How long did you not have sex with your wife or gf?

[beingunknown200]

Bro Giggz83, actually my gf and I havent engaged in sex and dun intend to till we are married. Haha we are those people that u hear about that will go all the way to 3rd base but stop there. She will just "give me a hand" whenever we do meet up, and I will return the favor But thanks for the advice, yup we managed to squeeze some time for each other for some private intimate time, at least we talk every night no matter how busy we are

Even though I havent tasted sex b4, but by reading the posts here, I m trying to learn other methods of keeping the passion going in my relationship w/o so much of the sex part. Sex is impt la, but not THAT impt. Just my humble thoughts

[shengge]

Originally Posted by Rainman

Home at 1 am? What is she doing?

Yes 1am, sometimes she needs her own way of relaxation after work mah.
Well good enough to cover her expenses.....

Originally Posted by beingunknown200

Bro Giggz83, actually my gf and I havent engaged in sex and dun intend to till we are married.
Even though I havent tasted sex b4, but by reading the posts here, I m trying to learn other methods of keeping the passion going in my relationship w/o so much of the sex part. Sex is impt la, but not THAT impt. Just my humble thoughts

Wow, glad to hear your relationship is built on something more on common interest (I think) and not more on sex. Its a very good start in my opinion.

But my question is: Is it any different between having sex and heavy petting (as in masturbating your gf)? Especially when you have already had sex before and she probably already did too? Just asking bros opinion.

[hi5550]

Bro, is this true that if we want to maintain good husband and wife relationship must had sex 3 time a month?

But frankly speaking, if one party had loss interest in their wife then how to have sex with her in this situation.?

[Rainman]

Originally Posted by hi5550

Bro, is this true that if we want to maintain good husband and wife relationship must had sex 3 time a month?

But frankly speaking, if one party had loss interest in their wife then how to have sex with her in this situation.?

There is no such thing as minimum or whatsoever.

Well, at times we man do lost interest. Me once for a few month but still try to do it once per week. It's like fulfilling my responsibility as a husband.

Those were the time the stock market crash and was in debt, where got mood?

Cheers

[surfer888]

Originally Posted by beingunknown200

Bro Giggz83, actually my gf and I havent engaged in sex and dun intend to till we are married. Haha we are those people that u hear about that will go all the way to 3rd base but stop there. She will just "give me a hand" whenever we do meet up, and I will return the favor

I admire your patience. Wish I could be in such a situation now... the feeling of anticipation for the 1st bonk.

The thrill just dies off after the 1st 100 bonks... I guess.

[tissue]

Originally Posted by surfer888

I admire your patience. Wish I could be in such a situation now... the feeling of anticipation for the 1st bonk.

The thrill just dies off after the 1st 100 bonks... I guess.

Hi,

I don't think the thrill dies off after the 1st 100bonks...Think it's after the 300th

After that you start to look for ways to vamp up your sex life..But I still look forward to sex on a regular basis with my husband

Cheers / Tissue

[Rainman]

Originally Posted by tissue

Hi,

I don't think the thrill dies off after the 1st 100bonks...Think it's after the 300th

After that you start to look for ways to vamp up your sex life..But I still look forward to sex on a regular basis with my husband

Cheers / Tissue

Huh, A women's point of view is 300, man say 100.

I say if u put a bean into a jug every time u make love in the first year. Thereafter take out a bean every time u make love in year number 2......

U will not be able to empty that jug of balance bean for the rest of your sex love.

Just simple math....

Anybody don't agree???


Cheers

[beingunknown200]

Originally Posted by tissue

After that you start to look for ways to vamp up your sex life..But I still look forward to sex on a regular basis with my husband

your husband should really count his blessings. Think you are going to be many married bros here envious.

I am curious. Some bros here complain that their wives lose interest in sex after pregnacy (maybe change in hormones!) while in this case, our dear sis Tissue seems to enjoy sex even more after pregancy...haha did it make u more horny?

[mscucky]

Originally Posted by shengge

Hello everyone,
Sometimes, I told myself, prob this is the only way she can get relax after a tough day work, pointless to go into argument and only then I get to feel better. Prob over these times, I have learned to me more tolerant or use to it liao.

Sorry, bro and sis, will cont again, wife just reached home.

Cheers!

if u r my hubby, i m so lucky lot coz u r very understanding....m sure she will knows how to appreciate u ... do u hv any kids?

[nickric]

Originally Posted by Frankiestine

There are only 4 reasons the Familee Cock will accept in granting a divorce:
1. Adultery - no time frame before can file papers, if no dispute about 4 to 6 months.
2. Desertion - No news totally of the other party, I think must at least 2 years since have any news before can file papers for divorce.
3. Separation - 3 years for agreed separation, 4 years if one party don't agree. After that take separation papers and file for divorce. One trick to use is if married more then 3 or 4 years is if both of you wants a quickie divorce, backdate the separation date to the last 3 or 4 years.
4. Unreasonable behaviour - this one the best, simply your words against his. Do you know even snide remarks everyday can be grounds to be used as unreasonable behaviour? You can say his or her attitude or behaviour changed and making it very stressful for you to stay in the marriage.

Best please hor for adultery grounds, you must have physical proof of both of them in bed and also if you should have proof it must be filed within 6 months of obtaining the proof if not no pakai...

Bro, i think you forgotten about FAMILY VIOLENT. One may grant almost immediate divorce if someone husband show violent to his wife, proof = police report.

[nickric]

Originally Posted by jaclyn

haiz... for me... i'm normally the one who make the first move... he'll give in to me lar... but can tell that he's not enjoying as b4 lor... tried alot of methods to bring back the sparks... but.... no use... we use to do it everyday b4 marriage... but now... haiz... i've to ask for it... as afraid of losing him...

he juz won't ask for it... sometimes think of not asking for it... but scare later he eat out... come to think of it... even i did ask for it he still able to eat out... somemore he work shift... dunno if wat he doing in the day when i'm in the ofc he's home alone...

btw, ours is a shortgun marriage... so he put all the blame on me & my child... that he can't go out & have fun...

feeling rather depress & helpless....

anyone can give me advice....

Dear Sista, i'm not trying to bad mounh your hubby.
Many hubby lost interest in their wife maybe because he has an affair...someone outside had satisfy his sexual need.
I'm one good example!!!

[shengge]

Originally Posted by mscucky

if u r my hubby, i m so lucky lot coz u r very understanding....m sure she will knows how to appreciate u ... do u hv any kids?

Hi sis mscucky,
Thanks for the compliment.
Basically, I am a boring guy.......没情调也没腔调，跟我生活很单调。。。。 That's why she is complaining at times.

I am not very understanding hubby cos I don't understand why she does not want to sleep at times like at 1am, still wanted to watch TV knowing that she herself or me may need to wake up early the next day.

But I must tell you that, I am the lucky one to have her if you weigh all the matters.

As I have said earlier, we have kids.

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by nickric

Bro, i think you forgotten about FAMILY VIOLENT. One may grant almost immediate divorce if someone husband show violent to his wife, proof = police report.

I believe it is under the category of unreasonable behaviour..

[asdfghjkl]

the number of cases of unreasonable behaviour are rising for both genders..