How long did you not have sex with your wife or gf? - Page 36

Zombieman · #**526** 28-12-2006, 07:52 PM

Me never with do with CO for 7 mths liao... due to unreasonable behavior from her... lost interest in sex liao... so sad...

Decold · #**527** 29-12-2006, 12:03 AM

Saw all those threads, i realize moz brudders have the same suitation as me. Me and wife got married abt 1yr plus. I tried to get the best for her always. Bring her go holidays, have a stable income,etc ,etc. Yet all she always keep doing drives me crazy again and again. I changed alot for my wife. I believe that in marriage, a couple need to give and take. But every time i the one who gota give in even though i not in wrong. When i do something for her concern, instead of being appreciative, she would jump into some bullshit conclusion and pick a quarrel. I felt tired out and disappointed to the extend i now gave up totally. What is the so call "happiness in marriage". Bullshitz.I really scare that this marriage would end in tatters...:O

HardCock · #**528** 29-12-2006, 05:54 PM

So a ger is totally different before and after marriage? But I guess it really depends right? I have friends who are still happily married...doesn't seem to be in any trouble. Well, how much must we find out about the ger b4 the wedding to be sure that our life will be better? Not giving in too much during the courtship? Well, at least that's my friend's advice.

Da Vinci · #**529** 29-12-2006, 08:16 PM

this is quite a sensitive issue esp to married couples.....

when married couple quarrel, they quit having sex.. n it become LKY's headache!

Shuang_Jie_Gun · #**530** 29-12-2006, 08:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Zombieman

Me never with do with CO for 7 mths liao... due to unreasonable behavior from her... lost interest in sex liao... so sad...

7 mths?thats long bro.no way for remedy?

Rof|maoxz · #**531** 29-12-2006, 08:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Decold

Saw all those threads, i realize moz brudders have the same suitation as me. Me and wife got married abt 1yr plus. I tried to get the best for her always. Bring her go holidays, have a stable income,etc ,etc. Yet all she always keep doing drives me crazy again and again. I changed alot for my wife. I believe that in marriage, a couple need to give and take. But every time i the one who gota give in even though i not in wrong. When i do something for her concern, instead of being appreciative, she would jump into some bullshit conclusion and pick a quarrel. I felt tired out and disappointed to the extend i now gave up totally. What is the so call "happiness in marriage". Bullshitz.I really scare that this marriage would end in tatters...

Orh buddy.... you are unhappily married.

desk13 · #**532** 30-12-2006, 03:50 AM

Sorry to hear that....cheer up

asdfghjkl · #**533** 30-12-2006, 04:19 AM

some women married geeks and the latter were addicted not to Maple Story but computers.. kept on fixing them.. to the death of their wives!

Schmi · #**534** 31-12-2006, 09:23 AM

Wife-many months liao.
GF-Still going on.

badboyxtreme · #**535** 03-01-2007, 03:29 PM

Been married for 13 years now. Both me and my wife can avoid touching each other MAX 7 days, after that confirm fuck like rabbits. The longest though was 2 weeks when she was away from Singapore, but upon coming back, we fucked like 3 times a day for the next 3 days. Lolzzz

wtf999 · #**536** 19-01-2007, 02:20 AM

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Originally Posted by badboyxtreme

Been married for 13 years now. Both me and my wife can avoid touching each other MAX 7 days, after that confirm fuck like rabbits. The longest though was 2 weeks when she was away from Singapore, but upon coming back, we fucked like 3 times a day for the next 3 days. Lolzzz

wah bro... seems that u maintain the relationship very well... mind teaching a tip or 2?? after seeing so many brudders and sisters have problem after marriage make me have a fear for marriage...

wtf999 · #**537** 19-01-2007, 02:21 AM

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Originally Posted by badboyxtreme

Been married for 13 years now. Both me and my wife can avoid touching each other MAX 7 days, after that confirm fuck like rabbits. The longest though was 2 weeks when she was away from Singapore, but upon coming back, we fucked like 3 times a day for the next 3 days. Lolzzz

wah bro... seems that u maintain the relationship very well... mind teaching a tip or 2?? after seeing so many brudders and sisters have problem after marriage make me have a fear for marriage...

Sboobs_lover · #**538** 19-01-2007, 06:25 AM

omg so many bros n sis got sex problem aft marriage, sigh...... I bit scared i will be the nxt already. I not married yet, but i told my wife-to-be, aft marriage we hav to make love daily even aft we quarrel

, except durin her rainy dys and she agreed, hahaha. Both of us got high sex drive. When i went Beijing wis her, we make at least 3 times a dy for 1 wk. My highest record was 3 times wis her within 2hrs.
Hope tat aft marriage none of us will lower down the gear......

jintulan · #**539** 19-01-2007, 09:34 AM

I've been married almost 20 years now. Yes, on and off there have been periods when the bed was used for sleeping only, although neither of us slept well on those nights. I guess all that is part and parcel of married life. These days, even though the frequency of love-making has reduced drastically, we both sleep very well next to each other. Here's my 5 cents of advice to all newly married couples; hang on in there, keep hanging on, keep hanging on... after all the climatic changes, a new warmth will arise that will make you look forward to holding hands with your partner in your sleep.

shengge · #**540** 19-01-2007, 11:52 AM

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Originally Posted by jintulan

I've been married almost 20 years now. Yes, on and off there have been periods when the bed was used for sleeping only, although neither of us slept well on those nights. I guess all that is part and parcel of married life.

Well said! And my wishes to you, you should not be jtl lah!

I think patient, understanding and faith are important to a marriage.

Take Care!