foreign bride. china vs vietnam

[eddy72]

Originally Posted by Earthman

But remember many of these girls marrry abroad for better life (excluding those foreign girls that are rich or are working professionals). They are willing to marry an older man, for vietnam girls even 20 years gap not an issue. But ask yourself, can you afford to support them and give them money to snd home to their families. Many such marriage breakdown because of money. Evenif you can afford, go slow, don't spend or give carefully. The trade of for age gap and difference in culture is money. But if the girl is with you long enough then there is feeling and emotion so money whilst still important can be sorted out.

My advice is get to know the girl first, just like you would date a singapore girl. Get to know her well, get to know her family well. Maybe after 1 or 2 years then marry her. If the girl is always asking for money then forget it, find another one. You are 40 still young, these girls don't mind no need to rush. Besides courtship can be fun and memorable.

No chance for 1 - 2 year courtship. For hainan gal, maybe a few day of outing to know each other. What i last heard is early 30s gal n almost 60s guy.. Just had a 3yrs old baby..by the guy..
For vietnam gal, almost no chance. I pay full on the spot, i get her bk on the spot.. Maybe can ask her a few simple question, through the agency boss.. Worse, language barrier..
At 40, still can do many thing. But at 40, actually not much time left liao.. Got to consider many factors..all sort of factors..zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

[Earthman]

What you are going for is blind marriage, pay and go. It has its risks, what you see may not be what you get and the same vice versa. But the girls are just too eager to marry to get out of poverty. If things don't work out they buy a ticket and run back to their native country. Most successful marriages that i have seen are thru introduction, they have some time to understand each other better.

If blind marriage is what you want then china girls might be better for you. At least culture, food and language is not a barrier. Most of the vietnam brides are from villiages and can only speak very basic mandarin. Not enough to communicate and you will only get tons of misunderstanding. Unless you are prepared to accept their culture and learn vietnamese, your risks are much higher than china girls.

Good luck with your search and i wish you all the best.

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very good sharing guys!

[weewee23]

Just happened to see this thread... so long ago liao!