Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl

[mrsg]

Originally Posted by pussyman72

Hi All

I like to check anyone have been involve with a ex gaylang girl or your friend that have been involve and successfully get married here in singapore, also getting a long term visit pass or PR.

well i got involved, she used to work in GL 5 yrs ago. i have check with the AV and they said they got nothing to do with it anymore after she have terminate the permit. They ask me to check with ICA

I have gone down to ICA and check, ICA officer told me that normally girl working in this line after they gone back home . there is a restriction for this girls to come in singapore. restriction could be 1, 2 to 3 yrs or even indef. The officer will tell them the rules before they go back home.

So long the girl obey the rule n regulation. After the restriction she should not have a problem coming back to singapore for a visit.

I ask the officer how about getting married in singapore after 5 to 6yrs. they said it not their problem, there is no rule saying they cant get married here. the only problem is the short and long term visit pass.

ICA may not approved her visit pass but it base on case to case. Officer told me, they will check on my work n income also check on her before deciding whether to give her the pass.

she stress that i had to be prepare to live seperately if the pass is not approved, but i can try again in another few yrs and maybe they will approved it but this also depend on case to case. she still stress that my girl may not be able to get it approved.....

Big Headache for me..... can anyone share with me their experience. i wanna bring her back here and stay with me and i really wanna know the rules and regulation that the girls have sign when they come to singapore and when they go back what did the officer tell them..

Cheers
PM72

I see too many of these cases, nvr work out. why dun you follow her to her country and settle there then.

[mrsg]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

In the 1st place, what's a Yellow Card??????

Card which is yellow

[BS KTV]

A old reference

[asdfghjkl]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

In the 1st place, what's a Yellow Card??????

something like a Green Card is the US.

[ChokDeeDee!]

Bro PM72, you're lucky the ICA even bothered to answer your inquiries. The ban can vary in duration, most of the time is 3 years. There is a green chop on their passport when they get deported. Changing a new passport is useless, the immigration already has her records, they'll just re-stamp it every time she enters with a new one. Never ever think of changing names or attempting anything deceitful in her passport, 90% she'll end up in the immigration lockup and be slapped with a seriously longer ban. Don't forget, the immigration has samples of all her 10 fingers, and they won't hesitate to have them verified. If she is completely honest, she commits no crime, worst case scenario is they reject entry and ask her to buy a ticket for the next flight home.

Marriage to an ex-WL in SG is very difficult but not impossible. Yellow card holders are made to sign a declaration form stating that they understood the entry ban and that they aren't suppose to marry any Singaporean PR or citizens.

Despite that being said, I've still seen many cases of successful Singaporean and ex-WL marriages in Singapore. Its a tough road. Good luck bro

[owen10]

Originally Posted by ChokDeeDee!

Bro PM72, you're lucky the ICA even bothered to answer your inquiries. The ban can vary in duration, most of the time is 3 years. There is a green chop on their passport when they get deported. Changing a new passport is useless, the immigration already has her records, they'll just re-stamp it every time she enters with a new one.

Interesting advice from a seasoned bro here. I learned something new. Thanks!

[ChokDeeDee!]

Originally Posted by owen10

Interesting advice from a seasoned bro here. I learned something new. Thanks!

Welcomed bro, and thanks for the up

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by ChokDeeDee!

I've still seen many cases of successful Singaporean and ex-WL marriages in Singapore. Its a tough road. Good luck bro

Why anyone would want to marry a whore is beyond me.

No wonder the quality of the Singapore gene pool is rapidly going downhill.

In a decade or so, there won't be any need to import whores from abroad anymore. There'll be loads of local born girls who can learn how to become whores from their mothers.

[BS KTV]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Why anyone would want to marry a whore is beyond me.

No wonder the quality of the Singapore gene pool is rapidly going downhill.

In a decade or so, there won't be any need to import whores from abroad anymore. There'll be loads of local born girls who can learn how to become whores from their mothers.

In Singapore, mostly are old men or very fat men that cannot find decent girlfriends then they resorted to find foreign whores to become life partners.

I cannot imagine in a decade, young SG girls becoming nightclub singers, KTV hostesses or social escorts. Very scary to think that their mothers (foreign whores) prefer their daughters to earn fast high income thru commercial sex

We can marry local or foreign ladies but not those WL in commercial sex

[ChokDeeDee!]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Why anyone would want to marry a whore is beyond me.

No wonder the quality of the Singapore gene pool is rapidly going downhill.

In a decade or so, there won't be any need to import whores from abroad anymore. There'll be loads of local born girls who can learn how to become whores from their mothers.

Some people like Red meat with Red Wine, some White meat with White Wine, some Raw meat with Sakae and some Roast meat with Beer. All I can do is tell the truth and its up to them to choose what meat with which kinda wine, I'll be neutral in this case.

[ChokDeeDee!]

Originally Posted by BS KTV

...We can marry local or foreign ladies but not those WL in commercial sex ...

Yeap there are ample choices around

[BS KTV]

Originally Posted by ChokDeeDee!

Yeap there are ample choices around

Bro ChokDeeDee,

I can vouched what boss sam said is true. 2 years I visited my PRC WL hometown and to realize that her mother run a chain of foot massage shops that has young girls providing sexual services to customers. My PRC WL used to work in high end KTV in SG and earned about SGD 12,000 net for one month on social visit pass here. Her auntie (mother's sister) heard that the money is good to earn in high end KTV in SG immediately asked her cousin a young pretty girl to quit her shop assistant job and to follow her to SG to work in KTV despite knowing that her daughter has to sleep with with strangers to earn money.

Recently a friend told me a PRC mama-san working in a high end KTV here had arranged her younger sister (blood related) to overnight an old man which is her ex-customer for SGD 5,000.

For me, I will never sell my daughter or younger sister for any amount of money. No matters how poor is my situation is. I will still work hard and save up the money to support my daughter in getting a paper of qualification and also educate her to be good woman with good virtue.

I hope SG men can wake up and never marry a whore (including those xiao san).

[rawpenis]

bro, its possible for you to marry her. and get ltvp. however the journey is going to be long and tedious .Are you ready to go through countless mp appeal , appeal to ica, facing rejected appeal . making countless trip to thailand and meet your mp sessions. And is she going to walk this journey together ?
if your answer is yes, please follow your heart cos i personally witness my best friend walk through all these and now his wife is here on ltvp.
However the whole bloody process for her to stay in singapore takes 3 years.that's right. 3 bloody years! and are you sure she won't change during those time when you are in singapore cos if she decide to gives up inbetween the process after all you have done.you gonna have a mental breakdown.
so please think carefully .
for me i also marry a kon thai but she not an ex gl. Many people was also against my marriage just bcoz she's a foreigner but i just follow my heart.now we are happily married for 2 years and she just give birth to a baby boy.
God bless u

[PhariseesYeast]

Boss, I can understand your passion of discouraging people from marrying a WL, but must you use such rhetoric?

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Why anyone would want to marry a whore is beyond me.

No wonder the quality of the Singapore gene pool is rapidly going downhill.

In a decade or so, there won't be any need to import whores from abroad anymore. There'll be loads of local born girls who can learn how to become whores from their mothers.

Sound a bit elitism, don't you think? Not all is interested to learn how to be WL.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by PhariseesYeast

Boss, I can understand your passion of discouraging people from marrying a WL, but must you use such rhetoric?

The truth may be painful and offensive to some but it needs to be said.

Who in their right mind would want a prostitute to be the mother of their children.

The problem is that they don't think about what's to come and the consequences of their actions 10 years down the road when the infatuation is gone and stark reality replaces a perceived fairytale "romance".

The cheebye juice from their beloved whore has clouded their brain cells and all they can think about is the next fuck.