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[gizbabe]

[ac171]

Originally Posted by gizbabe

My CBf chillipadi is ffiiinnaalllyyyyy baaackkk!!!

Welcome back!! Miss you terribly....muacks muacks.... Pls come and hijack my thread....

And my snow white, yes, I know I sidetracked a little to my side bizzz...LOL... Overjoyed by the newly joined sistahood member....

And hey, you gals are leaking out waaayyyyyy toooo muuchh information.... Shhhhh.........

Lol! I shall consolidate what we have leaked...

Event: FFF(F) session
Date: Someday in 2012
Time: Auspicious time for FFF(F)
Place: Somewhere on the little red dot

Non-invited are not welcomed unless approved by FFF involved.

Originally Posted by gizbabe

I shall start the ball rolling then.....

Erm, snow white, this is still fitness, sexual fitness it is....

Hahaha what a lengthy post but the massage is not for me!

[spawnic]

Great Post Gizbabe...

[gizbabe]

Especially dedicated to Snow white, and the rest of you....

How to Give Tantric Yoni Massage To Woman

is the ancient Indian way of massaging the vagina called Yoni in Sanskrit. Also consider as “Sacred Space” or “Sacred Temple. In Tantra sex ritual, the Yoni is seen from a perspective of love and respect.

The aim of the vagina/Yoni Massage is to create a space for the woman (the receiver) to relax, and enter a state of high arousal and experience much pleasure from her Yoni. This massage is also a way to treat a woman from sexual blocks, traumas or from fear of sex. Her partner (the giver) enjoy a new experience of being of service and witnessing a very different arena of Tantra sex. The Yoni Massage can also be used as a form of safer sex by wearing some gloves in hand and is an excellent activity to build trust and intimacy .
The aim of the Yoni massage is not orgasm is not to bring a climax. Orgasm is often a pleasant and welcome by product of the entire ritual. The aim is simply to pleasure and massage the Yoni/vagina. From this perspective both receiver and giver can relax, and not have to worry about achieving something. When orgasm does occur it is usually more expanded, more intense and more satisfying. Orgasm is allowed to happen or not happen depending on your way of doing which you learn by experience.

In this massage the giver has nothing to gain, he is just at the donors end, just allowing the receiver to enjoy the massage and to relax into herself afterwards. Of course, other sexual activity may follow but it should be entirely the receiver’s choice. This perspective will build greater intimacy and trust, and will greatly broaden your sexual horizons.

STARTING THE PROCESS

Taking a shower is always helpful as it relaxes both the receiver and giver. A quiet space is desirable with pleasing music, red colored candles, pillows, etc., or whatever makes the participants relax and feel safe. Allow yourself enough time and do not hurry through the process. It is also recommended if you have soft silk mattresses, and white curtains, with a dim red light.

Go to the bathroom before beginning the massage. The best results will occur when the bowels and bladder are empty and you will avoid the unnecessary experience of interrupting the massage to go to the bathroom. Keep the genitals clean washed carefully with a soft soap. And the giver has to be careful that his nails has to be properly trimmed.

Cuddle with your partner by hugging, holding, eye gazing (looking into each other’s eyes for an extended time), or whatever brings you to a place of safety and relaxation.

RITUAL

Have the receiver lie on her back with pillows under her head so she can look down at her genitals and up at her partner (giver). Place a pillow, under her hips. Her legs are to be spread apart with the knees slightly bent (pillows or cushions under the knees will also help) and her genitals clearly exposed for the massage. It is necessary that the vagina has to be clean shaved, but there should not be too long hairs.

The giver sits cross-legged between the receivers’ legs. The giver may wish to sit on a pillow or cushion. This position allows full access to the Yoni and other parts of the body.

Before contacting the body, begin with deep, relaxed breathing. Both giver and receiver should remember to keep breathing deeply, slowly and with relaxation during the entire process. The giver will gently remind the receiver to start breathing again if the receiver stops or takes shallower breaths. Deep breathing, not hyperventilating, is very important here. Do not try to control the breath or take very long pauses between breaths.

Gently massage the legs, abdomen, thighs, breasts, etc., to get the receiver to relax and for the giver to prepare for touching the Yoni.

Pour a small quantity of a high-quality oil or lubricant on the mound of the Yoni. Pour just enough so that it drips down the outer lips and covers the outside of the Yoni. Even you can use some good cream also, but oils are the best lubricator.

Begin gently massaging the mound and outer lips of the Yoni. Spend some time here and do not rush. Relax and enjoy giving the massage. Gently squeeze the outer lip between the thumb and index finger, and slide up and down the entire length of each lip. Do the same thing to the inner lips of the Yoni/vagina. Take your time.

The receiver can massage her own breasts or may just relax and continue breathing deeply. It is helpful for giver and receiver to look into each other’s eyes as much as possible. The receiver can tell the giver if the pressure, speed, depth, etc., needs to be increased or decreased. Limit your speaking and focus on the pleasurable sensations. (It is my experience that too much talking gets one out of their feelings and diminishes the effects.)

Gently stroke the clitoris with clockwise and counter-clockwise circles. Gently squeeze it between thumb and index fingers. Do this as a massage and not to get the receiver off. The receiver will undoubtedly become very aroused but continue to encourage her to just relax and breathe.

Slowly and with great care, insert the middle finger of your right hand into the Yoni In rituals and Tantra sex there is a specific reason of using the right hand, as it has to do with the polarity in Tantra. Very gently explore and massage the inside of the Yoni/ vagina with this finger. Take your time, be gentle, and feel up, down and sideways. Vary the depth, speed and pressure. Remember, this is a massage and you’re nurturing and relaxing the Yoni.

With your palm facing up, and the middle finger inside the Yoni, move the middle finger in a “come here” gesture or crook back towards the palm. You will contact a spongy area of tissue just under the pubic bone, behind the clitoris. This is the Sacred spot as says Tantra Sex. Your partner may feel as if they have to urinate or it may be painful or pleasurable. Again vary the pressure, speed and pattern of the movement. You can move side to side, back and forth, or in circles with your middle finger You can also insert the finger that’s between your middle finger and pinky. Check with your partner first before sticking two fingers into them. Most women should have no problem and will enjoy the increased stimulation from two fingers. Take your time and be very gentle. You may use the thumb of the right hand to stimulate the clitoris as well.

This is just an optional part; some women do not like this, just take permission from your partner and then insert your one finger by using some lubrication into her anus. Use the finger which you are not going to insert her Yoni. And be very gentle. The ritual prefers to use the little finger in her anus.

Your left which has nothing to do at this time can be used to massage the breasts, abdomen, or clitoris if you massage the clitoris it’s usually best to use your thumb in an up down motion, with the rest of your hand resting on and massaging the mound. The dual stimulation of right and left hands will provide much pleasure for the receiver. I do not recommend using your left hand to touch your own genitals because it may take your focus off the receiver. Remember, this massage is for her pleasure and its benefit comes from not only the physical stimulation but the intent as well.

Continue massaging, trying different speeds, pressures and motions. Keep breathing and looking into each other’s eyes. The receiver may have powerful emotions come up and may cry. Just keep deep breathing and be gentle. Many women have been sexually abused and need to be healed. A giving, loving and patient partner can be of great value to her.

If she has an orgasm, keep her deep breathing, and continue massaging if she wants. More orgasms may occur each gaining in intensity. In Tantra this is called “riding the wave.” Many women can learn how to be multi-orgasmic with the Yoni Massage and a very patient partner.

Keep massaging until she tells you to stop. Very slowly, gently, and with respect, remove your hands. Allow her to just lay there and enjoy the afterglow of the Yoni massage. Cuddling or holding is very soothing as well. As you learn to master the Yoni Massage your sex life will be greatly enriched and you will learn a great deal about feminine sexuality.

[BoinKING]

Sankiew har sistah.. prewse to mee chew too

[gizbabe]

Originally Posted by BoinKING

Sankiew har sistah.. prewse to mee chew too

LOLOLO..... stop it, I'm trying get thread straight again....

[BoinKING]

orh.. namase...BOOM!

[Sen5eS]

Originally Posted by gizbabe

LOLOLO..... stop it, I'm trying get thread straight again....

kekeke setup the FFF(mystery F? Your newly endorsed Sista BoinQueen?) exercise appointment and you'll get them straight where you want them

[ColourBlindx2]

Originally Posted by gizbabe

I shall start the ball rolling then.....

How to Give a Tantric Lingam Massage

Originally Posted by gizbabe

Especially dedicated to Snow white, and the rest of you....

How to Give Tantric Yoni Massage To Woman

Nice posts! But people here are too busy trying to get laid, rather than giving genuine massages......... And the Colourblinds don't have the patience to give each other massages. And too lazy

Hehehehe...

Originally Posted by ac171

Lol! I shall consolidate what we have leaked...

Event: FFF(F) session
Date: Someday in 2012
Time: Auspicious time for FFF(F)
Place: Somewhere on the little red dot

Non-invited are not welcomed unless approved by FFF involved.

Getting pass me is never gonna be easy peasy

Originally Posted by Sen5eS

kekeke setup the FFF(mystery F? Your newly endorsed Sista BoinQueen?) exercise appointment and you'll get them straight where you want them

Ew. Boinking? Female version?? EEYUCK! Beer belly and all!!?


Colourblind f

[BoinKING]

Ya lo see I so bui bui until ppl say me le..
Haix

I go emo one corner liao..

[ColourBlindx2]

Originally Posted by BoinKING

Ya lo see I so bui bui until ppl say me le..
Haix

I go emo one corner liao..

Okay


Colourblind f

[Reoxy]

Originally Posted by ColourBlindx2

Getting pass me is never gonna be easy peasy
Colourblind f

Ooo... Gatekeeper. Got sexy uniform?

[Sen5eS]

Originally Posted by ColourBlindx2

Okay

Colourblind f

Wah ... Door Slam ! Very Loud Bang !

[Sen5eS]

Originally Posted by Reoxy

Ooo... Gatekeeper. Got sexy uniform?

In her peekini as per her Avatar ? Just 4 your private viewing pleasure ...

[ColourBlindx2]

Originally Posted by Reoxy

Ooo... Gatekeeper. Got sexy uniform?

Nope, but i will have a cane in one hand, a whip in the other.

Originally Posted by Sen5eS

Wah ... Door Slam ! Very Loud Bang !

No............i won't want to do that to Boinking..............wait he body slam me


Colourblind f