Just Broke Off With My BOY!!!

[devan69]

Ok sis if the case nw is he run away wif
85k of the money and he is a malaysia I think he muz have plan tat to cheat u , sad to say tat bt is he a local or Malaysia ?
There r still ways to get bk the money bk
Nt really worth it

[sweety_gal_swee]

Originally Posted by HunterJ

WTF !!! No offense sis, but you can always ask some help from people here. I believe there will be some righteous people who will offer some help to you without and returns. Maybe one of them is me !!!

Call that bastard and give him a lecture !! Lure him into JB, can find some people whack him up and squeeze all the money out from him.. grr..

I really hope someone here can help and that is the reason I come back to SBF since I quit 2009.

[guowei8]

Originally Posted by sweety_gal_swee;679$$$$

They can't do anythings, it was a joint account with any partly can take money out....

Dumb enough.. i rather put both party

[ah rat]

TS,Since his handphone haven't terminate,ask 1 of yours girlfriend to call or msg him,rather then guy to call him.Trick him out to meet somewhere.

[takeshiblue]

That hav few things u need to do 1st:-
1) May I know he already withdraw ALL money from bank? Such a big amount he want to withdraw, I think bank normally will call you to certify. If haven't withdraw all, ask bank to freeze the account immediately.
2) Report to police, ask police to ban him not leaving SG in case he still in SG, or blacklist & ban him to enter SG forever.
3) Do u hav any contact ( Hp, MSN, facebook, etc ) of his friend? U can tell them this matter & try to beg for their help. U also can do some bad way, post his photo & detail to facebook, let his friend know what kind of person he is, make them alert & beware of him.

That hav few thing u need to do at future:-
1) Prepare for worst, in case u cannot get back the money. Don't think about he will go back to you, that is impossible if he do such thing & leave you without any reason & notice, even after this he come back & give back to you the money, don't accept him again, he not worth it! U NEED TO RESTART AGAIN, sorry to tell you cruel truth......
2) Don't open joint bank account, buy propety with anyone other than ur parent, brother & sister, BEFORE u getting married ( ROM ). If your BF ask to do that, do not agree it. If he say " U trust me, love me, so you should agree", you can answer " If you love me, don't force me ".

[guowei8]

Bank very free to call sio. Bank only take and give. No time for couple nonsense

[Cerberus]

If you keep getting knowing such type of guys....you really have to seriously sit down n ponder whether your selection criteria is flawed.

[HunterJ]

Originally Posted by ah rat

TS,Since his handphone haven't terminate,ask 1 of yours girlfriend to call or msg him,rather then guy to call him.Trick him out to meet somewhere.

Yes. I double that. Get a girl to call would be more effective. Teaching this type of bastard a lesson is never too late for one. Trick him out and teach him a lesson of his life.

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by takeshiblue

That hav few things u need to do 1st:-

1) May I know he already withdraw ALL money from bank? Such a big amount he want to withdraw, I think bank normally will call you to certify. If haven't withdraw all, ask bank to freeze the account immediately. - From TS post, seems like too late liao

2) Report to police, ask police to ban him not leaving SG in case he still in SG, or blacklist & ban him to enter SG forever. - From TS post, seems like done that and also too late liao

3) Do u hav any contact ( Hp, MSN, facebook, etc ) of his friend? U can tell them this matter & try to beg for their help. U also can do some bad way, post his photo & detail to facebook, let his friend know what kind of person he is, make them alert & beware of him. - Such actions are not encouraged cos it will fuels and will only make things worse

No offense. As above

[wukong68]

Originally Posted by sweety_gal_swee

I really hope someone here can help and that is the reason I come back to SBF since I quit 2009.

Normally such cases once the guy siphoned all the savings very unlikely he will be responding to any of your calls and hide all the way.

You lodge a police as per normal and seek police assistance.
Downside is he's a Malaysian, limitations to track further also..

Hope things will turn up positive for you gal

[kyoukai]

take care yea? revenge is never too late. never too sweet. you'll find him one day. cheers =)

[sweety_gal_swee]

Worse is now I'm jobless...things happen after i resign......
Am Planning to go holiday with him to Euro, I pay all the fee and the ticket is with him......this is BAD

[Blueparadise11]

Just remember not to trusth anyone but yourself.. No guy in this world is 100% faithful.. Every guys lie to get love to get sex is just how bastard the guy can be.. You must Learn how to 'close one eye open one eye' and 'pull and release' in the right time.. If he goes to far.. That's mean he don't appreciate.. Let it go..

[skyscrape]

Pm me if you're lonely.

[whoami_1969]

Originally Posted by sweety_gal_swee

Worse is now I'm jobless...things happen after i resign......
Am Planning to go holiday with him to Euro, I pay all the fee and the ticket is with him......this is BAD

It is BAD....poor gal