How long did you not have sex with your wife or gf?

[jintulan]

Originally Posted by shengge

Well said! And my wishes to you, you should not be jtl lah!
I think patient, understanding and faith are important to a marriage.

Take Care!

bro shengge, thanks for your wishes.
maybe I left out one more point, i.e. these days, a lot depends on luck also la, with so many new sources of wives from different countries/backgrounds these days. If a wife does not hold you and your family's interest in her heart, jiak lat liao!

[genrev]

man...been reading it from the 1st pages.never knew got a lot things i can learn from here.coz i knew a lot couple that stand a long.but yet to see the problem behind others.should learn from u all.even tho i havent have gf nor a wife yet....but i believe,communication is the key for relationship.

[SiberianTiger]

well i hv been reading from pg 1 to pg 37.

i am officially in the 11th yr of marriage & i still find it refreshing to learn fm the bros here.

[TuaPao]

Hi bros and sis,

I just want to know, how come woman when married for a while can change from being a person who needs physical love to one who can abstain from physical love. If only man can control or evolve into such a state of mind, we would not have such a web site.

I have not 'played' with my wife for 3 months or so, I have to PCC every now and then, but I don't think she has done anything like that. Can woman also abstain from PCC?

Please don't flame me.

[GFUncle]

I not had sex with my wife from August 2005 till now...still counting...

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by SiberianTiger

well i hv been reading from pg 1 to pg 37.

i am officially in the 11th yr of marriage & i still find it refreshing to learn fm the bros here.

hi pussy cat..so have you solve problem with hubby?

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by GFUncle

I not had sex with my wife from August 2005 till now...still counting...

honestly i really dun know how a married couple can go thru life (if we believe in the crap till death do us part) without sex...of cos some pple say marriage is not all about sex...yeah not ALL but still in some part there must be sex...so if it is void of this then how...pcc or kio kway until die?

[Niceman]

Yes, marriage is not about sex, BUT, sex is part of marriage. Marriage without sex, will not last in our new era, if no heath problem.

For those in MY, SG and HK, wives will complain headache blah blah blah, and when their hubby go out find food, they complain.... it takes 2 hands to clap, they simply dun understand.

Good sex will improve marriage

Those from PRC or Viet, is a DUTY to give sex. Of cos, good sex is 2ways, both parties must enjoy, or else will be missionary.

For hubby, remember to wipe ur mouths and not to bring outside food back home.

Just my 2cents observation. Thanks

[shengge]

What if your wife said, "I have no desire for sex, HOW?"

a) Bros, how will you answer to this question?
b) Sis, what sort of answer you like to hear?

Hope to hear from you all!

Cheers!

[Crocodile]

hmmmm interesting..

no desire?.. then i'll find someone else who does...

if not... i'll put u up for auction or swap...

damn..

[Niceman]

Bro Shengge,

Seriously speaking,... will ask her go see doctor...this is health issue liao...

If she say no mood all the time, need a serious heart to heart talk.r.

But, she simply no interest, then, no need talk,... time to get lawyer lor

[GoldenMonkey1]

Wow.....super happening........

try understaning your wife/GF in a different perspective.......everybody have their own sexual desire.......

Wife / GF no mood.......ignore husband request......how come we can have fun outside?? and we feel so sextified?? Reason??? When you go out and have fun, what do you do? Isnt it the same thing that is happening before you get married?? So why isnt it happening at home? Because husband take wife for granted, and expected to just get a free fuck. Before get married, you will try to use all kind of pattern to just get your gf damm horny. If you can do if before, why cant you do it now?? There are reason given like nagging, turns us all off. So the next question comes, why is she nagging?? How come she is nagging?? Can she just stop nagging?? Have you ask yourself the same questions?? How come before she is your wife, she never nags at all? Reason, because she is your wife.....she is doing her duty to remind us of what is going around us (MAN ARE FORGETFUL CREATURES), but man being egoistic refuse to take it lying down.

Husband / BF no mood? If you have done it before, why not again?? What is missing? Watching DVD and ignoring you??? Why not give him a blow job in your office wear, and make him wanna cum, but cant cum?? I would think sister's issues is not so much of a problem! Why? Because man are all honry people. Why your husband ogle at other pple instead of you, and may just wet his pants just by ogling. But y no interest in you?? What other pple have, you also have right?? Same theory, you have shown too much of yourself till he sianz liow.......ever thought of nt letting him see anything? The thought of can see cannot see is always lingering in man's mind.

Maybe is time to do a self reflection, rather then keep looking at the neg parts of your gf/bf/husband and wife. If you are husband and wife, there will be something that bring the both of you together. Cannot be south and south attract right??

Just my 2cents.

Dun flame me hor.....

[shengge]

Originally Posted by Niceman

time to get lawyer lor

Bro Niceman,
Why always lawyer leh?
Lawyer does not help to solve the marriage problem lah!
I thought they are happy to handle this matter (not problem), as "got business" liao.. ..... (no offence!!!)

My 两毛钱！

Cheers!

[Niceman]

Bro Shengge..

They indeed solve marriage problem leh... hehe, they make it no more problem, once and for all......:P

My 1毛钱！

[poorman4sex]

Originally Posted by GoldenMonkey1

Wow.....super happening........

try understaning your wife/GF in a different perspective.......everybody have their own sexual desire.......


Dun flame me hor.....

hi brother...
totally agree with all that you have written. After +++ing to a close gal friend about such issue, she too had this problem with her husband... too tired to have sex with husband or no mood as kids are around.
But it is not that they dun like sex( of coz i no chance to bonk her lah)... but she claims that man just fuck and fuck off... without understanding the needs of a woman. Woman also wants to get high when having sex but for them to get high takes a longer time and need more then humping them hard below. eg. moving touching her everywhere on her body.

And also remember to +++ to your wife, like how she likes it ? fast ? slow ? positions ?? it really works ~~!!!!! I am not telling stories here but from true experiences. I used to have sex with wife only once a month or worst once 2 month.....~!!!! but after i ask her those questions, i am having sex with her everyweek..now 2x a week.(dun be too harsh in the beginning... slowly and more will come). Ask her had she climax .... if not how to make her climax, observe her expressions when she climax(wife will not scream like a AV star) and next time you dun have to always ask her liao (if not she also sianzz ...fuck 1x ask 1x)...

better still.... i apply this to a whore and she also enjoys it(may i pay $$ lah)...

cheers and enjoy...