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[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by SGPshanghai69

Dear Big Bro PTR,
Again you have once proven your point across to us all loud & clear....infact a Golden Statement to us all I believed, especially on the above statement on "What is enough and what is not enough......." was it really your GF who said that big bro?
If it's really a statement that was made by your GF, then you're damn good big bro...damn good for the fact that your GF that after she has been long by your side, she can made such a indepth philosophical statement that is!

I must stick around you more often then from now on big bro......then one day me too can be so philosophical in my speech as well lah........

Dear Brother SGPShanghai69,

You know I do not bullshit. The exact words were, in Chinese "多少是够，多少是不够呢？只要是有心那才是最重要的！“ I remember that very clearly. For my GF, I gave her the amount that I see fit. She never complained about how much I gave, even at times, when I was really low on cash, I gave her very little.

Not that I am philosophical, it was just that I always treated her correctly and with a lot of respect. I am sure you had seen how I treated her that evening in front of you all.

My 2 cent worth.

[SGPshanghai69]

Originally Posted by Shanghai Papa

Bro XuJiaHui,

Yes, there's a big gathering this Sunday evening at Sheshan.
Shanghai Papa

Brro,
She Shan is a damn good place for golf leh.........boh jio me???

[SGPshanghai69]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

Dear Brother SGPShanghai69,
Not that I am philosophical, it was just that I always treated her correctly and with a lot of respect. I am sure you had seen how I treated her that evening in front of you all.

My 2 cent worth.

Big Bro PTR,
I totally agree and see where you're coming from.....whcih is why I said you have the skills man big bro....a super big "E" for you man big bro......."E" for High EQ lah that is!

All bros on that very night really sees it all in our eyes and clearly shared the exact sentiments you stated herein big bro...........

You Are The Big Man..........for it all!

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by SGPshanghai69

Big Bro PTR,
I totally agree and see where you're coming from.....whcih is why I said you have the skills man big bro....a super big "E" for you man big bro......."E" for High EQ lah that is!

All bros on that very night really sees it all in our eyes and clearly shared the exact sentiments you stated herein big bro...........

You Are The Big Man..........for it all!

Dear Bro SGPShanghai69,

Thank you for the compliments for which I am not sure I merit them. I am just doing what a Simple Man (Pu Ton(g) Ren) would do. It is just as simple as that. I am glad to be able to share my humble opinion with brothers in the forum.

My 1 cent worth.

PTR

[Shanghai_guy27]

Originally Posted by Shanghai Papa

Dear bro luvgangsta,

Can I join in?

I can provide the transport (since I drive) while the rest of the expenses will be on bro Shanghai_guy27? You contribute lobang, I contribute transport, bro Shanghai_guy27 contribute the cash - fair right?

Bro Shanghai_guy27, even if you go alone, you still need to pay for the transport and without a laojiao like bro luvgangsta, you could easily get cheated or conned, thus parting with more money. So take it that you pay for the transport I provide and the insurance (and peace of mind) bro luvgangsta provides.

Sounds fair?

Cheers,
Shanghai Papa

I'm up for it, can expense the whole thing anyway!!! But we got to be talking about some amazing girls!!! I'd be up for hitting 2 or even 3 places in one night...would probably run out of steam after that.

[botantan]

Hi all,

吉原was raided 31st July. Went pass there nights all out with many police and plain clothes. Asked some friends, they said 舒怡泉also raided.
anyway, just be careful. not sure what happen but when things get too out of control, this is bound to happen.

rgds.

[Shanghai Papa]

Originally Posted by SGPshanghai69

Yo Bro Shanghai Papa & Bro Luvgangsta,
What about me then? You guys left me out leh.....buay steady leh......must jio jio me along lah! I can help Shanghai_guy27 to select the gals too mah...that way, he will be assured of good services too lah!

Maybe we 3 can start a biz like that hor......wat u 2 bros think hah??

Dear bro SGPshanghai69 & bro luvgangsta,

Not a bad idea. We can start a Shanghai SB Cheongster Club (SSBCC) and collect an annual membership fee. In return, we issue them membership cards which offer discounts to those more steady HC & KTV places, we organsie cheong outings and orgies, we provide a newbie handbook of do's and don'ts to cheonging in SH, etc...

Mmm... sounds like PAYM to me! Hahaha!

Cheers,
Shanghai Papa

[Shanghai Papa]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

The exact words were, in Chinese "多少是够，多少是不够呢？只要是有心那才是最重要的！“

Dear bro PuTonRen,

From your gf's reply, I can sense that you're a very caring person who have touched deep in her heart. She's expecting nothing more than your care, concern and companionship. I believe she took your act of giving her a monthly allowance as another gesture of care and not payment for her company so the amount is never an issue.

I believe we can all learn a thing or two from you.

Cheers,
Shanghai Papa

[Shanghai Papa]

Originally Posted by SGPshanghai69

Brro,
She Shan is a damn good place for golf leh.........boh jio me???

Dear bro SGPshanghai69,

I did jio you but you said you're not interested leh...

By the way, I was informed that more than 800 participants will be attending and the lucky draw prizes are worth more than RMB50,000.

So you want to change your mind, bro?

Cheers,
Shanghai Papa

[84gunner]

ok, mebbe I will juz share a little of my FOC experience here.

I was new to the company then. At the time, my company oso juz bought over another company, So the staffs are in the midst of combining & re-structuring. I am totally new, I dont know who's who, and the new staff who came over to my office dun seem new. I juz treat everyone as colleagues, and be friendly to everyone around.

There was a colleague who asked me some technical questions, and I was half-way helping him. Then, a gal seem to be shifting to sit next to this colleague, and came over to ask for help on Microsoft Word. I told her I'll attend to her issue after I'm done with this colleague. After that, I helped solve her issue too.

I was leaving for the day, then I bumped into her at the lift. Normal greetings & we asked each other where we having dinner, the plans for the weekend (being a friday evening), etc. She has no dinner appointment, I am all alone & new to the city, so we both decided to go for dinner together.

We had a good chat over dinner. But there was an unpleasant incident (not worth mentioning). After that, she accompanied me to several places & eventually accompanied me home. Though she is not local Shanghainese, she still a local Chinese & been in Shanghai for 2 years oredi, better than a blur sotong me that time. In my apartment, we continued chatting, and the topics started to include sex.

She played the game farking well. She tempted me, allowed me to get more intimate, then refused again, then allowed again, etc. Eventually, I managed to remove (no force used, she's a willing party) her top, french her, some rubba, foreplay, etc. Then suddenly, she rejected, wear back her top, and said if she allows me to coninue, we will do "wrong things". She wanted to go home, so I sent her downstairs. On the way, she apologised, saying she cant be my ONS partner.

Next day, she sms-ed me, saying she wanna be my gf (can co-habitat 2gether after some time). I replied, no, I prefer to focus on my career 1st, the rest, will think of it later. Few days later, the evening b4 I fly off 2 another city for project, she asked me out for some light drinks at riverside at PuDong. End of the nite, we were in the same direction, so I thought I'll send her home. Then she suddenly said she wanted to go my house. Ok, fine, let's go then. Needless to say, in my apartment, I had a great time with her.

That time, I know I shouldnt be that close with a colleague. I dun believe in office romance. But since I'm going to another city for several months, I think it may not be so bad. If news or rumours of this spread around, that's it for me! After some time, I found out that she was actually the "personal secretary" of 1 of the VPs, from the company that we juz bought over!!! I then remembered I saw ATM & credit cards in her wallet, belonging to that VP!!! She even used to stay in that VP's apartment!!!

I was goddamn worried, dunno if the beans will be spilt or not. The news of that unpleasant incident during our first dinner had already spread throughout all of Shanghai colleagues, Pudong + Puxi, dunno about the damage in Beijing, GuangZhou & Shenzhen. I was oso worried wat's gonna happen to me, etc. I really regretted that.

Whether the beans were spilt anot, I dunno, but as rumours goes, many colleagues were juz teasing that we dated. I was really lucky, that VP left the company before me.

Thinking back, I could have juz paid for sex, then I dun have to go through all the worries & imagination about wat's gonna happen, etc. Pay, fire & forget. Have peace of mind, no worries.

Then another gal in Hubei, I got her from a KTV. The first time, she didnt talk about $$. But I insisted on giving her $$, saying that she oso need to eat & pay bills. She juz said for those past few days, we had been paying for all the parties, dinner, drinks, etc. I am after a man, and has sexual needs, etc etc. The next day, I put 300 RMB into her bag. When she found out after I left, she called me & scolded me badly. She said I made her feel like it's a transaction, that she's like a prostitute.

Subsequently, she suggested that each nite I want her, she wont go to work in the KTV but be wif me. I will pay her the tips of 100 RMB for the evening, for the loss of income in the KTV. Each person in our gang had a local gal as as gf then. We all "bao' these gals. Only mine was abit exception, where she still goes back to the KTV to work, while my colleagues' gals dun. I knew the 100 RMB a nite is only juz a formality, it's as good as not giving. Otherwise, she was afraid I wouldnt call her. She oso dun bother to take from me, but I auto give her everytime, sometimes, more than 100 RMB. After several months, she said she wanted to be my gf, and hope that 1 day, it is possible for us to be married!!! I really fret. Luckily, I was sent to another project before we get too detailed into that discussion. I had already left the city, and she mentioned this on the phone.

So brudders, u wont know the agenda behind many of them. They have all sorts of things in their minds, many of us cant even imagine! If u tink I got a good deal with 100 RMB a nite, I oredi knew rite from the beginning it's not so simple. It's almost as good as free. Only thing is, there is really some $$ involved, so I can still argue that it is still a transaction, that was the agreed price.

If I am not sent away on projects, the gals may well create a scene in the offices (mine & clients'). I wont wanna imagine the consequences.

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by Shanghai Papa

Dear bro PuTonRen,

From your gf's reply, I can sense that you're a very caring person who have touched deep in her heart. She's expecting nothing more than your care, concern and companionship. I believe she took your act of giving her a monthly allowance as another gesture of care and not payment for her company so the amount is never an issue.

I believe we can all learn a thing or two from you.

Cheers,
Shanghai Papa

Dear Bro,

Thank you for the kind words. We are all here to share our own experience, be it happy or sad ones. Through these postings, all of us wish sincerely to be able to learn from each other, so am I.

I benefit from being an old man, who exhibits, naturally a matured look and a caring attitude towards younger generation. As I have said many times, I did not do anything special for my GF, just some money to her once in a while, the amount of which depends on how convenient is my wallet. I treat her with respect and care. When I pass her money, it was always with humble attitude making sure that she understands the money is for her monthly expenses, and not the services she provide, such as washing my clothes, buying or cooking meals for me, companionship in bed, etc. I remember when I first knew her, once I called her to meet me in Shanghai, she told me that she was having her period. I told her that I wanted to see her, which did not necessarily translate to love-making. She came and was so touched that I treated her as normal. Well, all things add up, and she became my good GF.

My 2 cent worth. Thank you for reading my postings.

Regards

PTR

[Shanghai Papa]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

I remember when I first knew her, once I called her to meet me in Shanghai, she told me that she was having her period. I told her that I wanted to see her, which did not necessarily translate to love-making. She came and was so touched that I treated her as normal.

Dear bro PutonRen,

It's acts like the one quoted above that made you stood out from the other men. You mentioned that you're an old man and your allowance to her is subjected to your financial status at that point of time. Having said that, she didn't forsake you for a younger and richer man.

You have something which all women in the world want. This something that you have is the top priority of what all women in the world want.

You and I know what that is...

Cheers,
Shanghai Papa

[Shanghai Papa]

Originally Posted by 84gunner

ok, mebbe I will juz share a little of my FOC experience here.

Dear bro 84gunner,

Thanks for sharing. It was an enlightening read and another reinforcement to the belief that it's never safe to start a relationship with a fellow colleague.

I have my fair share of experiences with fellow colleagues, both in SG and SH too but it all boils down to the same moral of the story...

Cheers,
Shanghai Papa

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by Shanghai Papa

You and I know what that is...

Cheers,
Shanghai Papa

Dear Bro Shanghai Papa,

Do you mean "love" or to "make love". I know love is the common word in what you are trying to say. The second case is not so for me as I am an old man. Ask SGPShanghai69 whom knows me for ages, and he will tell you how old I am.

Regards

PTR

[The Bund]

Originally Posted by XuJiaHui

...But we have to be really cruel in handling all the issue.

Like I always say, if you've little control over that pumping machine between your legs, then you've got to have more control over the other pumping machine between your nipples. Conversely, if you've little control over the other pumping machine between your nipples, then you've got to have more control over that pumping machine between your legs. I practise the latter.

To put it more crudely, if your heart is usually soft, then your dick shouldn't be always hard.

Not necessarily universal, but applies to me anyway.