Anyone able to help me a pregnant lady?

[TaTTooBaBy]

Originally Posted by iceage

From my view, she would need quick short term help from some kind souls here and mid/long term help from the social welfare org.

Means while looking for short term help she shld go looking for long term help nw ...

[Yardstick]

Sharlene, I don't know what sort of help you need. But if you don't mind receiving pre-loved baby clothes, milk bottles, rockers, toys, diapers, etc, I will be able to help as we have a whole lot of these around the house. Drop me a pm and we can see how I can pass you some of the items.

[skarlett]

Sharelene, i hope you have check the links out i had provided. One of the place even provide shelter if you need one. They willgo all out to help you until you deliver. And after delivering if u are unable to care for your child for a short period of time, they are able to help to. You should go through proper channel for help. People will help you once or twice here, but not in the long run. If you chose to continue with the pregnancy, you gotta do smthng about it and not ask for $$ in forums. My apologies if i sound really blunt. But you have a really longway to go. Im a single mum and im still struggling even with my parents help in terms of caring for my child. You will really need to work hard to provide for urself and ur child if you are gonna be a single mum. Look for help from social welfare. You wont go wrong. Take care pls..

[TaTTooBaBy]

Originally Posted by skarlett

Sharelene, i hope you have check the links out i had provided. One of the place even provide shelter if you need one. They willgo all out to help you until you deliver. And after delivering if u are unable to care for your child for a short period of time, they are able to help to. You should go through proper channel for help. People will help you once or twice here, but not in the long run. If you chose to continue with the pregnancy, you gotta do smthng about it and not ask for $$ in forums. My apologies if i sound really blunt. But you have a really longway to go. Im a single mum and im still struggling even with my parents help in terms of caring for my child. You will really need to work hard to provide for urself and ur child if you are gonna be a single mum. Look for help from social welfare. You wont go wrong. Take care pls..

Agwee much ...

[crood]

Originally Posted by TaTTooBaBy

Mb she dun wan to put her kid up for adoption ba ... well if she does den I can refer her to a social worker who deal wif baby adoption ... I can oso tell her hw tgey wrk if she is keen ... but well she did nt say wat help she nid so no pt saying much ...

True, the baby couldn't be relying on public donation to grow. If TS couldNt even afford to feed herself, can consider to put the baby up for adoption for better families to adopt or at least put baby in well qualified foster families.

Having a baby is one thing but provide a proper environment, teach the correct values, give a good education/childhood is another, the responsibility of being a parent is a lifetime. A baby is not a toy.

Originally Posted by skarlett

Sharelene, i hope you have check the links out i had provided. One of the place even provide shelter if you need one. They willgo all out to help you until you deliver. And after delivering if u are unable to care for your child for a short period of time, they are able to help to. You should go through proper channel for help. People will help you once or twice here, but not in the long run. If you chose to continue with the pregnancy, you gotta do smthng about it and not ask for $$ in forums. My apologies if i sound really blunt. But you have a really longway to go. Im a single mum and im still struggling even with my parents help in terms of caring for my child. You will really need to work hard to provide for urself and ur child if you are gonna be a single mum. Look for help from social welfare. You wont go wrong. Take care pls..

Here is a good advice from a single mother, the right person to seek help from are families, close friends, father of the baby, support from experienced mummies instead of asking for $$ in a sex forum. I know single mothers who have to juggle with work and look after their children and aging sick parents at the same time, hard and struggling but at least the kids are growing up well.

And for those who think that by giving $$ can help, how much u think u can donate? Monthly donations of $50, $100, 200 till she give birth, baby grow up or till the child turn 21yo?

There are plenty of local forum, motherhood forum to seek help from, why ask for $$ from men in a sex forum? Use your brain to think about it. Are men in sex forum really that gullible?

TS, Even u r really pregnant and going to be a mum soon, u think this is the right value to teach your child? Before u decide to keep the baby, have you discuss with your parents, father of the child? and even so, there are proper channels to seek help from. You are only 21, not 81 frail elderly with poor health who is unable to work.

[ANowhereMan]

Kudos to the bros for giving sound advice...! I'm sorry I cant offer anything but... jia you, keep going!

[iceage]

Originally Posted by TaTTooBaBy

Means while looking for short term help she shld go looking for long term help nw ...

Agree. That is why I would offer her short term help and hopefully she can heed the advice to go to proper welfare org for long term support. Glad to see so many people wanted to help her.

[iceage]

Originally Posted by skarlett

Sharelene, i hope you have check the links out i had provided. One of the place even provide shelter if you need one. They willgo all out to help you until you deliver. And after delivering if u are unable to care for your child for a short period of time, they are able to help to. You should go through proper channel for help. People will help you once or twice here, but not in the long run. If you chose to continue with the pregnancy, you gotta do smthng about it and not ask for $$ in forums. My apologies if i sound really blunt. But you have a really longway to go. Im a single mum and im still struggling even with my parents help in terms of caring for my child. You will really need to work hard to provide for urself and ur child if you are gonna be a single mum. Look for help from social welfare. You wont go wrong. Take care pls..

Sarpok. Advice from an experienced single mum should be taken seriously. I oso agree that going to social welfare is best solution.

[PiPiPo]

Omg, is it real? All of you really believed??
Did any bro meet up with her?
From the email exchange I don't see any point to continue...
Perhaps I'm wrong, not bcoz I got cheated before, mail her n try to help but seem the same patten...
Good luck

[iceage]

Originally Posted by PiPiPo

Omg, is it real? All of you really believed??
Did any bro meet up with her?
From the email exchange I don't see any point to continue...
Perhaps I'm wrong, not bcoz I got cheated before, mail her n try to help but seem the same patten...
Good luck

What do you mean by "same pattern"?

[crood]

Think in a logical way, just Doesnt make sense but for those with Plenty of $$ to throw away , go ahead afterall No lack of carrotheads here,dun give her also will give to other women

Afterall SBF is famous and well known for carrotheads and Roberts.

[SharLeNe]

Originally Posted by PiPiPo

Omg, is it real? All of you really believed??
Did any bro meet up with her?
From the email exchange I don't see any point to continue...
Perhaps I'm wrong, not bcoz I got cheated before, mail her n try to help but seem the same patten...
Good luck

Hi there can you please let me know which email, also what are you referring to same pattern.
I am planning to meet ctchua and iceage yesterday but was caught up with something.

Once again thanks all for your responds will take all into consideration.

[hOsEhKiA]

Hi send you a email might be able to help a bit if is a genuine case wish you all the best TS.

[iceage]

Originally Posted by crood

Think in a logical way, just Doesnt make sense but for those with Plenty of $$ to throw away , go ahead afterall No lack of carrotheads here,dun give her also will give to other women

Afterall SBF is famous and well known for carrotheads and Roberts.

What does not make sense? Your logic of $$ only FL? Frankly I would rather give my money to someone in need than paying to fuck some lady. If you want to help, please do. Dun put down a lady that is already in a desperate situation.

And as TS has said, she is meeting me and ctchua and we will do our due-diligence (just not as rigorous as those corporate deals. )

[ah rat]

Originally Posted by iceage

And as TS has said, she is meeting me and ctchua and we will do our due-diligence (just not as rigorous as those corporate deals. )

So,waiting for yr FR