Afterall, its just to release

[colins]

Bro TS, looks like the problem of the aftermath is very common. When I first did FL, this was my main problem. Then I tried with ONS, the feeling was worse, but the earlier seduction leading to sex more or less covers it. Only thing is, got guilt problem cos I dun like the girl. Then I got a gf, and this completely solved the problem, no guilt, no emptiness (especially if she helps you to clean up and both can talk awhile before dozing off). FB-wise, the aftermath is strange, it's like after a pair of friends just finishing a job. Can talk like friends yet taking sex just like any other topics under the sun, a little guilt feeling and emptiness.

So I guess the best to get a gf whom you really like, if you find the emptiness problem too overbearing. To me, its the guilt that affects me for days, esp when you want to avoid her and she still likes to talk.

[goodpartner]

I agree with the comments that the TS's concern is mainly due to the inverse relationship between spare cash and frustration. The lucky bastards who are loaded with cash will take on a FL anytime instead of PCC

It's true also that the emptiness feeling will settle down irregardless, that's why being an emotional being we seek matters of the heart - i.e. the KC thingy. That's where we need to learn how not to be its victim, but instead play to stay in the game, thus enjoying the sextifaction from both the mind and body.

I like the relation of such frastrations to age and "maturity" (as in bonking experiences) too. Any newbies here will swear that their cock will continue to stand for days after their first virgin bonk, but most old birds would usually be spending more of their time traveling overseas to experience more unusual/exotic bonks; go read the thread on international FR and find out how differently the WL service you in KTV, suanas, and even accompany you whole day after a quckie...

As we "mature", we just need bigger fix. It's no different from getting hooked on drugs

That's why we have different sections in SBF catering to bros at different "life stages"; from links exchange to Int'l FR and everything in between

The good news is that there's probably a wide enough variety of ways we can fuck around before we turn too old to enjoy. So enjoy while we last...

[kenneth21]

to all bros who told me to get a gf, probably i need to clarify this. I do have a gf and we do have sex regularly. But being men, of course we are open to the different dishes that comes along.

Basically, if some of you brothers realise, you could have been paying FLs enough money for a monthly installment of a car. and almost a monthly installment of a HDB as well, assuming you bought it like 2 yrs back.

But, i know things will still not change la, men will continue to look for FL. That includes me.. lol..
I'm still a horny bastard afterall.

[paul^bibi^baby]

TS bro, wah have gf and sex regularly still looking for more FLs ? Power la bro, i am not surprised as i have friends who are married but still lurking around in the bonking scene.

I have no experience to offer since i am single, but as senior bro goodpartner mentioned, if u wan to get the most out of ur money jus go overseas la. The fishes are fresher.

Cheers,
Paul

[DTCEPL]

Originally Posted by kenneth21

When an appointment is confirmed, there is this feeling of anxiety and a "feel good" feeling because you are trying something new. And upoon meeting the FL, sexual feelings will develop. after you complete the deed, you realised that you feel empty inside, both the testis and in the heart because its just another cum and you spend a few hundered dollar on it and its no difference from the cum of masturbation. I derieved this because i just masturbated and it really is the same.

Almost every men who go for FL, Pros or release in KTVs/HCs.....after the money for sex transaction, you will feel 'Empty'. Such feeling can't be erased, it will repeat itself everytime you engaged in such activities. Unless you have sex or rather make love to a woman you love or having feelings for....then you will not have this empty feeling. Having sex with a woman you love and a stranger is very different deep inside each man's heart.

Thats the reason why most men hoped for the GF feelings given by gals....maybe that increases the chances of not having the Empty feeing, and come out a more fulfilled person.

Hope Bros agreed with my argument.

[asean]

Haha, agree with you DTC ... but then if not much GF felling ... later tio KCed ... lagi jialat ...

[foooah]

That's why I think...FL = False Love...

The best if you really can't tahan just go for ONS.

Or get a steady relationship where ur gf understands both your needs for sex...

Live life TS!

[Captain_Hook]

Thsk just remember that releasing your seed into a woman and into your hand while viewing porn is not quite the same. Cheaper yes but feel wise...might not be better.

[Fuckster]

Originally Posted by foooah

That's why I think...FL = False Love...

Agreed or in another words, Fxxk n Leave

[justl00king]

FL is for you to satisfy your sexual urge, nothing more.

If you want to fill the void of emptiness, think you probably need to go into a real relationship not with a FL.

The problem lies when you get KC by them thinking the relation is real, end up having not only monetary but emotional losses as well. not saying no chance for feelings to develop but percentage rather slim or remote.

Still, the game can be played as long as not to invest too much feelings and just enjoy while it lasts.

I also made some mistakes in my course of cheonging. Luckily not too much damage. Nowadays, I always go bonking and after that go home a happy man. No stress, no headache, mission accomplished!

[foooah]

Originally Posted by Fuckster

Agreed or in another words, Fxxk n Leave

Nice one bro! I think we're on to something here! hahaha

U must copyright these if no one do yet..haha

[Compassion]

That is why I always subscribe to my signature' "Happiness is wanting what you have - meaning treasure what you possess now, whether is is material things, emotional attachment, love ones, personal relationship, etc.

When you try to have what you want - meaning satisfying your wants than your needs, you will always end up empty.

When relating to FLs, I always try to end up with one or two where you can build relationships mutually and where you think you can contribute towards helping another individual build a better life. So at the end of the day when it is over, you have the satisfaction that your so called "investment" has not gone to waste.

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by paul^bibi^baby

I have no experience to offer since i am single, but as bro goodpartner mentioned, if u wan to get the most out of ur money jus go overseas la. The fishes are fresher.

Fresh or not I can't say for sure lah, but my point about trying the FL or WL overseas is more for getting difference fucking experiences; it's not just 160/90/2 or $50 for 25min thingy - it's like for example:

1) 700 mei mei line up in rows, greeting you as you walk along to pick your fancy. Just picking up one is a ball of fun.
2) Spend 2 solid hours in a room attached with suana, let the girl service you like a king according to a fixed menu of 18-24 styles. No way to cheat u of service.
3) Have a quickie and then go jalan-jalan with the girl for the rest of the day like a GF
4) Pick a favourite one and travel together to another city for sight-seeing and short tour; enjoying free fuck along the way (excluding expenses lah)
5) Hang around a factory during knock-off time and jio a factory worker into doing FL and more.
6) Walk into a ktv room, and before you can sit down, there're girls inside already come knee in front of you pull down your pants and start giving u a BBBJ after wiping with a wet cloth. Then whole room of girls strip down to birthday suit and dance to the ktv music, allowing u to inspect the goods b4 ta-pao one back to hotel room.
7) etc...

After exposing your bonking lifestyle to the above and more, you will have lesser time to feel empty, since there are just so many ways to bonk! Then we'll know that it's NOT just about releasing... it's about enjoying manhood, while it last

[submarinez]

I guess this is part and parcel of chionging man... Sigh...

[colins]

Originally Posted by goodpartner

1) 700 mei mei line up in rows, greeting you as you walk along to pick your fancy. Just picking up one is a ball of fun.
2) Spend 2 solid hours in a room attached with suana, let the girl service you like a king according to a fixed menu of 18-24 styles. No way to cheat u of service.
3) Have a quickie and then go jalan-jalan with the girl for the rest of the day like a GF
4) Pick a favourite one and travel together to another city for sight-seeing and short tour; enjoying free fuck along the way (excluding expenses lah)
5) Hang around a factory during knock-off time and jio a factory worker into doing FL and more.
6) Walk into a ktv room, and before you can sit down, there're girls inside already come knee in front of you pull down your pants and start giving u a BBBJ after wiping with a wet cloth. Then whole room of girls strip down to birthday suit and dance to the ktv music, allowing u to inspect the goods b4 ta-pao one back to hotel room.
7) etc...

Bro, if you say all these and never say where all these can be found, that is very bad of you. Especially number 6! Tell me where and I'll make that my next holiday destination! haha...
cheers