Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by chickeeduck

Today she said she didn't want to bother me and wanted a break, again she is not picking up call. What should I do? I do know her home address and cannot rush to her home. Is this part of viets plot or she is not even interested in me? Cam on rat nhieu.

If I were you then bye bye and hello to new gf...since you oredi went to Vn, you should know that there are plenty of beautiful gers there waiting for us Snkie men...I can't be bothered if a ger in Vn wanted to act tough and hard to get...as long as we wear the pants we go there and get what we wanted and not go there to get heartache...

All she was doing is just to see how important is she to you...but so long she needs you more than you need her then you have the upper hand...all these are part of kc trap...Vn gers are good at this plot or game...

Play their game and play it well and better than them...

Above is just my personal 2 dongs worth...

[chickeeduck]

What the bros said is true, just now, I told her if that's the way she want then I am fine with it. SMS started to come and we had a phone call just now. I think we are playing viet wisdom from a group of them. Their action may have been consulted. My observation and cam thay so far.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by chickeeduck

What the bros said is true, just now, I told her if that's the way she want then I am fine with it. SMS started to come and we had a phone call just now. I think we are playing viet wisdom from a group of them. Their action may have been consulted. My observation and cam thay so far.

There's a few possible reasons why she's undecided,

(1) For sure she has more than 1 bf and she is trying to decide who is more loaded and can be kc

(2) By using the withdrawal method, she is trying to make you want her more

Welcome to the Viet KC club, where minds become dumb, dick over-rules, pocket kanna sucked out and hearts left broken.

[Seletar]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

I have no idea if my Viet g/f will ever be my life partner…

I met my gal at JC Cherry last July. It was her 1st time in Sillypore. I met her on her 3rd day of work and subsequently have been buying her dinner and sending her to work, sometimes send her home or bring her out after her work. On her 11th day, she was caught in a raid, but she never tell me at all. Dunno why the ICA is good enuff for her to stay till her 14th day and not deporting her back. On the very day she left, I never send her off. She left alone… heartbroken w/o me noticing it.

She promised me that she will be back in three weeks time. But on the very day she supposed to come back Sillypore, she spill the beans and tell me everything thru hp sms. She is banned from coming into Sillypore for 3 years. On hearing that, my reaction should have been “its just another Viet WL in JC, time to look for another target”. But that was not my reaction…I was sadden by the news, I never give her up but rather i keep in contact with her. I promised her that I will go and look for her in December I fulfilled my promise and went Vietnam to tour and also see her from 23rd to 31st Dec. After coming back from Vietnam, we contact each other more. I setup a msn account for her in Vietnam, taught her to use it. Now nearly every night after her work, we will chat in msn.

My friends have been finding it funny for me to continue contacting this Viet gal for so long and still fly to Vietnam to see her.

Friend: “She don’t even know how to speak or write English/Chinese, You only know how to read a bit of Viet but dun really know how to speak Viet… got communication problem leh”
ME: “she is now taking up English lesson 3 times a week, and I intend to pick up proper Viet language lesson… anyway communicate less means less argument”

Friend: “she is just a plain jane and not very pretty type. There are a lot more chio and sexy Viet gals who can satisfy you...party animal”
ME: “I sense that her heart is good… sense that she is a good girl, she is still lookable lah...if she put on make up she look nice wat. Yap, there is alot of sexy babes, but they are just for ONS and fling.”

Friend: “She come Sillypore to work in JC before leh…..may go lam tinh many times liao.. you still want such gal meh”
ME: “I belief that she come here work becoz she see her friend can earn so much in Sillypore and she wanted to release the burden off her parents. I belief that she never go lam tinh to earn money, just sit and chat with customer or let so guys touch touch only…I belief she is a good girl”

Friend: “She maybe working in same line in Viet and you dun know”
ME: “she told me she works in shopping center as sales girl. She actually knows that working in massage parlor can earn more money, but her parents and me will be unhappy, so she rather earn less than let people around her be sad….I belief her”

Sorry for the super long story/post..... just hope that bro out there can help me understand what i am going thru and what i will face if i continue this relationship...thanks

Bro, your story is the same as mine, my gf confessed working in JC and lam tinh once with a customer, I accepted her, and we ctc each other everyday thru' sms and phone call, want to try msn but dun know how.

[chickeeduck]

Ya. Think so. Thanks for the advice. Moi nam vui ve.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Seletar

Bro, your story is the same as mine, my gf confessed working in JC and lam tinh once with a customer, I accepted her, and we ctc each other everyday thru' sms and phone call, want to try msn but dun know how.

you just brought up what was 4 years back... makes me recall back the ups and downs i went through...
i am glad she is still with me till today

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Seletar

Bro, your story is the same as mine, my gf confessed working in JC and lam tinh once with a customer, I accepted her, and we ctc each other everyday thru' sms and phone call, want to try msn but dun know how.

Originally Posted by KangTuo

you just brought up what was 4 years back... makes me recall back the ups and downs i went through...i am glad she is still with me till today

That's what I was wondering...good that bro Seletar is reading the past forums...definitely worth alot of experiences if he follows the examples here...

[Blk420]

Originally Posted by Rejuvenation

any bros know of any travel informations on Bac Lieu province? any ways to reach there fast?

bac lieu is very far from HCMC. about 6-8 hours.
usually will take overnight bus from phong trang. can get tickets at Q1 pham ngu lao. Phong trang bus terminal.

only went once. other bros might wanna contribute too.

[VietnamLover]

Originally Posted by Rejuvenation

any bros know of any travel informations on Bac Lieu province? any ways to reach there fast?

Better go to Ben Xe Mien Tay in HCMC and buy a bus ticket to Bac Lieu province.

[Seletar]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Vietnamese do not need any proper bed or any house with proper sanitation to live in. They can sleep anywhere.

My gf just shifted room and she told me it is unfurnished, no bed and she sleeps on the cement floor, very cold and body pain. I think she don't have money to buy bed, indirectly asking me for $$. Don't know true or not, is it a ploy to ask for money ?

[SureScore]

Originally Posted by Seletar

My gf just shifted room and she told me it is unfurnished, no bed and she sleeps on the cement floor, very cold and body pain. I think she don't have money to buy bed, indirectly asking me for $$. Don't know true or not, is it a ploy to ask for money ?

Very common for Vn to sleep on the floor. In fact there sleep every where and don't need a bed.

[teebs_darklord]

Originally Posted by Seletar

My gf just shifted room and she told me it is unfurnished, no bed and she sleeps on the cement floor, very cold and body pain. I think she don't have money to buy bed, indirectly asking me for $$. Don't know true or not, is it a ploy to ask for money ?

If you pity her, then just buy her a cheap mattress...

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by SureScore

Very common for Vn to sleep on the floor. In fact there sleep every where and don't need a bed.

Their specialty, sleeping on the bike....

[RealEstateGuy]

Modern SG society and the people it breeds are really incompatible with Vietnaese soceity. Nothing but misunderstandings to navigate and to develop heartache over? Have you consdered that sometimes the best course of action is not course of action?

[maxrex]

My Vietnamese wife's sister is currently in Singapore for 3 weeks. She will like to meet a potential guy for a serious relationship with a view to marriage in the future. If anyone here is serious to make friend with my sister in law, kindly please PM me. Thank you.