Marriage problems need advice

[KathrynEWyant]

I thinks its emotional behavior, You have to understand your wife.
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[Intltuk]

Ur wife have mentioned it...some bros/sis hve mentioned it......go for counselling.

[porscheclub]

Support a bit here.

#1 Go for counselling
#2 Change your hp no/s & show wife
#3 It's your own effort to win back her trust now, some take longer than few weeks
#4 play the child card. Baby cannot do without complete family

Don't worry, you're not alone but seriously, if she didn't find out now you could be bedding some women later on. Oh yes you will

[prettymannequin]

Bro, emotional betrayal is worse than physical betrayal to some women, as some samsters have already pointed out.

Right now she'll feel like you have unmet sexual desires that you wanna fulfil outside... it's gonna be tough trying to make her fully trust you again. Whenever you kiss her she'll think you want to kiss another pair of lips. Whenever you tell her ILY she won't believe that your heart only has her.

Go for counselling to sort your relationship out ba. Remember to be honest and sincere. Good luck!

[bbmapple]

Hi TS, how's things with wife now? Hope u all are getting along well!

To a woman who just gave birth not long ago and still learning to cope with a baby, I guess the thought of sending intimate messages to a new lady friend is unbearable.
Plus, did u and wife engage in sexual activities? Women tend to have very imaginative and creative minds, especially if she hasn't been doing it with u, she probably thinks u 偷吃 to meet physical needs

[KaniNababe]

U ought to be shot!

[Johnbass]

Trust is a fragile thing.
Don't start what you cannot control.

[starystarynite]

Have a heart to heart talk. Give both party sometime to think about this n react. Dun do something in a rush n baby girl get hurt.

[discordpiggy]

Originally Posted by kesyong79

Thanks bro for reading and replying.
Ive always thought having affair or adultery means physical intimacy, which never happened here.
In fact i was going to end this chat soon as i feel im getting too overboard.
Guess whatever i say now doesnt matter cuz wife dun beleieve me at all anymore.

I have always been a good husband and father, somehow maybe the stress is geting to me and after our daughtet is born i dun communicate much with her now.

Anyway im visiting a psychiatrist later cuz i may have depression that i do not realised.

sorry to hear about your case.

but it is only one time...

there are worst cases

where the husband visited fls for 11 out of their 12 yr marriage. when wife want to divorce, he made himself look like victim. LOL! then he begged his wife even after they signed separation papers. so the wife gong gong accept not knowing what he had done the last 11yrs and that he still seeing his fav fls/milfs even thou he claimed no... LOL!

Bro, take it a step at the time. you not like that case i describe where the husband go no remorse. show your wife you willling to change.

all the best