I believe by now your pm is flooded since u can Only receive 10 with advise and also with indecent proposal and maybe some with hiddeb agenda.
Nobody know the roots except u and hubby. I just want to say the part about men losing their sexual needs as age catching. I disagree my friend is 50s and his Taiwan wife is 30s they are 20 yrs apart. They just have their 2nd child friend disclose whenever wife in SG they hump like bunny. Although he admit his stamina can't catch up but he still love sex. I am in my 40s I still love sex... also so does many aging bros in Sbf.
Now your issue like u say before marriage all okie now all differENT like he less interest. Reason might be
Cause before marriage doesnt live together so when meet up of coz sex is wonderful. Now u stay together it like a different u feel u might have hump everyday at the start. So it probably become a chore or stale sex life that he is bore.
Go try something new if it still doesnt work than go counseling if counselling still doesnt work. Than your own sexual desire is at your own hand at your own risk.
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Well, mine is worst.
I've not have sex with my wife for years.
Think... About 4 years?!
To think that we man love sex. "Mostly"
When just married, sex life is good. Miss those days.
I still remember what my wife tell me the last time I ask for it.
Few weeks before the "incident "
When I ask for it, she was always tired. Then, got chance that she rest for 3 days. ( yes, she working ) I tell myself, good chance, I put my kids to sleep early, done everything nicely. And when the times come...... " I want to sleep"..... I was like.... "What the hell..!"... I was thinking Maybe she not good mode.. Few days later, finally we did it, but no..! We did it for 10 mins and she was like " still haven't cum?" And she just disengage and go bath. Guy might know the feeling... Then few days later, I ask for it again, she just give me a HJ with a Sian look... And finally, the last time I ask, she just said " do it yourself lah"... That's the last time I ever ask my wife.
Ppl might think my wife got affairs outside, but I dont want to think about that. I was always thinking of my kids before I act.
I'm just 40, but my drive for sex still high and I know, stress and physical stress will effect the mode for sex. Wish I got a fb... LoL...
Wah. I hope i will never turn into your wife if i ever have kids years later! Cant imagine life without sex.
TS, theres always ups and down.
Me, married 4-5years. Wife and me 20+. She "dropped" the idea of sex when our kid is out. "faster cum" is all she say ever since. Sometimes she dont even want to remove her top when we are on it.. And its been like 2 years since i get a bj?
im quite horny, need at least 2x a week(its everyday for the first year for me, lol)
But all in all, she give me at least 1x a week. Oh well, at least theres something.
Not sure about your case, maybe he's tired? try bringing up the mood or something?
And you mentioned its the first time only?
Cheers
Hahaha my top is also left on during sex because he dont even touch them or initiate to remove.
I think many people here are mistaking sex with making love. And that for man, there is no need to take note of their emotional needs as well.
It is true that while man are more horny by nature, and that when they are horny, no other emotions are needed for sex. But for married couples, sometimes showing concern about a man's emotional needs can also go a long way in improving bed life.
My suggestion will be to show some care and concern, cook some good food, plan some activities to get into the mood (e.g. watching some romantic movie with steamy scenes or dancing with subtle teasing etc.). Tease your man! Make him crave for you
Quite a familiar situation & story tat we are reading & hearing abt all the time here in tis forum from u wifeys about yr sex wif yr hubbies...Hmmm..mid 30s & still lidat ???...still very young man leh ..no I dun tink so men's sex drive goes lower with age unless they reach their 70s or more...there may be other problems like work related issues or other kinds of daily stress which may affect his libido..spicing up yr sex life wif him is wat u shd do...dun need to wait for him to initiate..you can start by seducing him by wearing sexy lingerie b4 bedtime action or do kinky roleplays wif each other which makes many couples enjoy their sexing !! ...feel free to let me know if u want to know more details...
Not exactly true about the age and sex drive, I've known someone who is into 70s but still can get their daugther-in-law preggy and in the end he was both the father and grandfather at the same time.
Nowadays, sex life is tallying with hectic working or busy lifestyle, blaming on being tired and not in the mood. Sex is what gets us married in the first place. Who wants to just marry for the love without sex? Might as well stay as friends, even friends can have sex easily or rather more easily.
Being passive or active, you still need both hands to clap together to get a sound. One sided mostly will end up being unappreciated, misunderstood, neglected, dejected and worst dissected.
Why people have extra-marital affairs? Main reason is that one party was not getting sextified, and the other party not willing to help out.
Use your hand campaign is safest DIY method, otherwise look for greener pastures. GOOD LUCK.
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I'm mid 40s, sex drive is still high, erections still rock hard, so its not an age thing. But it depends guy to guy. Sometimes low drive is due to stress, health, anxiety (about sex or other stuff)... many causes. He might be shy to talk to you about it. Or something about your sex life has affected him and its building up.
You guys got to talk. Is the rest of your relationship ok? Besides poor sex life, if the rest of your relationship also not as good as before?
Go for marriage counselling. Ya, some people think its useless, but give it a try. Sometimes couples need help to talk heart to heart. You don't have to start together. Check around for a good one (relationship forums, friends, Google, etc) go by yourself first and get started to sort your own feelings out first. At some point, the counsellor will teach you how to convince hubby to come along.
Actually we did try to talk. I've asked him if he thinks our frequency of sex drop after marriage and he said yes. I've also voiced my unhappiness on the lack of foreplay, told him it should be two ways. Things improved for awhile after the talk, but it soon went back to routine sex again. As i was sharing with one of the bros here. Sometimes even when he initiate, he will just grab my hand and place it on his dick, expecting me to make the first move. Sighhh.
I believe by now your pm is flooded since u can Only receive 10 with advise and also with indecent proposal and maybe some with hiddeb agenda.
Nobody know the roots except u and hubby. I just want to say the part about men losing their sexual needs as age catching. I disagree my friend is 50s and his Taiwan wife is 30s they are 20 yrs apart. They just have their 2nd child friend disclose whenever wife in SG they hump like bunny. Although he admit his stamina can't catch up but he still love sex. I am in my 40s I still love sex... also so does many aging bros in Sbf.
Now your issue like u say before marriage all okie now all differENT like he less interest. Reason might be
Cause before marriage doesnt live together so when meet up of coz sex is wonderful. Now u stay together it like a different u feel u might have hump everyday at the start. So it probably become a chore or stale sex life that he is bore.
Go try something new if it still doesnt work than go counseling if counselling still doesnt work. Than your own sexual desire is at your own hand at your own risk.
Actually we were already living together before marriage. Maybe he just got tired of me...
Not exactly true about the age and sex drive, I've known someone who is into 70s but still can get their daugther-in-law preggy and in the end he was both the father and grandfather at the same time.
Nowadays, sex life is tallying with hectic working or busy lifestyle, blaming on being tired and not in the mood. Sex is what gets us married in the first place. Who wants to just marry for the love without sex? Might as well stay as friends, even friends can have sex easily or rather more easily.
Being passive or active, you still need both hands to clap together to get a sound. One sided mostly will end up being unappreciated, misunderstood, neglected, dejected and worst dissected.
Why people have extra-marital affairs? Main reason is that one party was not getting sextified, and the other party not willing to help out.
Use your hand campaign is safest DIY method, otherwise look for greener pastures. GOOD LUCK.
I do diy. Sometimes i will tease him and say "im going to the room to play with my vibrator". Most of the times he will just leave me alone to do it. At times he might come in to join. But just watch me as i pleasure myself, then stuff his dick into my mouth and penetrate me thereafter.
212am, lying next to my husband and feeling super angsty that i can't even fall asleep. He rejected me for the first time today.
To be frank, our sex life has been pretty boring ever since after marriage. It always start with a blowjob and he will just penetrate me straight. If im lucky, i get some boobs grabbing or licking. Sex life was so much better before marriage.
Sigh, is it true that as guys age their sex drive drop? He is 10years my senior and im still in my mid twenties.
Feel so lonely and dejected tonight.
Try to build up the tempo.
Like the atmosphere, the smell, the look..
Man are visual creature.
In the worst case, you go drug your Husband. Put viagra into his drink and wait for effect to come.
Tell your hubby if you dont want make happy in bed, I will find someone else. Sure it will give him a head knock. And wear something Sexy inside home, always clean and smell fresh.
212am, lying next to my husband and feeling super angsty that i can't even fall asleep. He rejected me for the first time today.
To be frank, our sex life has been pretty boring ever since after marriage. It always start with a blowjob and he will just penetrate me straight. If im lucky, i get some boobs grabbing or licking. Sex life was so much better before marriage.
Sigh, is it true that as guys age their sex drive drop? He is 10years my senior and im still in my mid twenties.
Feel so lonely and dejected tonight.
Hi sis, maybe ur husband is tired after work.
Why not u all try it out during the weekends.
212am, lying next to my husband and feeling super angsty that i can't even fall asleep. He rejected me for the first time today.
To be frank, our sex life has been pretty boring ever since after marriage. It always start with a blowjob and he will just penetrate me straight. If im lucky, i get some boobs grabbing or licking. Sex life was so much better before marriage.
Sigh, is it true that as guys age their sex drive drop? He is 10years my senior and im still in my mid twenties.
Feel so lonely and dejected tonight.
Is a pity he do not enjoy your young body! I would have eat you every night! I presume your hubby is very tired after work? Is his work very stressful? Sometimes you can also seduce him to get him high and horny also.
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I do diy. Sometimes i will tease him and say "im going to the room to play with my vibrator". Most of the times he will just leave me alone to do it. At times he might come in to join. But just watch me as i pleasure myself, then stuff his dick into my mouth and penetrate me thereafter.
That turns him on, you should try more of that with different variation on different nights.
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Sad to know that this is happening to you. I always think that only women will be the one that is not interested in sex. It happen to my wife. So we men are the sucker that have to look for alternative. But seems like it can happen the other way around.
Hope your situation will improve. I'm hoping too. Ha..ha..
14-04-2016, 11:13 AM
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