Pls help!!! I really need to rekindle sex life w hubby

[stel]

how abt a change in dressing ?

At home , wear grown , transparent grown , without dra n panties ..

sit on him on the sofa , when he watches the tv ...

massage him from the back ... give a a good massge with aromo oil ...

Just a suggestion , only ..

[sytloverr]

Originally Posted by Myvoicemail

I'm still a very attractive lady. So appearance is not a problem.

Some kind souls, please help me!!!! It will really save me. Really grateful to you all with much appreciation!

forget the long talks, questions & dinner.

if he's a loving husband, that's heads & shoulders over many relationships already! many still have sex with their wives, but only as a robotic consequence. remember, sex is but a small portion of a good relationship.

here's what you should do.

and do it quick....
when he's sleeping in the morning.

sneak up and give him a nice blowjob.
wrap his cock in your mouth gently and pamper him.

then when he's slightly hardened.
grab the rod and mount him slowly

his loving wife going down on him in the morning.
can't be a bad thing, seriously...
but be gentle, nothing too agressive.
as you don't want to wake him up suddently/get him grumpy.

(morning's best, as sometimes the body does the hardening for you)
so no need to worry about mood.

hope this helps


all the best.

[joscklee]

Obviously your husband has woman/women outside lah

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Think her husband must be sneezing non-stop today
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[see see only]

Originally Posted by sibaysong4u

TRy something new, like him fuck yr ASS.

Hahahaha .... this one i like ....


TS,

Giving your this virgin will surely interest him ...

[BigBoy2]

Go see a doctor with him.... Seek professional advise!!!!!

[wells]

I have one bro who also did not have sex with his wife after she gave birth. He loves his wife, take care of family. I ask him why no sex?

He told me that after witness his wife gave birth in hospital, he got a phobia and cannot erect if see the pussy. I do not know how true izit.

[Ken79]

learn how to wear something sexy in the bedroom, men are visual animals

give him a BJ when he least expects and he'd rape u, men like surprises

last but not least, he is fucking someone out there!

[shctaw]

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[blur boy]

Originally Posted by wells

I have one bro who also did not have sex with his wife after she gave birth. He loves his wife, take care of family. I ask him why no sex?

He told me that after witness his wife gave birth in hospital, he got a phobia and cannot erect if see the pussy. I do not know how true izit.

I was just about to raise this question to TS, if her hubby was with her when she give birth?

If he was there, there might be a possibility that he is being affected by the "scene".

Talk to him and ask him, only through communication can change the situation.

All the best in your search for sex with your hubby

[etct88]

Originally Posted by alan0338

just open up ur legs and ask him to poke u, tell him if he dun, others will

...others, like you ........

[EtherC]

Just some facts to help our damsel in distress:

1) Our gonads(aka testicles) have a finite capacity hence we men need to get rid of excess sperm produced and there are several outlets- sex, masturbation or wet dreams.

So has your husband been having wet dreams or masturbating?

Yes- good for you, the issue of non -sex may be likely psychological
No- I'm sorry, but it is likely he has been using other means to rid himself of the accumulated sperm
Not sure- Then go find out

2) There are many cases of men feeling turned off by their wives after child birth:

a)It could be that he can't bring himself to fuck the Motherhood Figure you have become.

b)Traumatic visuals induced by childbirth- the blood & fluids, slimy looking newborn plus the dilating vagina can have an impact on men. Some people faint over the mere sight of blood.

3) Stress
This is a killer, not only can it reduce libido it can affect almost every other aspect of one's health

Hope this helps a bit. Relax and enjoy sex, there is nothing wrong with initiating and don't fear rejection. This is your husband. Like what another Samster said, nothing turns men on like a slow gentle morning blowjob. Good Luck!

[Penislol]

Originally Posted by alan0338

just open up ur legs and ask him to poke u, tell him if he dun, others will

agreed with bro alan. this the best solution.

[unsaintly]

Originally Posted by EtherC

Just some facts to help our damsel in distress:

1) Our gonads(aka testicles) have a finite capacity hence we men need to get rid of excess sperm produced and there are several outlets- sex, masturbation or wet dreams.

So has your husband been having wet dreams or masturbating?

Yes- good for you, the issue of non -sex may be likely psychological
No- I'm sorry, but it is likely he has been using other means to rid himself of the accumulated sperm
Not sure- Then go find out

2) There are many cases of men feeling turned off by their wives after child birth:

a)It could be that he can't bring himself to fuck the Motherhood Figure you have become.

b)Traumatic visuals induced by childbirth- the blood & fluids, slimy looking newborn plus the dilating vagina can have an impact on men. Some people faint over the mere sight of blood.

3) Stress
This is a killer, not only can it reduce libido it can affect almost every other aspect of one's health

Hope this helps a bit. Relax and enjoy sex, there is nothing wrong with initiating and don't fear rejection. This is your husband. Like what another Samster said, nothing turns men on like a slow gentle morning blowjob. Good Luck!

Point number 2 possible.

Went drinking with a friend during regular after work happy hour at pub and chat.

Talked about marital sex, he told me he cannot bring himself to initiate the sex because of the respect he has for his wife and he sees his wife as a companion, someone to take care of and take care of him etc etc and not a figure for sex. He just masturbates to relief. -Sad for my friend- He is happily married though. He still has the occassional sex. But wife initiate. So you really can try. The morning blowjob before he wakes up sounds interesting. might work.

Do a little fishing. Give him the blowjob and when he starts enjoying stop. Then use sms to tease him thru the day and when u get home u initiate it.

[cooldudex]

Can't think of sex when one is stress and tensed anyways. So nothing like a good massage with a good massage oil (lavender perhaps) to get the juices flowing. Some times small gestures like that will go a long way. Especially when he has been out working his arse off the whole day. Think about it.