How to network and not feel awkward?

[randyrockhard]

TS here is what you need to do

1. Be a knowledgeable man. This would help you greatly in discussing many topics with people.
2. If you are in your 20s go improve your career and life. Confidence is really a chick magnet.
3. Practice listening and observe what people said in order to get them to feel comfortable in talking with you.
4. Ask questions and only speak about yourself when the person asked about you.
5. Have a huge mirror so you could have a look at yourself everyday and see if you like what you saw there. If not, improve it any way you can. Read up and find out to find your most suitable style.

Hope that helps.

[sadfa]

Originally Posted by randyrockhard

TS here is what you need to do

1. Be a knowledgeable man. This would help you greatly in discussing many topics with people.
2. If you are in your 20s go improve your career and life. Confidence is really a chick magnet.
3. Practice listening and observe what people said in order to get them to feel comfortable in talking with you.
4. Ask questions and only speak about yourself when the person asked about you.
5. Have a huge mirror so you could have a look at yourself everyday and see if you like what you saw there. If not, improve it any way you can. Read up and find out to find your most suitable style.

Hope that helps.

Looking at yr suggestions ,its obvious why sporeans fail in networking since they abjectly fail every single category.

Who finds a brain dead boot licker who religiously believe n repeats the garbagement party line rubbish interesting to talk to.

Thats like having an intelligent discussion with a north Korean on the evils of Kim's empire
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Exchange points interesting ma

[christjk34]

Interesting discussion .... keep going

[yangyang77]

Originally Posted by MoeLanYong

Go with zero expectation. Be yourself. The more you expect a good outcome, the more you try to behave a certain way, the more stressful it becomes.

This is very true, but 90% of the time there tend to be expectation as what is happening in the realistic world..

[yangyang77]

Originally Posted by randyrockhard

TS here is what you need to do

1. Be a knowledgeable man. This would help you greatly in discussing many topics with people.
2. If you are in your 20s go improve your career and life. Confidence is really a chick magnet.
3. Practice listening and observe what people said in order to get them to feel comfortable in talking with you.
4. Ask questions and only speak about yourself when the person asked about you.
5. Have a huge mirror so you could have a look at yourself everyday and see if you like what you saw there. If not, improve it any way you can. Read up and find out to find your most suitable style.

Hope that helps.

Thank you bro for the tips, I think I do need to practice this often

[Devil320]

Originally Posted by ItsEsther

Good thread! Would love to know too! I'm always too shy and nervous to take initiative

Sure or not sis. The guy nervous then spread to u ah

[yangyang77]

Originally Posted by Devil320

Sure or not sis. The guy nervous then spread to u ah

Hahaha! I tink so too