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No matter how heavy or many things,they always think they can handle.At first i also wonder why my wife have to buy so many things when go back.Is a hassle to me cos i like to travel light.
But later,i know is she have to buy so call 'souvenir" for those ppl.From neighbour to relative,all see her like santa claus when she go back.Always say-Ai ya,u come back,no buy me anything as a souvenir huh.
KNN all know how to open mouth only.So nowaydays when she buy those cheapo stuff to bring back.I always close one eye.Is their culture thing and bro who just marry them should be understanding to this.But one thing is they are tougher and dont mind carry heavy stuff back.
hahhaha... same for me here. If never buy enough, they will come and say `never bring anything for me huh?' knn, village so big and so many relatives, how to buy for all? Santa Clause deers also no strength to pull so much
Yes agreed. They too miss their food when they stay here for lobg time, moreover vietnamese food here is expensive. Just like when u stay vn long, u too will miss singapore local food.
Bro, u bring luncheon meat, ba ting, curry powder. U working as cook there har?
I have to cook for myself. U let Vietnamese cook for u and almost every dish they cook must add sugar. Can u imagine how curry chicken taste like after adding 5 tablespoons of sugar? That's what my bg did. And still have to cheek to ask me "Ngon Ko?"
Chinese soup is still the best. VN soup usually just taste spicy and sour. Now my bg is trained to cook black chicken soup with herbs. Lucky me !!
hahhaha... same for me here. If never buy enough, they will come and say `never bring anything for me huh?' knn, village so big and so many relatives, how to buy for all? Santa Clause deers also no strength to pull so much
Santa Claus deers no strength dont worry. I can introduce a freight forwarder to yr bx. Get discount on 40ft container shipment to the kampung. Just kidding. We bros must band together. Not be bullied by the whole kampung.
yes, you are right to certain extend. When these Viet Spouse (VS) goes back, they will have a long list of REQUESTS from their family members in VN. Shampoo,
I used to buy J&J body foam for my ex #1...until I refused and tell her made in Vn and cheaper in hcm...
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hahhaha... same for me here. If never buy enough, they will come and say `never bring anything for me huh?' knn, village so big and so many relatives, how to buy for all? Santa Clause deers also no strength to pull so much
my ex #2 gave very simple answer...no hand to carry la...so only buy from local product on the way to province...
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Know this 29 yrs old VB WL for a while. We had various boring fuck with her upon meet up. After I come back to Singapore we remain close in touch, feeling starts to develop. Recently she’s asking me I interested to date her? When I agree, we keep our communication online; she feels I never give her any freedom. Seriously I never do anything to make her feel am not giving her space. Then she went crazy start talking about she actually got a few men dating her in hcm, one even waiting to marry her. KNN in the first place still asked me this kind of thing for what? Asking me whether can be good friends instead? I was so pissed i said maybe not. Dun want to waste my time with her. What you bros think?
Know this 29 yrs old VB WL for a while. We had various boring fuck with her upon meet up. After I come back to Singapore we remain close in touch, feeling starts to develop. Recently she’s asking me I interested to date her? When I agree, we keep our communication online; she feels I never give her any freedom. Seriously I never do anything to make her feel am not giving her space. Then she went crazy start talking about she actually got a few men dating her in hcm, one even waiting to marry her. KNN in the first place still asked me this kind of thing for what? Asking me whether can be good friends instead? I was so pissed i said maybe not. Dun want to waste my time with her. What you bros think?
I am fine with this type of VB...so long I dun have to pay much to bonk or free...ok for her to have many bf as long as I dun have intention to marry her...she also will never believe if I dun have other gf...
when i am in hcm...i hv a list...if #1 not free then call #2 then call #3...no short of VB to bonk...
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Viet Life Partner? Izzit a good choice? I bet a lot of our Bros here has been thinking about this qns...
Quite a few of my friend also married Viet wife.. Including me.. Haha.. But all have the same character.. Very hot temper.. But other than that.. They can be a very good wife, and not so materialistic also..
Any bros here got diff thinking?
But my vb wl very sensitive in feeling, when she very angry she keeps quiet. Lucky she not so materialistic and wants to be good wife as mention, god know if is true from her mouth. Trust 20%?
The initial few years of marriage when there were lots of arguments and misunderstandings, i did regret a bit. But thru these years, when efforts were made to understand each other, sacrifices were made for the family, i have not regretted. They make good spouses (not all) although they have their short comings. We also need to put in effort to provide them with proper living standards, a proper family, simply we need to be responsible too.
But i did come across quite some marriages breaking down due to variety of reasons.
No matter what, communication and understanding is very important.
I agree with you bro, but if my vb partner is stubborn and difficult? What it takes to change her if i like her?
I am fine with this type of VB...so long I dun have to pay much to bonk or free...ok for her to have many bf as long as I dun have intention to marry her...she also will never believe if I dun have other gf...
when i am in hcm...i hv a list...if #1 not free then call #2 then call #3...no short of VB to bonk...
Sadly i only got 1 to bonk, i can't even speak their language cause that Vb can speak english. But seems like is going to end soon cause i call it a day.
The thing is mine will still be stubborn even after hearing my point of view.She will think i make things difficult for her and always say i look down on her which i am not.But that was the first few years,now slowly we start to understand each other point of view.Learn to close 1 eye and i try to look at her good things which she do for me.All this take a lot of patient and understanding for both of us.
She know i change a lot and i can also see her change in her stubborn attitude.Is a good sign
Yap stubborn is the key word, the main problem of vb. I wonder why so log head?
they have no concept of savings. Just spent 1st today, tml then think again. Cos they r not educated to the idea of saving up for the future.
hahaha i blardy agreed with this, their mindset of saving is very poor. My vb don't think far at all, especially when you need money for rainy day. When i try to educate her, she thinks i won't be rich one day. Best is shut up for me and let her be.
When i first marry,we quarrel quite often due to my hetic work and impatient.Her stubborn attitude together with me insisting my way of doing things make things worse.I always show her a smelly face when i came home after work and she start to tell me,whatever unhappiness i face at work,i should not bring back to home.I start to ask myself whether i am right in marrying her after many quarrels and also part of her stubborness which refuse to listen to the reason on why i say so.If only i came in this thread before i marry her,i would learn a lot from experience bro here and all those quarrel will be lesser.
After changing to a less hetic work,i start to become more relax and have more time with her.She massage my shoulder when i say i am tired,every day she will wake up early to cook for me before going to work,cover me with a blanket when she wake up and see me cold,draw down the window curtain to block the sunlight shinning in while i am sleeping.After few years of marriage,she is still doing all this to me.She even joke with me that she like taking care about a big baby
I start to close one eye and try to think of those good things she do to me after quarrel and it help in our marriage.Like what bro shysaint say,communication is very important,knowing them and understand them is much easier if u focus on those good things she do to u.Is true that stubborn is in their blood but they can be a very caring wife if u are lucky.
1 thing that i always remember is how she take care of my dad when he is hospitalised and at home.Maybe is time we should also share some good things about our vietnam spouse cos they still have some good points that sg girl lack of towards a sg man
Bro am glad you enjoy your marriage now. kudos to you.
04-01-2012, 10:32 AM
