
my 2 satangs worth...

[tirak69]

Originally Posted by liketoplay

an ex-wl or someone who engages in ons ,who previously has had sex with many others before may not think much of having sex with strangers again even after marriage. Likewise for us cheongsters , even after we've found ourselves our lie partner , we still fuck around wat .

you are not wrong... but society frowns more upon a woman who is unfaithful than a man who does the deed. fact of life in most places and dun think this gonna change anytime soon. could be attributed a word hokkien call "gian song"... kekekekeke

[cyrus]

Originally Posted by delifrance

Hi all

I've got a pm request from one of the samsters about why I view the North Western Thai people as the most complicated lot, here's an experience which helped me to think about their behaviour:

North-western Thai people – most complicated

Doesn’t this give you the impression of them being making their lives very complicated?

You draw your conclusions. This is just my own private opinion.

Khob khon krub. Phom khow jai leaw. As you have said it, its only a personal opinion and totally agree. Hope to meet up loh in BKK. I'll probably bring her along ..

[free]

Originally Posted by siamboy

Why not? See if anyone is up for it or not. Haha.

Bro Siamboy,
U may be courting with fire. There was a time in the Long Distance Tiak thread I started when one particular became aggressive and abusive. Ended up Sam Leong not only deleted the thread (which I requested), but he also deleted the account of this person (which I did not request nor will I ever do it). Let's just enjoy our time here and agree to disagree when we don't see eye to eye. One man's meat is another's poison must always be our guiding line in forums such as this. So we accept each other's views, even if they are different than ours. Relax, bro.

[free]

Originally Posted by thaiboy

bro free, sad to hear this, wish you good luck, do take care.....

Hey, there is nothing to be sad about. Fact is I live and learn. No guarantee the current r/s will work out too. A lot more work still need to be done,cos a LDTR with someone from a different culture and stage of development is never easy. Just trying our best now to work things out. Personality differences are playing a major role here. I am a die-hard romantic while she is not at all. This is probably our biggest hurdle to cross (believe it or not! ). Once we can cross this, the rest is much easier cos we do have similar goals and outlook to life in general, especially on family issues.

I spent a lot of time with my tirak's mum this morning and some things that she said and did really gave me the confirmation that she is no gold digger. If fact she did quite the opposite. If my tirak is going to grow old to be like her mum, she is definitely the one I want to marry. But they are not quite the same - at least not yet

[liketoplay]

Originally Posted by tirak69

you are not wrong... but society frowns more upon a woman who is unfaithful than a man who does the deed. fact of life in most places and dun think this gonna change anytime soon. could be attributed a word hokkien call "gian song"... kekekekeke

totally agree with you on that. I bring that out just to illustrate human character regardless of man or woman.

Originally Posted by siamboy

Haha if anyone eat full no shit come out can call me also. +6613630063. See who got balls.

Seems to have seen this phrase somewhere before
kuah mak! no need to eat shit also come out liao..... 555

[free]

Originally Posted by siamboy

You think I give a hoot what Sammyboy will do to my account?

Ok, your choice. I have intention to tell u what to do - for I have no right to. Hope u dun misunderstand. This is a free world after all.

[free]

Originally Posted by Cummings

Seems to have seen this phrase somewhere before
kuah mak! no need to eat shit also come out liao..... 555

Mai Dtong Glua. Dtong Tam Dee Dee. Krai Krai gor bpen peung dai

[delifrance]

Hi all

thank you for the responses to my post about the Nuer example. Just some have pointed it out - it's my personal opinion. I have arrived at my opinion from my experiences with the Nuer people. The example I have written is not the only one. There are others and I have met others from other regions.

It's quite surprising to note that even in Hatyai that out of 10 chickens in Hatyai, 8 to 9 of them are from Nuer. Maybe the Issan people do better in Phuket because of the preference for darker skinned while Hatyai is a Malaysian Chinese and Singapore Chinese haven for such chickens, while Danuk is a mix of dark and fair skinned chickens (including the mainland chinese contingent).

I tend to be presented with fidelity in sexual matters kind of cases by the other peoples of thailand more than the Nuer, that is the reason why I think the Nuer people are more complicated.

[delifrance]

Hi Thaivisitor

No offense at all, I hope you do not take offense either because it is never my intent. *laugh*. My post is based on my observations from "looking from behind the mirror". The success of your life partnership with a khun Nuer or not, remains a private business on your efforts with your partner. If you are not experiencing complications with your partner, I congratulate and I am truly very happy for you. There's no envy or attempt to spark any 'poison' into your private relationship. As you know, any relationship, marital or friendship wise, requires consistent effort and understanding, requires intelligence and lots of compassion too.

My posting was never intended to put a lid on relationship or provoke fear into the hearts of those who intend to set up a life in LOS with the peoples of Thailand. My posting is just an observation - to be successful, we have to be strong, wise and very mature, in addition we must respect the lives and choices of individuals....just be careful in all things we do. Too many have been blinded by what they desire and not by the facts in front of them, but then again, I respect their choices. If they never stop trying to build a good life, they will be happy and I admire these people very much.

I do not look at your spouse this way if she is a Nuer, instead I look at the two of you as a successful couple and I am happy to know that you have worked with her against all odds or avoided the nasty landmines in such a relationship.

*smile* I hope you do not misunderstand my post.

For the many readers who read in here, There are many who do not even know why they tend to love a woman...be her a thai or otherwise. sometimes it's not even love that they are feeling but more of an emotional need first rather than loving a person first then looking at the person as a woman. I am just sharing what I think and saw and experienced, if there are any who misunderstand, please write to me and I will explain as clearly as I can and hopefully they have the maturity and mental ability to understand. It's all about sharing and respecting each other's views and choices. That is why I appreciate your postings as well, your postings give more alternative views. Isnt this a forum after all?

Even on the choice of Bro Free, I am very happy to know him and his efforts in his choices. All that I can say is: what I say is what I say, the choice and decision of his is his, I respect him for this.

Please note that my post covers a ex-WL from Nuer. There are other stories which all can share and learn.

Thank you for also sharing the part about the funeral. The one that I saw was exactly as what I have described. Your post on your experience is good because it shows other cases.

Cheers and Regards!

[delifrance]

Hi all

with respect with Bro Thaivisitor's comment on the effects on my post about the Nuer...my message to all who venture anywhere (not only LOS) is: please dont go in blind, be honest with yourself always as well as looking from the other person's views.

Well, I hope I have provided additional pointers and explanations regarding my posts. Please comment and contribute or provide opposing views. I am learning as much as everyone is.

Bro Thaivisitor,

I am surprised that I am considered senior in here, I have not walked many places as many others have gone before or are treading such places now.

[delifrance]

Hi Siamboy

This is forum afterall. Opposing views and different views are a welcomed nature. I post what I want to share but it does not mean that I do not share alternative views, I particularly enjoy learning about different ideas. The bottomline is just a matter of respect and courtesy. That's why I see Thaivisitor as contributing to this thread rather than just butting his view points on me.

[asjer]

From ROM, just get a "Certified True Copy", have it translated and submit to the Thai side for registration purpose. Actually, you can don't bother about the Thai side but if planning to "quit" to there eventually, it would be a wise choice.

To marry in Thailand is so much easier, just get a letter from ROM, certified true copy that you're not married, have it translated and then register.

Originally Posted by thaivisitor

This was the requirement to marry there, as given by the Thai embassy in SG.

What cert are you talking about that have to be translated?

[bkkguy]

Originally Posted by asjer

From ROM, just get a "Certified True Copy", have it translated and submit to the Thai side for registration purpose. Actually, you can don't bother about the Thai side but if planning to "quit" to there eventually, it would be a wise choice.

Those who failed to get your sg registered marriage reported back to your thai wife amphur(thailand), will face many inconvenient in future when applying for spouse 1 yr visa/PR in Thailand.

Btw, your thai wife will FOREVER be considered as a 'single lady' in thailand until the day she goes to report her foreigns marriage to her amphur.