FB - Sensation or Senses?

[AcidLight]

I gave up on FBs already. Had 2. First one got to know thru work, she made 1st move. I reject cos like bros say...don't eat where you shit. But she made a few more tries finally small head win. But I made it clear its just physical...despite what she say yes I understand...within a few months she start getting emotionally involved. Fortunately, managed to have a rather clean unentanglement.

2nd also similar case. Almost got ugly.

I realize for women, as much as it is just physical, they tend to get emotionally involved. Esp when the guy treats them nice....I'm not saying treat your FB badly lah! But one female fren pointed out to me, sometimes I treat them too nice so boundaries get blurred. LOL, classic case of its not you, its me. sheesh.

But sigh, temptations...must learn to strengthen big head.

[BiRd13]

Frankly speaking, I have several (Perhaps slightly total of 10 FBs) till now. So far do still have 'acquainted' with are about 4 of them only.

Among the 4, I should say all 4 are of different reason.

One of them, is we both just enjoy the 'sexual' within us. She's married though, but somehow can't get 'sextisfaction' from her hubby. She had a few FBs/ons before, but somehow, kind of 'stick' to me, as basing on emotional, or physical, both can sextisfied her =)

One of them, is we have feeling for each other. However, she comes from some rich and reputation family, and hence, her family does not allow us to be together. (We were was a couple). Hence, we can only do it 'discreetly', as we still have feeling for each other after so many years together, even though she's married to a hubby whom she does not love at all...

One is my friend. We chatted with each other alot, and met up with each other alot. Somehow, perhaps 'chatted' too much, and end up making love together in a cold, rainy night... haha... Since then, we continued the way, as she don't want any commitment, as in goes into rs...

The 4th, is my friend's gf too. Had an ons with her one night, after she had an huge argument with her ex (That time haven't together with my friend). After that, we met up once a week just for sexual activities, and somehow, after 2-2 months, we both lost contact... When saw her again after 2yrs, she's with my friend already... During one conversation together with her (As meet her up for dinner), and after that, we went on bed again. Somehow, decide to be discreet, till either of us got married

[justcurious29]

Originally Posted by whiteangelcsh

Been pondering upon this for awhile.

FB - does ur relation wif ur FB a one tts of pure lust or wif a touch of frenship? My terms of frenship doesn't stops at the mere definition of fren. Do u feel comfy in confiding and sharing ur senses wif ur FB? How does he/she look upon such interaction? I would reckoned tt most juz prefer pure lust without commitment. Dun get me wrong. I'm not referring to one tts gonna developed into steady relationship of settling down wif ur FB.

Let's face it. There are moments when one would like to share their thoughts and senses to their FB but holds back due to the nature of such relationship. How often would u wanna let it out and hv sensual talks to care and understand for each other. Many a time one would be taken aback and refrain frm sharing too much. But there are moments where one might be comfy enough to share intimate thots wif ur FB. Afterall, it still requires certain degree of sensual comfortness when u are wif ur FB.

Small head over big head? Big head ruining the rules of the game? Would like to hear ur comments.

ps: to those whom I had once hurt, I'm sorry...

I am married and never had a FB before. I have been asking myself this question too - Is there really such thing as FB just for lust?

I have my doubts really - a relationship built on lust may soon turn into a true relationship.

Take this scenario - A man with a successful career and reasonable marriage decided to find a FB just for lust. Do you think the FB will let this man go easily if she knows that she can possibly take over this man and become family?