ShangHai Recommendation!

[3m3m3m]

yo yo yo... will be in SHA on 07/05 nite to 10/05 and staying at RAINBOW HOTEL (HONGQIO BING GUAN) , wanna meet bro there but cant coz work commitment..will reach back hotel 10pm daily...any late spa around that corner?

I can't really read chinese..so any English name will be helpful.I read thru the post,alots of name but still confused..haiz..

Thanks in advance...

[Niceman]

Originally Posted by SGPshanghai69

Bro Niceman,
Thank you for your kind words.
I'm older than you and that is a true fact but without the charm as you said I am. How on earth can someone be older & charming? Not logical la bro.....

I'm having domestic problems let alone guiding you & being your mentor? I wish I could but I'm not up to it as yet bro. My life experiences isn't that fulfilling to be one as yet.
Bro, whether be it PRC mm or any woman species in the world, they're literally all the same as long as they're women that is!
All I can say for now to you, if you choose to be with one (a woman) live with it, face it and persever thru it.
Women....man cannot live with one, but also cannot live without one! Honestly, I'm feeling very strained into my HKG GF realtionship now bro....maybe I can think better & live more lively alone for now....just feeling all so tired everyday going home.... Take care...speak soon! Cheerios.....

Bro SGP,
logical lah, cos u older but look younger than me. Tall and yandao mah

Well said Bro, women are all the same indeed. If I cannot achieve what I looking for in 2months, i still stuck in Sillypore and end the story with Ms Jinqiao, which is the last thing I would wish for. So far so good when I with her, never had such great feeling, but no worry bro, I know where I stand and always expect the unexpected especially with a Sh ger, not mentioning a PRC. Their culture is very different from our ancestors now. Their feeling machiam like SH stock market.

Maybe u have been single for a long time or dun have the heart to settle down, whereas ur Ms Dim Sum is aging and concern about giving birth? U kana pressurize by her huh? Am sure u have a way, I have faith in you bro.

Cannot be mentor? hey hey, u humble again. Wah liao eh, mai ke ki lah. I always look up to you for advices.

You take good care bro. If this trip not fruitful, my next trip will be a pure holiday cum ending trip.

[holein1]

Originally Posted by SGPshanghai69

Bro Niceman,

Women....man cannot live with one, but also cannot live without one! Honestly, I'm feeling very strained into my HKG GF realtionship now bro....maybe I can think better & live more lively alone for now....just feeling all so tired everyday going home....

Take care...speak soon! Cheerios.....

aiyah bro, you just have to make that decision. you know it. how many years liao since we know each other? like my case, that time remember you asked me if i am sure or not, well i can't say i am f***ing happy right now, but hey, i decided that i want to marry her and i persevere (your own words) thru it, amidst so many objections from friends and parents.

now, i am happy father of a baby son and er...hopefully a good shanghaiese wife..

[holein1]

Originally Posted by Niceman

Bro holein1,

Ya man, u got a very good piece of advice. Irregardless whether is ger issue or how to take train from point a to b, still need guidance from all snr bros. Big or small, I appreciate also.

**snipped**

My ROI is more like a "rewards" if I could achieve certain goal, not so much of economic issue, maybe later on.

bro, no issue. good on your ROI stuff.. haha. just be careful when you are dealing with a shanghaiese, especially. haha. you can consult me lei, on that one. i can write a book on Sleeping with Shanghaiese for Dummies liao..dare not say i am the ultimate scholar, but at least trust me, i went through the super hard way of courting from spore (against cb big spenders) and choosing to quit my job in spore and come to shanghai to showdown and till now, with a kid and all's quite well.

not easy, but i made it, and will continue to make sure i do.

btw, if you come to shanghai, look for me bro..

hin1

[holein1]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

Bro, while what you said might be true, there is a group of SBF members who prefer to write about their failure to warn others, I am one of them. Hahahaha.. Maybe old man has nothing to lose.

Regards

PTR

PTR, i have read your posts before, and i think they are good lessons for yourself, me and many others. my previous post is more referring to you know whos la..seriously i listen too much on ppl saying this and that success, and it seems like they are the edison in the girls eyes no matter where they go. ma na o ko leng, tio bo (how can it be possible, right) ? maybe sometimes got pray la, but most of the time or everytime?

you know ppl like us (eg. sh69) who have the time and place advantage also dont dare to lay such claims...haha.

but hor PTR, you beware your camera lei..scarly one day i see you all over internet or baidu.. haha..PTR and Ah ..., PTR and C...., PTR and Furong Sister (oooops...).

[Pink_Flyod]

Originally Posted by SGPshanghai69

Bro Niceman,
Thank you for your kind words.
I'm older than you and that is a true fact but without the charm as you said I am. How on earth can someone be older & charming? Not logical la bro.....

I'm having domestic problems let alone guiding you & being your mentor? I wish I could but I'm not up to it as yet bro. My life experiences isn't that fulfilling to be one as yet.
Bro, whether be it PRC mm or any woman species in the world, they're literally all the same as long as they're women that is!
All I can say for now to you, if you choose to be with one (a woman) live with it, face it and persever thru it.
Women....man cannot live with one, but also cannot live without one! Honestly, I'm feeling very strained into my HKG GF realtionship now bro....maybe I can think better & live more lively alone for now....just feeling all so tired everyday going home....

Take care...speak soon! Cheerios.....

Bro SGP... I agree with you woman comment but not entirely. Wife will be nagging as well as GF too... this is the nature of woman. We are all imperfect. Having said that, I do see many woman who are very supportive of their husband carreer and wanted to stay home to ensure that he does not worry about the home stuff. I find cantonese and fujian gals are this sort of quality that can take care of the household, allow the husband / boyfriend to go out at night to entertaine, to allow the husband / boyfriend to travel frequently etc etc as long as you bring home more than breads.

Alternatively.... go single but damn loneyly sometime after reaching certain age....

[howtocheong]

Hi Bro

Need some advise from you.
I will be staying in Howard Johnson Caida Plaza Shanghai next week, at 188 Wudong Road.
Is there any good HC there or nearby as you bro here can recommend as this is my first time visiting SH.
Thanks in advance

[Niceman]

Originally Posted by holein1

bro, no issue. good on your ROI stuff.. haha. just be careful when you are dealing with a shanghaiese, especially. haha. you can consult me lei, on that one. i can write a book on Sleeping with Shanghaiese for Dummies liao..dare not say i am the ultimate scholar, but at least trust me, i went through the super hard way of courting from spore (against cb big spenders) and choosing to quit my job in spore and come to shanghai to showdown and till now, with a kid and all's quite well.

not easy, but i made it, and will continue to make sure i do.

btw, if you come to shanghai, look for me bro..

hin1

Hey hey.... that's what I have looking for bro.!!!

errr...... how come I see a reflection of myself? kekekek... i also quiting my job in Sillypore and wanting to settle down here in SH, maybe ppl may think is cos of woman, but that has been my dream since donkey years ago. She is my "reward" and "push factor"

check PM bro.

[notti_boi]

Originally Posted by Sexatronic

... then u sneak back to Shanghai Hotel for a quickie.

Originally Posted by SGPshanghai69

Hi there,
As per your mentioned request, my proposed hotel for your wife & you to stay in is Shanghai Hotel...

Looks like Shanghai Hotel it shall be! Thanks Bros!

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by howtocheong

Hi Bro

Need some advise from you.

Should be "Need some ADVICE from you.".

"Advise" is a verb.

[SGPshanghai69]

Originally Posted by Niceman

Bro SGP,
Well said Bro, women are all the same indeed. If I cannot achieve what I looking for in 2months, i still stuck in Sillypore and end the story with Ms Jinqiao, which is the last thing I would wish for. So far so good when I with her, never had such great feeling, but no worry bro, I know where I stand and always expect the unexpected especially with a Sh ger, not mentioning a PRC. Their culture is very different from our ancestors now. Their feeling machiam like SH stock market.

Maybe u have been single for a long time or dun have the heart to settle down, whereas ur Ms Dim Sum is aging and concern about giving birth? U kana pressurize by her huh? Am sure u have a way, I have faith in you bro.

You take good care bro. If this trip not fruitful, my next trip will be a pure holiday cum ending trip.

Hi Bro Niceman,
Thanks for your encouraging words (RED) here.
I'm pretty much fine for now, just feeling strained when being asked again & again by her & her peers on the issue of "M".....you know la....
Been there & done that once B4...so I'm bound to have some fear again.....sigh.... She's indeed wanting a child too.....

Hope you found your right one as you said bro.....but my honest opinion to you is spend more time to know her better........the cultural differences is still bound to be a problem. Even in my case with Miss Hang Seng HKG who's from a metropolitan city like HKG, we still faces cultural differences & views...so imagine how yours would be bro? Most of all, the "everything penny to be spend is upon your expenses" attitude by the typical SHA gals & typical their family upbringing which are instilled into since young, one has to be able to face & live with it.....as what Bro Holein1 said. The family of hers will sure to be expecting to buy them a house, a car and so on after you married her daughter or planning to marry her.....maybe not all of them are as such but I'm pretty sure most of them are.

Lastly, wishing you all the best in your job hunting here to be relocated to Shanghai bro, be it for your SHA GF or for your career path & future....hope to catch you up soon! Cheerios............take care!

[SGPshanghai69]

Originally Posted by howtocheong

Hi Bro

Need some advise from you.
I will be staying in Howard Johnson Caida Plaza Shanghai next week, at 188 Wudong Road.
Is there any good HC there or nearby as you bro here can recommend as this is my first time visiting SH.

Yo Bro howtocheong,
Where you're staying at, The Howard Johnson Caida Plaza Shanghai is located in Yangpu District, a bit pretty far away from downtown area like Jingan. A mere taxi ride to Jingan Temple area from your hotel costs approx RMB 40-50 Yuan, needs about 35mins ride.

The best bro to check with on this area & what's available there is our Senior Bro Oceaneleven as he stays in Yangpu area too and have been staying there for afew years. He knows better.

Hope the info above helps. Cheerios.............

[SGPshanghai69]

Originally Posted by holein1

aiyah bro, you just have to make that decision. like my case, that time remember you asked me if i am sure or not, well i can't say i am f***ing happy right now, but hey, i decided that i want to marry her and i persevere (your own words) thru it, amidst so many objections from friends and parents.

now, i am happy father of a baby son and er...hopefully a good shanghaiese wife..

Yo Bro Holein1,
Thanks for your encouraging words here too!
Indeed one in life has to made many decisions, and this is one of them which many men or bros here are pretty fearful of, maybe. I'm one of them for sure, for now......
I guessed I will just have to persevere thru it in my very own words for now............for now.
Happy to know that you're all so happy with your life now bro....well done!
Keep you posted on my outcome.
Cheers.

[v.killers]

Originally Posted by technofreak

So our dear Vk now active in this thread?? Been searching high n low for u in HCM thread...Just kidding

Anyway...I last stayed in Hotel 168 in Zhabei District (10 min walk from main train station) along Chang An road. Very cheap (130RMB) 2 or 3 star I think. Alot of street FLs nearby and there's even a BIG niteclub (forgot the name) just opposite the hotel.

Hope this info helps...

Cheers,
Techno

Techno,
So now also active in SBF liao huh?

Sigh, now in Shanghai but no action yet, cos yesterdat nite just arrive. maybe have to stay until 29th of May until customer go back.

Ok, will try your recommendation...

Cheers VK

[SGPshanghai69]

Originally Posted by v.killers

Techno,
Sigh, now in Shanghai but no action yet, cos yesterdat nite just arrive. maybe have to stay until 29th of May until customer go back.

Ok, will try your recommendation...
Cheers VK

Bro V.Killers,
Alternatively, you can also try Greentree Inn. Check out their website at www.greentree.com.cn for more info & a suitable outlet to your pick. It's relatively cheap as well, with better locations. RMB 289.00 net for an Executive Suite.

They are very centrally located within the heart of town as compared to where you'rve stayed previously which is more remote.
Hope the above info helps.
Cheerios bro...have a good stay here!
P.S. : Getting pretty hot here now in the day....sigh...Summer is here again!