Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Torres_Mok]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

On the other possiblity....maybe they see a good man nearby so they start schemming to get the good man to fall in love with them and marry them and settle down...

WL always target unattached guillible men

[Torres_Mok]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

....欢场无真情 and Love is Blind.

this statement quite true!

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

one thing good about your girl is that she dont work in Singaporea long enough to know more people from JC...if not can you imagine that she go there to JC to chit chat after your marriage? and pick up more bad habit...?

I know a WL who get married happily...that WL also tell me how her husband love her etc...but almost everyday at JC drinking...

True enough that my viet g/f never work on JC long enuff.... else she will be another gal who i fark and throw roi. And i am the 'good' b/f of hers who still fark around with my pinoy g/f... aiya.. And i am slowly feeling guilty about it.

Today i choose to chat with my viet g/f over the internet in the afternoon rather than go hotel with my pinoy. Had a damn long chat with her... and finally she agree to bring me to the shop she work to prove that she never lie to me. We talk about the day we know each other till now... and i was suprise that she remember every single detail... especially the dates and things i did to make her sad.

1) It is when she was caught by police, she call me and tell me... and i act blur. (because that time tot of throw her away and go for next target since she will be ban from coming roi).
2) The following day i tot she will not be in JC since she is caught... so i go there happy again...hug other gals... she was there and saw me. She is a perosn who cannot drink... but that day she drink alot and get drunk.
3) The day she left sillypore to go back, i act blur and act busy again, never offer to send her... and she quitely go airport by herself. When she reach vn, she dt me... i always say dt expensive... cannot call and talk.

Two things i never mention to her.
1) i never mention to her till now... my status is 'not single'. Lucky i can drag till 2009.. by than i will be 'single' and i don't need tel la thing to her.
2) Since she got such short time in Sillypore than, i feel 'bu fu qi' as not able to bed her. (i do have a big ego in sianing gals to bed). Since i have plans to go vn with my buddies in dec 06, i plotted and planned this chance to bed her and have her to accompany me throughout my trip.

Never dd i know..... this trip make me feel for her and fall for her. She is never the working gals i know in JC...

Who is bad, who is good?

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75
....欢场无真情 and Love is Blind.

very true.... and is very difficult to get a seasoned cheongster like me to fall in love. But this viet g/f did.... and now i am blinded.

Chinese say " Hero cannot escape the hand of a beauty"

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by SingViet
They are also some WL that are tired of all the family burden and the life of a WL that they want to quit when they find a good man to marry. These ladies actually have seen thru man's nature and will treat their man really well when they choose to settle with the chosen man.

So in fact, not all WL are bad although majority of them are quite schemming. it will have to depend on your fate

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

On the other possiblity....maybe they see a good man nearby so they start schemming to get the good man to fall in love with them and marry them and settle down...

This way can call real love or not? Depend on individual I guess...althought love will come soon after they settle down...

My viet g/f maybe in a situation where she is tired of supporting the family and found me so maybe schemming to get me and get away from the family burden. But i am a willing party... as long as she never go back to her previous job.

Real love?... maybe yes now. Love may come after settle down.... love maybe gone after married as well. I have been there once....

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

not sensitive la. just joking about u rich i poor.

Rich SingViet + Poor Viet Wife = Rich Family
Avg Sha_Gua75 + Rich Viet g/f = Rich Family
Avg KangTuo + Very Poor Viet g/f = Poor family

Knowing this, I am so sad now....

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Hhehehe yes believe in her.... cos those who fall for WL cannot think properly liao. Enjoy while it lasts.

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Yes, my viet g/f did work in JC before and i know her there. But still there are good one and bad one... she belongs to the good type.

As mentioned, those fall in love will never listen to others. They always believe in themselves. I can only say, all the best if everything turn out good, then blessing. If thing turns up bad, u can always choose 14 flr n jump down but dun come here pour all the woes out.

[chanyboy]

Sha_Q : hi..hi..thousand apology...it's Sha_G not Sha_Q...

KT, me : happiness rating -- okey dokey. The most important thing is the person feels happy, that's enuf. Don't brooch over difficulties, everyone has their own set to settle. Me too, clearing hurdle by hurdle. Looks like I gaining positive points...

- what gift to bring : I would be bringing normal gift (foodstuff, fruits likely). Looks like they dont puff or drink????..

- what reserve to bring : definitely $. I'll be there a week, so intend to estimate how much a typical normal (no cheonging) life would cost

- where to go : yup, yup thanks SV. I'm looking for those around HCMC itself, not too far otherwise I puke when I feel giddy... my baxa says she can ride scooter & bring me around town... wah, damn happy...

[naemlo]

Hehehheh a bit kong kong ting ting

Till now I still dun understand how the hell men brain r build to think....Life is miserable, if u fall in love with WL, then go ahead with your love love, no need to reason whether it is right or wrong. When someone pointed the negative, yet u have to reason out to make yourself happy, as usual she is the special one, I have friends happily married with WL, wah lan, all these craps to prove otherwise... Definitely ppl have different views, different fate, different gers. As long u if u feel happy with your love love then go ahead, cos when 1 falls in love, the skull is thick, no matters how much others try to dig sense into your head, it is impossible. As per normal relationship, enjoy while it lasts. If everything goes well then happy ending if not then pick yourself up n move on.

Love is a wonderful thing..

Anh nho ba xa nhieu nhieu....



Kong kong ting ting over....

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Rich SingViet + Poor Viet Wife = Rich Family
Avg Sha_Gua75 + Rich Viet g/f = Rich Family
Avg KangTuo + Very Poor Viet g/f = Poor family

Knowing this, I am so sad now....

Wah.. i where got rich? Rich is a relative word. If you are willing to slog it out with your partner , i am sure u will be well off soon. My wife helped me a lot in my business and i appreicate her a lot.

[RJ2004]

Originally Posted by naemlo

As mentioned, those fall in love will never listen to others. They always believe in themselves. I can only say, all the best if everything turn out good, then blessing. If thing turns up bad, u can always choose 14 flr n jump down but dun come here pour all the woes out.

cb drunk liao come here post nonsense...

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by RJ2004

cb drunk liao come here post nonsense...

No drunk lah.... but just kong ting. It is the truth mah, jump down from 14 flr

[Torres_Mok]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Rich SingViet + Poor Viet Wife = Rich Family
Avg Sha_Gua75 + Rich Viet g/f = Rich Family
Avg KangTuo + Very Poor Viet g/f = Poor family

Knowing this, I am so sad now....

I think majority of the vietnamese are poor!

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Avg Sha_Gua75 + Rich Viet g/f = Rich Family
Knowing this, I am so sad now....

This one i have to correct. Avg Sha Gua + Rich Viet gf = Avg Family. u think they will give sha gua 100k or 200k huh? Wait long long. Plus i am quite sure his rich g/f is just slightly above average in Vietnam. better than majority, same as plenty but worse off than some. Wait till u see the super rich in Vietnam

Anh Sha Gua, Nho Anh yeu Anh, khong an com va khong ia duoc.

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Hehehheh a bit kong kong ting ting

hehe your head...it is KHUNG KHUNG DIEN DIEN....cb u drunk liao