One and Only Girlfriend

[James Porn]

Believe me, this question of whether the grass is greener over the other side will be forever be in your mind as long as you live

We are all humans, if we guys can think this way, what makes you so sure the gals don;t think the way we do? I have come across conversations among gals who fantasize about the hunky handsome korean actors. If given the chance, do you think they will reject? Ha ha!

Anyway, life is like a buffet spread. Just eat whatever you can handle.

[Demonkin7]

Originally Posted by James Porn

Believe me, this question of whether the grass is greener over the other side will be forever be in your mind as long as you live

We are all humans, if we guys can think this way, what makes you so sure the gals don;t think the way we do? I have come across conversations among gals who fantasize about the hunky handsome korean actors. If given the chance, do you think they will reject? Ha ha!

Anyway, life is like a buffet spread. Just eat whatever you can handle.

Totally agree with Bro James Porn.
From the looks of ts question can know that his mindset is rather fresh.
Ts u also haven't try lb n get banged before.
Maybe grass is grener on the other side too?
U never try u never know right?
There r so many things that might look good to u, so u want to try EVERYTHING?
With that in mind rather u dun waste ur gf time.
A lady's youth is more precious than a man's youth.
Dun drag someone else into ur hell.

[Greendevil]

I guess TS also nv try broke back mountain before. There a gay forum over there too, Choo Choo, go try!

[Nonteeruk2553]

If you start this thread means she is not one for u.

[zzaabbc]

Seems like you're seeking more towards fun than commitment. Then I guess you already have your answer, and she deserves someone better.

[Ashyboy]

Bro..jus break up with your gf la..Don waste her youth on you..from what u wrote over here..u r still on the funky type whom u don wan to finsh your single life..Trust me when u r married..NO MORE SINGLE LIFE liao coz everything will be tied down tgt with yr wife liao..and also u r not in serious in BGR too..i know u wan to try on other gals like siam bu..viet bu too...By no means coz u mayb already having single life..But when age catches up u might be regret that yr ex gf is well better then the outside "fishes".

Good Luck Bro..My cents of concern to u..

[kacangoven]

Thanks for all your advise bros.

Lets just say that I have been fucking around since college. I have tried many different nationalities before. I have been to strip clubs, FKK clubs, tried escorts, etc. So yes I have done my share of sins in the past. But even during "chasing her" part, I never even have any interest in doing it besides with her.

Maybe some bros here are right, that the question of "the grass is always greener" will always be there.

I guess I should just feel blessed that I found her.

[Topup]

Originally Posted by kacangoven

Thanks for all your advise bros.

Lets just say that I have been fucking around since college. I have tried many different nationalities before. I have been to strip clubs, FKK clubs, tried escorts, etc. So yes I have done my share of sins in the past. But even during "chasing her" part, I never even have any interest in doing it besides with her.

Maybe some bros here are right, that the question of "the grass is always greener" will always be there.

I guess I should just feel blessed that I found her.

The whole saying is "The grass is always greener on the other side......because there's more shit there! " Mwaahaha haha!

[discordpiggy]

Originally Posted by ah rat

Ts,u should happy that u have 1 only GF. Other ppls even don't have one.
Bro if u have more,it will be headache for u

ah rat! well said! i will UP you... not with points

TS, u should be happy that you have a gf... some bros here don't have... while some women like me can never find...

you create the magic to make it work... it is all in you... good luck!

[cheanyee]

Ts should break up with his gf. Let her gf fuck by other guy like u fuck other girl

[itsme]

TS, glad you are here amongst bros and all with open sharing allowing you to see wider angle. I am like you, having one girl, and like the bros here said, I drool seeing pretty, fantasizing seeing sexy, I have itch and I get horny.
Then there is this thing that weighs much more than distrust, which I want no part in. Thank God over the years I somehow managed not to fix anything that ain't broken. I enjoyed it and nature it to blossom.
My girl friend of only 3 months & wife of 30 years is the someone I shaped out of love, and I believe certain part of me was gloomed by her too.
See this forum too has been very good to me and keeps my sex appetite going especially these recent years. Great thanks to the bros for their true sharing and unselfish, exciting contributions.
Cheers and God Bless all to be safe.

[Nikkikoh]

Once start cannot stop.
Think twice before making a decision.
Just don't be selfish.
What goes around comes around.

[tallsynn]

TS, some ppl may regret, but some ppl wont, it all depends on yourself.
For me, married to the right person, (someone that will help by ur side when things get bad) is more important then married to the one we wanted or lusted, Coz u can end up cheating her, making ur families frustrated, even jeopardize ur children future.

Is OK to hv just 1 women in ur life, It all depends on yourself. follow your heart, dun follow your eyes.

[mcyeoh]

most people do not know this....men and women are biologically wired to be polygamous but around 4 million....something amazing happen...monogamy happen...this evolutionary feature/trait propels us, humans to what we are and who we are today....research states that the comparison between a monogamous vs a polygamous relationship that a the former will have higher chance of achieving happiness whereas the latter have lower chance.

[justdifferent]

Originally Posted by kacangoven

Hi Bros,

I know that this particular sub-forum is suppose to be about sex. But I got a question to ask you bros. I have a girlfriend, and so far she is my one and only. I am currently in mid-twenties, and so is she. So we are at the point whether to go all the way (marriage) or somehow to end it.

The concern that I am having is that I am afraid that I might regret that during my whole life I only had 1 girlfriend. I know that sometimes "your neighbors grass is not always greener" but I still have this tingling feeling.

so, is there any bros out there that his wife is his one and only girlfriend, and do you bros regret it?

Thanks

once upon a time, i was in your situation. so now i'm "过来人", the advice that i can give to you is: choose.

before you marry her, choose.

take some time and ask your heart and your mind: do you

a) love her more than you want to play
b) want to play more than you love her

it really is that simple. if you feel more like playing then do break things off properly and firmly with her and go play till your heart's content. if you love her more then don't think about playing around. sometimes the more you feed your mind something, the more you go down that path. stop thinking about it, stop fantasizing about it, etc. it takes time to gear your mind that way, but it is possible. we are partially in control of our thoughts.

it may sound simple but in reality when you're in such a situation, it is really difficult. we all want the best of both worlds. i knew at that point of time after i've tried everything and played around enough that the person i want in the end is still her. so what would be the point of playing around first? sometimes, if you don't experience something for yourself you would never accept that it is so.

just know that there is a huge probability (or actually more like almost definitely) that she will not be yours anymore after you've went and played around. the temptation will always be there. the question is: is it worth it?