Married wife as FWB/FB

[Lemonjuice]

Just went out with one milf. Had a long walk. That's the first meet. Text quite engaging before the date.

After the date, the text fizzled.. sigh

[spaman7]

Originally Posted by Lemonjuice

Just went out with one milf. Had a long walk. That's the first meet. Text quite engaging before the date.

After the date, the text fizzled.. sigh

What happened? How old is she?

[spaman7]

Originally Posted by UncleHasBeen

This is an excellent idea!

Maybe we should start a thread collectively.
To post those crash and burned experiences.
Then followed by recommendation and suggestions on how to avoid and better the situation.
That would add more value i think.

I have crashed and burnt so much before that i think i can start a consultant agency on "How to get out of shit when u are already knee deep in murky situations"

Anyone your crashed in the last few years?

[UncleHasBeen]

Originally Posted by wt188

Bro, this is my favorite. I wish i can know her since i am indonesia chinese too.

She has already shut down so to speak.
When i met her in Australia in 2019, she just got divorced for the second time.
I just happened to be there at her most vulnerable and liberating moment during that skydiving trip. And we hit it off.
She is very happy being single now. And also happy to have this kind of relationship with me.

My point in that post is to show everyone that if we widen our social circle. Keep our situation awareness up.
Be willing to try and shrug off rejection, everyone will get a hit sooner or later. A harvest

[UncleHasBeen]

Originally Posted by spaman7

Anyone your crashed in the last few years?

No more crashes since 2019, just before Covid.
She is my last 'fruit' that i plucked.
I have not make any attempts since then.
Covid prevented it and also i think i might have over-stretched myself a bit.

I have a string of existing women to maintain and it is already testing my limited time management skills

My last few crashes would be around 2018, i believe.
I have crashes every now and then, so much i dont really remember or take note unless those major ones or hilarious ones.

Most crashes are just flat out rejections or basically dead silence after the first fuck.

I will try and come up with a list of the common denominator for a sure-failed approach/tactic and share it.
Some i find it really hilarious while most are simply the fact that personality clashes.

The most important lesson i learn in all these is, learn to laugh at yourself. Get hit, just rub it off and move on. Life is more pleasant and livable that way.

[Lemonjuice]

How to expand social circle?

[Lemonjuice]

Originally Posted by spaman7

What happened? How old is she?

No lovey dovey feel. 40s

[chelsea171717]

Originally Posted by UncleHasBeen

Next would be her.
Another Indonesian Chinese, 41 years old this year.
We have been together for 3 years now.
Divorced twice and single for 3 years now.

She is not a sex goddess in anyway.
As I mentioned before she is not even the sexually active type.
She does it because she knows I love it with her.
What I love about her is that she try to satisfy me through pleasure.
Her superpower over me is her affection for me.

She knows when to lean on me like a lover and distant herself when needed.
This is an art many SYT don’t get it.

The bottom pic was taken about 2 years ago when i was in KL.
She got me pissed drunk and took a pic.
She can out drink me any time

you really know this gal ? she seem like a rather popular social media celebrity. And she is not indonesian chinese also

[UncleHasBeen]

Originally Posted by chelsea171717

you really know this gal ? she seem like a rather popular social media celebrity. And she is not indonesian chinese also

U think or are u sure?
I am curious then, which social media celebrity?
If she is liked what u claimed to be, i am sure u can find her pic, verify here and call my bluff?

[chelsea171717]

Originally Posted by UncleHasBeen

U think or are u sure?
I am curious then, which social media celebrity?
If she is liked what u claimed to be, i am sure u can find her pic, verify here and call my bluff?

I have her ig, wechat but why i want to prove for nothing to gain for ? If you insisted she is Indonesian chinese then you are certainly bluffing. Not going to debate further. Anyway, as long as you are happy, just continue what you are doing.

[UncleHasBeen]

Originally Posted by chelsea171717

I have her ig, wechat but why i want to prove for nothing to gain for ? If you insisted she is Indonesian chinese then you are certainly bluffing. Not going to debate further. Anyway, as long as you are happy, just continue what you are doing.

All can see the chronological of events happened here.
U came in and questioned the authenticity and credibility of my post.
I invited u to proof otherwise.
U said u have no wish to debate further.
Why then start the accusations?
Then let me do the honours. Whatever floats your boat, just keep doing.

[Loveliz69]

Originally Posted by UncleHasBeen

@Loveliz69

So all these women the 3 of them are my fave not because they are good in bed.
No, in fact when it comes to sex I would consider them as square pussies.

So why my fave? Liked I mentioned before.
They place me as their universe when we are together and let nothing else comes in between us.

Bluntly, when we are together, we don’t talk about our other lives.
We are selfishly indulging in ourselves, only in ourselves when we are together.
And we don’t bring our own baggage into our relationship.

We value the time being together and that is the reason why we are onboard in the first place.
We dont need any more drama and eventful events in our world.
Just us together and enjoy the moment.
Within a fortress build on fantasies and desires.

We do that and we do that well.
We understand and we strive to protect it, relish it and cherish it.

Thank you UncleHasBeen for your detailed summary of your top 3. Seem like u prefer non local or is it juz an coincidence.

[UncleHasBeen]

Originally Posted by Loveliz69

Thank you UncleHasBeen for your detailed summary of your top 3. Seem like u prefer non local or is it juz an coincidence.

It is pure coincidental.
However to put it in perspective, i would say i prefer divorcees to married or singles for snacking on the sides.
These 3 ladies are divorcees

[Lemonjuice]

Originally Posted by UncleHasBeen

It is pure coincidental.
However to put it in perspective, i would say i prefer divorcees to married or singles for snacking on the sides.
These 3 ladies are divorcees

How to appeal to divorcee? I am aiming one now.. but at best we are "just friends"

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by UncleHasBeen

It is pure coincidental.
However to put it in perspective, i would say i prefer divorcees to married or singles for snacking on the sides.
These 3 ladies are divorcees

Yes, agreed with uncle....divorcees r best...there is no additional baggage or attachment to fear or worry abt....it is as if they r not married yet like those virgin singles