Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

hahaha...your gf is telling you her own experience...just my 2 dongs worth...

Bro ...

you so direct ha ... i thought of saying that but pai sei

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Vietnam power prices up 15 pct in March

Originally Posted by SingViet

Thai police free 14 Vietamese women from illegal baby ring

bro, you kana the jackbl 'news caster' virus huh?

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Normal low pay factory worker, waitress, servers dun earn so much. Should be earning 1-2 mil VND

in resturant... (base on direct conversion of 1:10000)
waiter/waitress : $120 - $150
supervisor : $180 - $200
cashier : $150
cook: $400

overpaying any of the position?

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

in resturant...
waiter/waitress : $120 - $150
supervisor : $180 - $200
cashier : $150
cook: $400

overpaying any of the position?

em oi...how come you know the salary in hcm so well...

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

em oi...how come you know the salary in hcm so well...

guessing

[torn]

Hi BRO, i am new here and need your advise urgently...

i Met a WL in a pub call ec*o in JC.. She is call ah Ng.. I really wonder what is her true motives as she claim she love me a lot.

1) have not been paying her money for the past few month after many rounds of bonking.

2) Vounleteered to give me 3k after i told her i got no money

3) Bearing me children even though she noe i got GF and intend to settle down with her

4) Did not ask money from me!!!!

5) Pay all the expense in vietnam when i visit her and even marriage photo for her to put in her house in her parent

6) ask me to do up a fake marriage for her parents to see so that she can bear my children so that her parents do not lose face...

i am really torn apart as my house in singapore in ready

app ur help bro..

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by shysaint

My friend , there are many categories of working girls ..... bear this in your mind , doesn't mean a girl work in such places selll her body ... and doesn't mean a girl in such places allow you to touch her here and there means she will sell your body to you and let you f**k her ....

Why dun you try going to such places and try asking all the girls if they do sell their body and see how many can u get?

In VN, girl who Don't work in such places do sell their body too ... some let u f**k for free ...

U sure u know Vn ??? I doubt so ...

No wonder naemlo laugh at your statement ...

Different bros got to know VN in different ways at different pace. What the other bro's ger stated is actually very true in VN. I remember when i first arrived in HCMC, my viet friend brought me to a bar. There's this very nice looking and sexy Liquor promoter. I wanted to bed her but was told that she doesn't sleep with customers. I realised that her bf picked her up from the bar every night. My viet friend told me not to worry, he told me we will work our way thru her manager. The next 4 nights, i was there at the bar waiting to strike. The manager keep asking her to keep me company and i also gave good tips. By the end of the week, her manager told me we can go out for 2 hours, but not overnight. The manager managed to convinced her to go with me. We had a session, she was shy, but the session was damm boring, as she's like a dead fish. The next day, i was at the bar again. She told me she was pressured by her manager to do it with me, or she will lose her job.

So let's be a friendly fellow vietnam samster and share our experience.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

in resturant... (base on direct conversion of 1:10000)
waiter/waitress : $120 - $150
supervisor : $180 - $200
cashier : $150
cook: $400

overpaying any of the position?

Cafe om PR -- 2.5 million VND per month.... how i know? that's the market rate for cafe gers working in Q7 cafes.

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Different bros got to know VN in different ways at different pace. What the other bro's ger stated is actually very true in VN. I remember when i first arrived in HCMC, my viet friend brought me to a bar. There's this very nice looking and sexy Liquor promoter. I wanted to bed her but was told that she doesn't sleep with customers. I realised that her bf picked her up from the bar every night. My viet friend told me not to worry, he told me we will work our way thru her manager. The next 4 nights, i was there at the bar waiting to strike. The manager keep asking her to keep me company and i also gave good tips. By the end of the week, her manager told me we can go out for 2 hours, but not overnight. The manager managed to convinced her to go with me. We had a session, she was shy, but the session was damm boring, as she's like a dead fish. The next day, i was at the bar again. She told me she was pressured by her manager to do it with me, or she will lose her job.

So let's be a friendly fellow vietnam samster and share our experience.

Bro .. SingViet, I defintely agree on your statement and of course the bro's statement ...

However, we still cannot generalised most of the Girls or ALL girls who work in these places SELL their bodies ...

We must bear in mind that the person approaching them is not a local vietnamese .... unless the local vietnamese is filty rich .... we are foreigners ... 'CHAI TAO' reached already

I also dun believe that the girl is being pressurize to do so .... she herself already got do , it is perhaps just a show for you to see ... letting you know that you actually pick up a gem .. but in fact it's not .... so we are willing to pay more , probably slightly above market rate ...

I seriously cannot denied the fact that , it is easy to get these type of working girls , in my opinion, they can get it for free with proper investment and time ... just as a FB ... do not even need to pay .... especially with foriegners ,

thats by 2 cents worth.

[SureScore]

Originally Posted by SingViet

So let's be a friendly fellow vietnam samster and share our experience.

Agreed to this statement. This thread is about sharing experience.

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by SingViet

So let's be a friendly fellow vietnam samster and share our experience.

Originally Posted by SureScore

Agreed to this statement. This thread is about sharing experience.

If my sharing sounds harsh or not friendly .... My sincere apologies ...

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by shysaint

If my sharing sounds harsh or not friendly .... My sincere apologies ...

daily we lived in stressful life...so dun be over sensitive with words...just take each other views as comments, feedback...

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by miua55555

My viet gf said, work in pubs and disco sell drink like whiskey etc is almost as good as selling body too. Customers will try to "da bao" the girl home, if girl reject, they will pressure the boss to pressure the girl.

Originally Posted by shysaint

If my sharing sounds harsh or not friendly .... My sincere apologies ...

Relax.... everyone has the right to believe in his own view. Just my own view and my encounters in Vietnam. I just find it funny when gers are pressured by boss, they will sell their bodies. Then I can pressure my female colleague cos I am the boss

Also from miua55555's gf comment, it is like no secret abt whiskey ger needs to sell body then those who are willing to work, no need to be pressured by boss and those are unwilling to sell her body will not work. Logical thinking....

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by torn

i Met a WL in a pub call ec*o in JC.. She is call ah Ng.. I really wonder what is her true motives as she claim she love me a lot.

her motive is to proof that the gals working there can earn alot

since you are getting married and got a house, forget about this girl lor... she is just another WL mah.
i remember many viet gals working in JC say that ec*o is a whore house...

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by shysaint

I also dun believe that the girl is being pressurize to do so .... she herself already got do , it is perhaps just a show for you to see ... letting you know that you actually pick up a gem .. but in fact it's not .... so we are willing to pay more , probably slightly above market rate ...

bro, i have been in vietnam for 9 years roi. You think i so stupid and inexperienced to still think that that girl is just doing for show? I do business in VN and stayed there for many years, i have seen a lot of such cases. Initially when i was told about such practises, i don't believe too. But after being there for long enough and seeing quite some cases, i changed my perception and i believed. I owned cafe om before and also had once invested as partner in a local bar, i have come across and have seen. In Singapore, its not possible to pressure any lady to have sex with you thru the manager, but in vietnam, such practises are common. That's the reason why there's a saying that there's no girl that work in the Vietnam bar that's not for sale. The so-called different type of WL, some seat seat only etc etc, are just bull shit by the WL to deceive the naive Singaporean guy. Think about it, seat seat can earn how much? If the gals are prepared to work in bar, they are prepared to sell. A lot of things that doesn't happen in Singapore have been happening in Vietnam for the longest period of time.