Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by Seletar

Few years back I heard my friend say can get $6 per shot in VN. Very pity the girl.

got girl there who come their period or menstration every month but no money to buy kotex.so they just use a towel and wrap their private part and use water to wash the towel every day to change

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by mao86

Best part is that 2daes ago, knn she called mi 2am in the mrn when i was slping.. .. 'OI you coming a not to bring me overnite at a rate of $200 1 shot.' Damm fucking hell sleeping also kana disturb.

I will Fxxx her upside down for disturbing my sleep. Wake me up still dare to charge so high price??!!!

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Golden question

got girl there who come their period or menstration every month but no money to buy kotex.so they just use a towel and wrap their private part and use water to wash the towel every day to change

how you know huh...

Originally Posted by jackbl

I will Fxxx her upside down for disturbing my sleep. Wake me up still dare to charge so high price??!!!

ya lor...really too much...so desperate meh....

some of these Viet WL dun know what to do and yet dare to ask for sky high prices...sometimes dun understand what these WLs are trying to do...pissed off...

[lanevoviii]

Guys seem like most of you are expert in Vietnamese language here. Should have posted my question here instead of starting a thread.

Anyway I got to know this little viet WL and exchanged number. Actually I wanted to ask for his KTV number, not her phone number. She gave me the latter.

Then recently, she sms me a few viet which google can't translate. You guys able to help?

"ban dang lam jh vay?"

"ban ban ron voi cong viec khong the goi mot cuoc dien thoai cho minh ah."

"ban nhan ko hieu gi tuoi. bay gio toi di an com."

"ban an com chua?" "anh an com chua?"

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by lanevoviii

Guys seem like most of you are expert in Vietnamese language here. Should have posted my question here instead of starting a thread.

Anyway I got to know this little viet WL and exchanged number. Actually I wanted to ask for his KTV number, not her phone number. She gave me the latter.

Then recently, she sms me a few viet which google can't translate. You guys able to help?

"ban dang lam jh vay?"

"ban ban ron voi cong viec khong the goi mot cuoc dien thoai cho minh ah."

"ban nhan ko hieu gi tuoi. bay gio toi di an com."

"ban an com chua?" "anh an com chua?"

repost here...

"ban dang lam jh vay?"
friend or you, what are you doing?

"ban ban ron voi cong viec khong the goi mot cuoc dien thoai cho minh ah."
friend very busy with work cannot send 1 sms to me ah...

"ban nhan ko hieu gi tuoi. bay gio toi di an com."
friend sms I dun understand ..now I go to eat

"ban an com chua?" "anh an com chua?"
friend eat already or not
bro or you eat already or not

my interpretation...

she used ban or friend which means treat you friend not close relationship
used anh or em then means very close relationship

dun think she likes you la...

you want her working number in KTV...should write like this...
Em di lam so cai gi

[ilovedoggie]

some updates from me with my second WL:

last 2 nite it was her birthday. she keep nt me asking me if i wan to see her and keep asking wat time i can go c her. i was at holland v uong rat nhieu bia that time.

after i decide to go her place with my friend driving. long story cut short, she intro her girl friend to my friend and the four of us went clubbing. after clubbing she went back to my place and we bonk FOC. she gave me her naked photo on her phone...

updates of me with the first WL:
we talked on the phone yesterday and she told me she's going to stop working in her hometown and ask me when i can go fetch her here. i told her i cannot confirm with her since it will be quite some time in advance. then she told me she got ask another friend(a customer) who can go there and fetch her here but the thing is she must pay for his air tix and pay him some money(she told me about this some time ago already).

I think she wan me to go because if i go i wont ask her for air tix and some charges... KNN! i check this thread roi. there's a similar story and the moral of that story is she got two robert lees. and i think my story is kind of similar...

[lanevoviii]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

you want her working number in KTV...should write like this...
Em di lam so cai gi

bro what does this mean?

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

some updates from me with my second WL

updates of me with the first WL

soon there will 3rd,4th,5th..... 100th WL.

[ilovedoggie]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

soon there will 3rd,4th,5th..... 100th WL.

Thanks bro KT. i hope to achieve that asap!

[ilovedoggie]

Originally Posted by lanevoviii

bro what does this mean?

em di lam so cai gi

em = you (referring to the girl u r talking to)
di = go
lam = do
di lam = go work
so = số = number
cai gi = what

meaning "what is your work number?"

[Seletar]

Originally Posted by Golden question

got girl there who come their period or menstration every month but no money to buy kotex.so they just use a towel and wrap their private part and use water to wash the towel every day to change

Usually kampong girls do like this, they don't use kotex.

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by Seletar

Usually kampong girls do like this, they don't use kotex.

I still remember that day,i was chatting with my wife.she say i was lucky that i was born in singapore and dont have to gone through all the hardship and poverty that their people have gone through.she say my last life should have done good deed,thats why born in singapore not like her,born in vietnam have to suffer

then something strike my mind,so i just ask her vietnam got girl come period but no money to buy kotex or not.she say:no need to ask other ppl,she is the one.i was numb for few second.

then she say when she was young,her family was poor,her mother got no money to buy kotex and she have to use the small towel as a replacement.my heart broke when hear this.

so sg girl should count themself very fortunate to be born here

[Alimi]

This thread is really good and has indeed revealed many valuable lessons learned for sharing with newbies liked myself. I do have my recent encounter since March till present as a case study on a unique VB life experience in Singapore to share as follows:-

For KTV VB working in Sing, I learned most are holding short term tourist visa 1+1 month although some are on student pass that can stay 3-6 months and on renewable basis upon expiry, if they are not caught in action.

In end Feb, I was at a popular KTV joint and got to know a 'decent looking' VB in her early 20s whom has been in Sing since early this year. I may say that she is not one of the ordinary type of KTV gals. She is no doubt after quick money and wanna make tons of it just like everyone else, but after getting to know more about her (inside-out !), I realized that she has a long term vision which is to search for a 'good man' to settle down in Singapore, to form family and raises kids, and to live an ordinary life happily just like most people.

I'm actually 'touch' to learn about her 'ambitious life goal' which is one good reason why she is carrying herself well despite of working as a KTV gal, as she said she would only ('sounds like forced to') go out with customers if and only if there is really a need to make that extra bucks due to shortage of money sometime. She told me that she has to support her study in Singapore as well as family back home. She 'claimed' that she only works during happy hours and rarely works in normal hours due to fear of being caught by authority for working under student pass visa - sounds logical to me and that's why not making enough to meet her ends meet and 'consistently' need more funding from me .

Initially, I made a mistake by involved emotionally and "almost" fallen in love with her but she is 'smart enough' to tactfully rejected me given reasons that I'm a family man with kids and she can not love me as a boy friend - she can only love single man that is financially sound to get marry with and to form family with in the near future. - I sincerely wish her all the best because I really like/fond her until to-date even though I know she tells lies most of the times - her unique surviving skill as a KTV VB.

She told me 'frankly' that she does not love me but likes me as a good man just like she likes few other good men (young and/or old) because of our monies - sugar bfs and/or daddies a money shaking tree.

I personally feels that we bros can spend reasonable amount of monies to enjoy emotionally and have fun with the VB that we really like as long as we mutually enjoy each others company, but we know that this is only for short term relationship without positive ending. However, this is not the same as the 1 night stand kind of relationship (via internet site) which is without true emotional feeling - like eating different types of plain breads each time.

I do not foresee a positive long term relationship with my current VB but I do enjoy every single moment being with her even though knowing that it's only for short term basis eg. it could be days, weeks or at most a few months more to be with her. Who knows what happens tomorrow?

As my VB and I asserted each others mature thinking that our relationship is solely built on Money and Sex associated with little emotion attachment since we agreed that we can not and should not attempt to develop beyond this M&S boundary.

No matter how, there is a hidden risk should uncontrollable emotion feeling on either party developed over time to becoming stronger and stronger ... which is something one should try prevent in order to prolong such relationship for a longer period of time if both parties wanted to.

[ilovedoggie]

Just now my gal (2nd WL I met) called me and told me my friend is at her ktv.it's true since I check w my friend and I make a trip down. I told my gal I will look for her.at the ktv, mummy told me my gal maybe got ppl booking and show me another VB. Quite hot...again my small head take over my big head and I say ON! Long story cut short, I forgot abt my gal and then when my hostess left I nt my gal and she told me she saw me hugging another ban gai. Long story cut short we were at the roadside quarreling and she cried. She say she left her customer bcuz I say I wan to see her but I hug another gal. I sent her home and nt her and Great... Now she wan to say bye bye(e nghi Minh nen chia tay nhau).she say how can she trust me anymore. How? I think I just made someone innocent sad and broke her heart. U guys still think this is part of her kc game? I dun think so ler...

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by Alimi

This thread is really good and has indeed revealed many valuable lessons learned for sharing with newbies liked myself. I do have my recent encounter since March till present as a case study on a unique VB life experience in Singapore to share as follows:-

For KTV VB working in Sing, I learned most are holding short term tourist visa 1+1 month although some are on student pass that can stay 3-6 months and on renewable basis upon expiry, if they are not caught in action.

In end Feb, I was at a popular KTV joint and got to know a 'decent looking' VB in her early 20s whom has been in Sing since early this year. I may say that she is not one of the ordinary type of KTV gals. She is no doubt after quick money and wanna make tons of it just like everyone else, but after getting to know more about her (inside-out !), I realized that she has a long term vision which is to search for a 'good man' to settle down in Singapore, to form family and raises kids, and to live an ordinary life happily just like most people.

I'm actually 'touch' to learn about her 'ambitious life goal' which is one good reason why she is carrying herself well despite of working as a KTV gal, as she said she would only ('sounds like forced to') go out with customers if and only if there is really a need to make that extra bucks due to shortage of money sometime. She told me that she has to support her study in Singapore as well as family back home. She 'claimed' that she only works during happy hours and rarely works in normal hours due to fear of being caught by authority for working under student pass visa - sounds logical to me and that's why not making enough to meet her ends meet and 'consistently' need more funding from me .

Initially, I made a mistake by involved emotionally and "almost" fallen in love with her but she is 'smart enough' to tactfully rejected me given reasons that I'm a family man with kids and she can not love me as a boy friend - she can only love single man that is financially sound to get marry with and to form family with in the near future. - I sincerely wish her all the best because I really like/fond her until to-date even though I know she tells lies most of the times - her unique surviving skill as a KTV VB.

She told me 'frankly' that she does not love me but likes me as a good man just like she likes few other good men (young and/or old) because of our monies - sugar bfs and/or daddies a money shaking tree.

I personally feels that we bros can spend reasonable amount of monies to enjoy emotionally and have fun with the VB that we really like as long as we mutually enjoy each others company, but we know that this is only for short term relationship without positive ending. However, this is not the same as the 1 night stand kind of relationship (via internet site) which is without true emotional feeling - like eating different types of plain breads each time.

I do not foresee a positive long term relationship with my current VB but I do enjoy every single moment being with her even though knowing that it's only for short term basis eg. it could be days, weeks or at most a few months more to be with her. Who knows what happens tomorrow?

As my VB and I asserted each others mature thinking that our relationship is solely built on Money and Sex associated with little emotion attachment since we agreed that we can not and should not attempt to develop beyond this M&S boundary.

No matter how, there is a hidden risk should uncontrollable emotion feeling on either party developed over time to becoming stronger and stronger ... which is something one should try prevent in order to prolong such relationship for a longer period of time if both parties wanted to.

Bro,thanks for sharing.Indeed what u say is what every bro should practise.Is a very clear mind approach.Most of the bro when go into emotional mode,will not think clearly of this kind of relationship.I am not saying is wrong to love a WL,there is still good girls among them but learn to be smart.

Know and understand how they think and do.Their main aim is to earn money and most of the time is those bro get emotional after they feel that the girl love them.Judge for yourself what they told u,either sweet talk,their story or what they do.

I was once at a Ktv with a viet and a guy keep on calling her asking her what she is doing,blar blar blar.she told me she just know this customer and he like keep on calling her like check with her what she is doing and what time go back.

before i left,she was explaining to that guy not to come down and find her as she was working.Well end of the day is,do not get involve in a WL if u are not prepare to accept what she do and u cannot feed her with money cos she is there to work for that