Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl

[bkklover]

Originally Posted by Rof|maoxz

I got -12 from the MAN. Please get back to topic, tks.

I got -24 from the M***e kekeke...anyway thanks for the entertainment...

They could change their passports,but the record is still there...if i am not wrong...

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by swing123

the threadster, has gone round and round and trip after trip to ICA, AV, MOM and etc to find out what's the right way or how to get the visit pass for his gf or wifey after marriage....he did put in the effort to get things going but to no avail (at least he didn't sit in front of computer and play "Thee-shall-know-all")....he is now coming to this forum, hoping if there is any of those who have done it before (either successful or unsuccessful), can share their knowledge/experience on how to get it done or is it that can't be done at all.....

i have gone back and re-read his first post 3 times....well, i wasn't academically excellent and i have to admit that I failed my O level english, but still after third time reading his first post, that's what i understand.....

perhaps you guys who are undergrad/postgrad understand his post differently? otherwise, your comments above are really uncalled for...

bro no need post leow. dont need to care what other pple said

talk to u when we meet in GM ^.^

[jon2000sg]

wonder why is there a lack of Singapore singles women here?
why our SG men after going GL have to marry these WL?

this shows there is a problem with the Singapore education or system?
Singapore women hard to woo? very sad, very sad indeed


as I say again, I met up with a PRC WL I met at lor-12 four years ago,
I never had a gf all my life (maybe due to my education and income?),
I can only bonk WLs, I had fall for one cat40 Thai girl, I gave her whatever
I can afford but she was grateful but never ask me for marriage, she's a good
woman.

I stopped cheong after she left for 3 years, I loiter in GL when the PRC WL tide arrive here in Singapore 4 years ago. I met this PRC WL with solid looks
and figure, I fell for her and she asked me for marriage. I also gave her whatever I can afford and she asked for more until I can't give her, there she
left. *sigh*

last week I met her again and she asked for marriage.
all I can say they are after the Singapore PR and custody after marriage.

to all who fall for WLs - you can sleep with them but never marry them !!!
just think of the other WLs you can go for if you are still single.

if you wanna tie the knot, go for a normal woman.

[pussyman72]

To all the old bros from sawadee forum

Im bring back our sawadee forum. hope all the bros will come back and support the forum as before.

those who love thailand and share information are all welcome.

This site as before are for pple who love thailand and also a place where u can post where u cheong in thailand. life in thailand and etc.

http://p082.ezboard.com/bsawadee85516

looking forward to see all the old bros and new ones

i have put bro snake, bro xilver and bro max as moderator.

cya guys there.

[shutterbugstar]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

If u are prepared for all kinds of arrows coming your way, why are you bothered by people who pour scorn and cold water on you?

Contradicting statement.





Why can't it be a well educated grad, virgin and yet do not fuck around after marriage?
Look at how fucking unfair you are making this statement.

Many of my friends have virtuous wives who are decent girls and not as WLs and doesn't fuck around after marriage.
Why don't you guys comment about how good these girls are?
But only know how to say Decent girls also fuck around.
Because want to justify marrying a Prostitute is a right choice for you.

Want to compare Apple with a rotten Orange, even an idiot will not eat the rotten Orange lah.


SC

Did i say i was bothered by the scorn or cold water? i was just letting bro pussyman know that he can expect good and bad postings from diff ppl.

the comparison is an anology to tell ppl not to be too judgemental. just like when ppl say ex wl sleep ard after marriage... so just like some normal gals do sleep ard after marriage too...just like in my earlier post i dont begrudge anyone who say bad things about me. it is not meant to be a sweeping statement that made u say it was unfair.

let's not all get too self righteous and let those who has not sinned cast the 1st stone.

[shutterbugstar]

Originally Posted by The_Unrepentant

he literally use $$ to buy his 'wife'. need to give his gal so much $$ then she can feel sercure with him? haha.

i can well afford to buy a few more if i choose to. many ppl can afford to buy too. but after that how things work out will still need effort from both parties.

i am glad to say things are working out fine so far and hopefully in future too.

this is a very practical world. money solves many problems and gives security. money gives security to ex wl and also to normal ppl like most ppl here.

if u indeed have found a companion who is willing to stick thru thick and thin with u if one day u r in poverty... i congratulate u and wish u can treasure such a person.

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by shutterbugstar

Did i say i was bothered by the scorn or cold water? i was just letting bro pussyman know that he can expect good and bad postings from diff ppl.

the comparison is an anology to tell ppl not to be too judgemental. just like when ppl say ex wl sleep ard after marriage... so just like some normal gals do sleep ard after marriage too...just like in my earlier post i dont begrudge anyone who say bad things about me. it is not meant to be a sweeping statement that made u say it was unfair.

let's not all get too self righteous and let those who has not sinned cast the 1st stone.

Hi shutterbugstar,

I apologised if my tone sounded too harsh for you.

You see, if others want to marry WL up to them.
But when I see people commenting "decent girls doesn't mean they don't sleep around after marriage". This statement also not wrong.

But I am especially peeved at people who bring in the issue of "decent gals sleep around too" and "wls sleep around issues" together.

Both issues should be separate issues...

Me going out now, later I explain more in detail...

SC

[shutterbugstar]

bro pussyman...

will still be reading the forum once in awhile but dont think got time to post for awhile....so some parting words for u....

remember that every relationship requires effort. the destination is the same for everyone, so it doesnt really matters. what is different and what really matters is the journey.

i hope u wont be disheartened by any negative comments. keep on going.

also pls do not be angry at anyone...not at ica or anti vice... and not at anyone here who chose to pour scorn on u. hate and angry and being judgemental will not bring u anywhere. think with a level head and solve the obstacles.

What matters is the matters between u and your companion.

best regards

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

Hi shutterbugstar,

I apologised if my tone sounded too harsh for you.

You see, if others want to marry WL up to them.
But when I see people commenting "decent girls doesn't mean they don't sleep around after marriage". This statement also not wrong.

But I am especially peeved at people who bring in the issue of "decent gals sleep around too" and "wls sleep around issues" together.

Both issues should be separate issues...

Me going out now, later I explain more in detail...

SC

Let me explain in detail regarding some on the marrying and getting PR for an Ex GL girl.

Many are thinking why some foreign girls can get their visit passes chopped or even get PR status easily but not WLs. It doesn't take a genius to know why.

The ICA people look at who are the sponsors. Their IR8A. The girls who get sponsored. Their education status. And many other criterias which is very similar to some countries migration applications.

If a decent foreign girl has a good education, holds a good paying job, on Employment Pass (Not Work Permit cos EP is on a higher bracket), of course they get priority in getting their chops or even application for PRs.

Now we come back to the Thai Cat40 WL. In the 1st place, when ICA looks at her records, they will know the reason she is here to work in Cat40 previously because of MONEY. The job that she held previously was providing sex service. They look at the Sponsor's application and think how in the world this guy can sponsor her when she is earning so much more previously. At most give short visit passes.

In the event that if both parties are married. The WL gets a PR. Both parties have differences and separates. How is the girl going to fend for herself in Singapore. What kind of work is she going to work to make herself survive? Go back To Geylang Cat40 when its no longer possible? Turn back to FL? (High Chance). It presents a whole new set of social problems.

Geylang commercial sex is regulated. Which means to say girls have to go for medicals, turnover records etc. Even the CCTVs are there for a purpose.

So if one asks why applications for long term visit passes and PR status is not given. Simply to say they don't meet the mark.

If we want to migrate to another country, we must also see whether we qualify to migrate.

How many of you actually sit down and think carefully why applications of such kind are rejected? Instead of thinking of why cannot this, why cannot that.
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People who want to marry WL. Go ahead. None of us can stop anyone from marrying the person they love. None of them can even stop others from being critical of such relationships.

But to say a decent girl might also sleep around b4/after marriage and no different from WLs, is not a reason.

True, a decent girl may sleep around. (some even worst than WLs, don't collect money somemore)

But is it fair to put these 2 grps of people to justify one's decision on marrying a WL is right?

And the funniest part is many will tend to bring out the flaws of Decent girls to justify their decision in marrying a WL.

I am thinking why they don't bring out the good points of the girl instead to justify that their decision is right?

Saying a decent girl sleep around is easy to say, why not say what are the good character points of a WL that makes one want her to be his spouse? Or is it there aren't any?

When people ask why do you marry a WL?

What will be your answer?
A) U tell them about all the good points of your wife to justify you never made a wrong decision

OR

B) U tell them that aiya, I marry a decent girl also no guarantee that she wouldn't fuck around.


SC

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by shutterbugstar

bro pussyman...

will still be reading the forum once in awhile but dont think got time to post for awhile....so some parting words for u....

remember that every relationship requires effort. the destination is the same for everyone, so it doesnt really matters. what is different and what really matters is the journey.

i hope u wont be disheartened by any negative comments. keep on going.

also pls do not be angry at anyone...not at ica or anti vice... and not at anyone here who chose to pour scorn on u. hate and angry and being judgemental will not bring u anywhere. think with a level head and solve the obstacles.

What matters is the matters between u and your companion.

best regards

yo shutterbugstar thanks

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by Donplayplay

Bro PM and XZ

Both of U still survive ahh.....

How about the rest of our Ex H. Bat members...

Why they don appear???

come come go back sawadee talk talk

[paulsun]

Some inputs from me, I want to say excuse me if my following comments offend anyone including my forum friends.

In an open Western society where many countries have legalize prostitution, men who patronize brothels are lookdown upon with a cetain social stigma attach to such persons. In US, we call them 'Johns', a degratory slang, these people are looked upon as losers, nerds, outcasts who cannot get laid without paying money. So people who wants to marry a whore are even worse and Singapore is still an asian society, such unions definately will be frown upon. Even someone who buys a foreign bride in with those marriage agency will face less scorn than a man who takes a prostitue as his wife. These are just facts I have stated.

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by paulsun

In an open Western society where many countries have legalize prostitution, men who patronize brothels are lookdown upon with a cetain social stigma attach to such persons. In US, we call them 'Johns', a degratory slang, these people are looked upon as losers, nerds, outcasts who cannot get laid without paying money.

its easier for westerners or angmos becos they are very open minded with sex. colleagues bonk colleagues, neighbours bonk neighbours and so forth. their "can i buy you a drink?" is actually saying "how about a fuck later?".

in asia, when we kio kway or get a paid fuck, we are considered higher class. thats becos when we pay, we are like towkays.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by paulsun

In an open Western society where many countries have legalize prostitution, men who patronize brothels are lookdown upon with a cetain social stigma attach to such persons. In US, we call them 'Johns', a degratory slang, these people are looked upon as losers, nerds, outcasts who cannot get laid without paying money.

You're called a "John" if you go for cheap whores.

If you get your girls from Heidi Fleiss, you're called a Hollywood Superstar.

[Happywheel]

Originally Posted by Donplayplay

Hi Old Soldier....

R U assisting your comrade??????

It has been long time lost in touch...

How is every1 in the platoon Since lost in touch...

Spy news inform me that U injure U still Cheong to HomeTown... Really envy U...

Going to Bombard HomeTown in July... Wanna to join in...

Yes i have just came back from Hatyai recently and will be going to bangkok real soon. Let me know if you need to replenish your stocks. Business not very good for me so i'm thinking of going up to pray Erawan Buddha.
Maybe you can join me if you are free.