Wife & Sex - going through the motion

[Book-keeper]

Originally Posted by tantan1234

All of a sudden our stories hit a chord with so many husbands out there.
At times when i see other accomodating wifes I so hope she gives in just abit.

I want my kid, want a warm home. All i want.

Perhaps I want back the old her. The person who pat toh with me, everything ok, everything she follows, let me decide, plays a listening ear, and gives great advise...

I also miss my wife when she was my gf or when we just get married... We use to have a more active sex life... How comes girls cannot understand that we guys need sex... Now hardly twice a month!

I tried the FL, the problem is that somehow I am not able to have a hardon for long with others... Not sure why but I able to have a good sex with my wife...

Why it is so difficult to get sex from wife? Any brother has good recommendation?

[v-factor]

Originally Posted by tantan1234

Nope. Coz my wife is a stubbon person, dont tink it helps. ALso i already expect wat they will tell us- everyone has faults, bear with it, have conversations etc etc. All very banal from the old textbook stuff. U kw wat i mean?


And fuck. After more than 1 mth without sex thought of asking her for one, also as a chance to better things btw us.
She straight off turn me down.

I wonder why only she can decide when to have it.
And i wonder why she can't just even when she dont have urge, at least when husband ask for it, maybe just give in to me? for 10 request at least 2 to pacify me? Now it is none she gave in out of 10. Only when she feels ok then gives green light. SHe becomes the decider.

how about having your wife coming to you and say "can we do that quickly? else you'll complain that i don't give you sex"

that sucks. that's why i force.

[tantan1234]

Originally Posted by v-factor

how about having your wife coming to you and say "can we do that quickly? else you'll complain that i don't give you sex"

that sucks. that's why i force.

Hey really they will say tat! Haha

And "u force"????!!

[piggylin]

Originally Posted by v-factor

how about having your wife coming to you and say "can we do that quickly? else you'll complain that i don't give you sex"

that sucks. that's why i force.

Thats" Mean! I will never tell that to my partner...!

[notti4u]

Originally Posted by v-factor

how about having your wife coming to you and say "can we do that quickly? else you'll complain that i don't give you sex"

that sucks. that's why i force.

Bro, this is exactly what I got from my wife.... "quick lah, I want to sleep....". Or Faster come, I open my leg and u just poke" and last sentence, Don't say I never give u release ok.

With such comments, its really turn me off and I told her, I rather DIY than to fuck her. She just goes back to sleep and say to me " Not that I don't want to give you, its you who don't want, ok".

[v-factor]

Originally Posted by tantan1234

Hey really they will say tat! Haha

And "u force"????!!

yep. force her to engage. rub on some lubricant and just go into her and wake her up when she's sound asleep. that'll teach that bitch.

Originally Posted by piggylin

Thats" Mean! I will never tell that to my partner...!

indeed. apparently some ladies don't know the seriousness of that kind of replies.

Originally Posted by notti4u

Bro, this is exactly what I got from my wife.... "quick lah, I want to sleep....". Or Faster come, I open my leg and u just poke" and last sentence, Don't say I never give u release ok.

With such comments, its really turn me off and I told her, I rather DIY than to fuck her. She just goes back to sleep and say to me " Not that I don't want to give you, its you who don't want, ok".

try ignoring her, and reject her attempts. perhaps she'll "wake up"? still, there are chances of her taking things as it is. so there's a risk. haha...

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by v-factor

yep. force her to engage. rub on some lubricant and just go into her and wake her up when she's sound asleep. that'll teach that bitch.



indeed. apparently some ladies don't know the seriousness of that kind of replies.



try ignoring her, and reject her attempts. perhaps she'll "wake up"? still, there are chances of her taking things as it is. so there's a risk. haha...

nice one bro....

[piggylin]

Originally Posted by notti4u

Bro, this is exactly what I got from my wife.... "quick lah, I want to sleep....". Or Faster come, I open my leg and u just poke" and last sentence, Don't say I never give u release ok.

With such comments, its really turn me off and I told her, I rather DIY than to fuck her. She just goes back to sleep and say to me " Not that I don't want to give you, its you who don't want, ok".

If I'm a man.. think my small bro will not even get hard... once listen to that already sian half... listen all.. totally no mood... Must sit down & talk to her..

[Shadow_warrior]

So can we have a GTM club?

I am signing up for get togethers to complain, lament, drink etc...

1. Shadow_warrior

Moderator is it okay to put it in this thread?

[v-factor]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

So can we have a GTM club?

I am signing up for get togethers to complain, lament, drink etc...

1. Shadow_warrior

Moderator is it okay to put it in this thread?

if there are sisters who are joining to give their point of view. haahaa...

[v-factor]

Originally Posted by piggylin

If I'm a man.. think my small bro will not even get hard... once listen to that already sian half... listen all.. totally no mood... Must sit down & talk to her..

how about talking but she's not doing anything? frankly i believe brothers here who face the same problem would have already tried sitting down to talk about this matter. which is of course to no avail. else there won't be so many here complaining.

in fact, i believe that unless the female partners are willing to acknowledge this issue to be their problem, or at least let their husbands/boyfriends know that they are not turned, no matter how and what men do is not going to help the situation.

[notti4u]

Originally Posted by v-factor

how about talking but she's not doing anything? frankly i believe brothers here who face the same problem would have already tried sitting down to talk about this matter. which is of course to no avail. else there won't be so many here complaining.

in fact, i believe that unless the female partners are willing to acknowledge this issue to be their problem, or at least let their husbands/boyfriends know that they are not turned, no matter how and what men do is not going to help the situation.

Bingo, Bro V...... had tried talking to her and do all sorts of things but still useless...... I guess maybe I should bring a girl home and tell her since u r not providing my needs, then I get someone to do it for me but you cannot use this as a threat to me when you file for divorce. hahaha

[v-factor]

Originally Posted by notti4u

Bingo, Bro V...... had tried talking to her and do all sorts of things but still useless...... I guess maybe I should bring a girl home and tell her since u r not providing my needs, then I get someone to do it for me but you cannot use this as a threat to me when you file for divorce. hahaha

ever heard of "house-keeping"? if you divorce, she'll keep the house.

speaking of talking about it and all that.... any brothers realise that sex-less marriage actually lengthen the distance in the hearts?

[LovePotion]

now divorce is so common unlike our parents days...if u just wanna married just for that cert... then i would advise u not to waste ur precious time and do stupid thing

[tantan1234]

Originally Posted by v-factor

try ignoring her, and reject her attempts. perhaps she'll "wake up"? still, there are chances of her taking things as it is. so there's a risk. haha...

Don't ever try this. Esp to ladies who said "faster hor". They will tink "oh ok lor better" then they continue to sleep. Mths or YEARS later when u ask her why no sex she will say "u dont want one wat!"
Trust me. U ignore them they more happy. No disturbance.

I worst. Kana called sex pervert. When sex is not more than 2 times per week (just married, and trying for kid) she said ALOT. 2 times per week= pervert? She never heard b4 those who want twice per day one? Or once per day tink will kill her liao.


Coome on lor we trying for baby .I told her want bb must work harder. She said like tat ALOT?!?

Times I condescend and told her "i very fast", "few pokes only", she reject. Told her u lie there open leg I do all the job she say tired.(no action tired?) Ask her use mouth she reject. Okie I said or u use hand. SHe reject say wait must WASH HAND. Ask her why like tat she said her friends also not tat frequent. Very powerful.
I shld have told her yr frend let husband poke ass. So... show me yr ass!