Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by bkklover

I think not they do not know,they just pushing it...

If I encounter this, I will look for the right person in ICA. Marriage with a WL is not the first time in SG, they should encounter this many times and have a solution yrs back.

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by xilverzap

Not that. BUT my guess is there are not that many cases like Sgp men wanting to marry a WL, ex WL. So.... infomation on how to get about wanting to settle down is not easily available.

Luckily ICA don't have this dept or else the officer-in-charge will have to answer so many questions to so many "clients". Who is genuine and who is not?

Originally Posted by xilverzap

Hence, people seek ways to look for info and people who have already gone through this kind of thing to ask what else is there to do to make this thing work. Hence here or any other forums that have these people around. Would this place be a good site to ask? Think about it.

I have seen for myself how some want to be with Ex-WLs. They do not go apply marriage or even PR, because they know what is in store for them. They just faithfully go and chop their short term, long term passes.
They know the inconveniences. That's why when this solution is pointed out, why is there people who still want to go and do something different

Humans are greedy.

When u give them 2 weeks social visit, they want 1 month
When u give them 1 month, they want 3 months
When u give them 3 months, they want 6 months
When u give them 6 months, they want 1 year
When u give them 1 year, they start to think of how to apply PR.

Originally Posted by xilverzap

We have seen many people here struggling with the fact that getting hitched with a WL and wanting to marry them is already a uphill climb with lots of checks and re-checks and making sure everything is proper so that they can be with the one they LOVE. What people are trying to do is not to mess up it up.

If knowing the mountain has a tiger, u still want to walk the path and meet the tiger? 明知山有虎，偏向虎山行。

Go Thailand lar. Then got some other issues as family in sg, how to survive in Thailand etc. Either one party has to uproot to be with the other, so if this side cannot, then go other side

Originally Posted by xilverzap

Like I mentioned, He asked for info, not opinon on whether is doing the right thing or not. Leave the latter to himself. Many people here have got many different experiences with WLs FLs or EXs ones as well. Experience is a rich thing to tab. Just read with a big bucket of salt. hahaha

Xilver

I am reading with a big bucket of salt and only when I don't get salt but acid coming along my way, I have to throw it back with napalm.

hahaha
SC

[xilverzap]

Originally Posted by naemlo

By going to the right person n u still dun get your answer. U should look for someone else from the same dept. As for ICA, if that officer dunno, then look for his boss, if boss still dunno, y waste tax money??

I dont know about you, but I do feel I am wasting tax money as it is. But still lan lan.... hahaha... While it is easy to ask, sometimes, we dont know what to look out for or ask for mah... So any extra info here is good also.

Originally Posted by naemlo

If u want to go down to word by word, where is the word that suggests marriage with a WL?

Well, no need go word for word lah... Unless I really misunderstand the words MISC CHIT CHAT for somthing else , I think a simple query here also is ok mah...

Xilver

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

That's why when this solution is pointed out, why is there people who still want to go and do something different

SC, u still dun understand, ppl initially pay n bonk shiok shiok but later he slowly falls for this WL. Now he wants to marry this WL n seeking advice here.

Originally Posted by siamcutey

Humans are greedy.

Will ppl bonk another WL n fall for her?

Originally Posted by siamcutey

If knowing the mountain has a tiger, u still want to walk the path and meet the tiger? 明知山有虎，偏向虎山行。

Cannot u-turn liao.... got tiger also must go face it... cos almost reach the peak.

Originally Posted by siamcutey

Go Thailand lar. Then got some other issues as family in sg, how to survive in Thailand etc. Either one party has to uproot to be with the other, so if this side cannot, then go other side

U dunno meh, walk 1 step, look 1 step. Deeply in love.

[xilverzap]

Originally Posted by naemlo

No... this is not a good ideal place to ask. U can try asking this question in Auntie Agony forum. Maybe she might be able to help u. So if my pet is sick, do I ask it here?? There r a lot of pet lovers in this forum too.

Well, I beg to differ, there are many bros here with the same issue. Unless quite blind to it. haha..

Originally Posted by naemlo

What we really need is for someone not to mess up his life.

True. Agree. So I guess by helping if possible and giving info will help lessener his chance of messing up his life lor...

Xilver

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by bkklover

I think not they do not know,they just pushing it...

The rules already stated cannot. The girls when go AV, ICA, AV, ICA tell them what can and what cannot. People just want to appeal. Go around the system. Do something different.

So who is pushing who?
When u know an answer and u still go and waste people's time, people of course will waste your time too by pushing u around.
Buey tahan? Thats just too bad. Why not you work in ICA and be the officer-in-charge and everyday you be the one to settle this kind of problems.

**** There was this man who goes to an MP asking him to delay his HDB completion cos he got no where to move. MP said HDB already rejected his application and also have to be fair to the new owner. Why not rent somewhere else for 2 months. This fucker then say he cannot afford and die die want to stay there cos he doesn't want to go out and pay rent for 2 months. And the best part is he pocketed 30K from his positive sales. MP rejected to help him. He threatened and said he will jump from his unit if anyone force him to move. He tell the MP is to inform him. U think as MP will let him jump meh?(True story or Fake one, not an issue)****

The moral behind this story is, doesn't mean to say that if someones accedes to your request, it means your request is a reasonable one.


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[naemlo]

Originally Posted by xilverzap

While it is easy to ask, sometimes, we dont know what to look out for or ask for mah... So any extra info here is good also.

U know y it is difficult to look for the right person?? Cos most ppl still pai seh to talk to anyone esp in public with crowd around u, "my gf works in GL cat 40, who should I talk to regarding our marriage n how to apply PR for her". I guess most will say this, "my gf is a foreigner, who should I talk to regarding our marriage n PR."

Originally Posted by xilverzap

MISC CHIT CHAT

It mentioned, MISC CHIT CHAT ON ...... go n read it if u still dun understand the meaning.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by xilverzap

Well, I beg to differ, there are many bros here with the same issue. Unless quite blind to it. haha..

A lot meh?? So my pet sick liao, how?

Originally Posted by xilverzap

True. Agree. So I guess by helping if possible and giving info will help lessener his chance of messing up his life lor...

Let me ask u a question, y gers work as WL?? Dun tell me it is her hobby.

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by xilverzap

I dont know about you, but I do feel I am wasting tax money as it is. But still lan lan.... hahaha... While it is easy to ask, sometimes, we dont know what to look out for or ask for mah... So any extra info here is good also.



Well, no need go word for word lah... Unless I really misunderstand the words MISC CHIT CHAT for somthing else , I think a simple query here also is ok mah...

Xilver

Bro Xliver

no need to post lar lol wasting time posting. said so much they also dont know what they writing or reading lol

one of the bro tell me to buy naemlo a beer in poseidon and ask him to shutup.

also hear from them. they got burn by WL before so they hate WL ma.

so dont need to post anymore leow bro. wasting time you know i know can liao muhahhahaaha

lol bro u know what bro sam zap me lol. why dont u put as -9999 bro sam it much ez right =)

[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by naemlo

U know y it is difficult to look for the right person?? Cos most ppl still pai seh to talk to anyone esp in public with crowd around u, "my gf works in GL cat 40, who should I talk to regarding our marriage n how to apply PR for her". I guess most will say this, "my gf is a foreigner, who should I talk to regarding our marriage n PR."

Uncle, seven early eight early come in and be so critical about this case. Give him a break, his GF was here five years ago, perhaps there is more to this relationship.

[xilverzap]

Originally Posted by naemlo

A lot meh?? So my pet sick liao, how?

Try starting a new thread on that lor.. see howz the responds.. hahaha... it'll be fun to watch.

Originally Posted by naemlo

Let me ask u a question, y gers work as WL?? Dun tell me it is her hobby.

YOU DONT KNOW??? hmmm.. let's see.... Why do we men like to bonk so much with different girls all the time knowing that we'll 1day die of some disease, kena go6, open to emotional attacks (fall in love) and yet have to PAY MONEY one some more???? ask ourselves 1st lor...

Sad but true...

Xilver

[peterfish]

Originally Posted by pussyman72

Bro Xliver

no need to post lar lol wasting time posting. said so much they also dont know what they writing or reading lol

one of the bro tell me to buy naemlo a beer in poseidon and ask him to shutup.

also hear from them. they got burn by WL before so they hate WL ma.

so dont need to post anymore leow bro. wasting time you know i know can liao muhahhahaaha

lol bro u know what they now zap me point lei lol cannot tahan leow buay song me so attack my point as if i care lol. growup boys. =) why dont u ask sam put as -9999 better it much ez right =)

kkn. like that got ppls chay a bit already buay tahan. Next time when you marry (if ever you marry her), you bring her out and got ppls point at her and said that they had fucked her b4 or your best male fren had fucked her b4 in GL, then how? think you are wasting your time here online. If got time, better go keep your WL gf company. Clearly you only wanna to hear what you like to hear or what you wanna others to say.

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by OceanEleven

Uncle, seven early eight early come in and be so critical about this case. Give him a break, his GF was here five years ago, perhaps there is more to this relationship.

nvm lar bro it ok de =) now i know they also bleed from WL before pocket also one hole b4 that is why so anti ma and love them like mad also

dont post leow no need to said anymore. we talk in private message can leow =)

[xilverzap]

Originally Posted by pussyman72

Bro Xliver

no need to post lar lol wasting time posting. said so much they also dont know what they writing or reading lol

No lah, sometimes exchange of views is good. See things in diff perspective mah. From 1 extreme view to another will get a lot of knowledge one leh.... hahahahahaaha....

Xilver

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by pussyman72

one of the bro tell me to buy naemlo a beer in poseidon and ask him to shutup.

Ah boy, u believe that crap?? Will u buy a beer n sit in poseidon just to c your WL there everynights?? Will u borrow others mobile to call your WL when she just dun want to pick up your call? Will u give excuses that, "my ger must be with another guy who pay her a lot, that y didn't join us for supper." ? Will u walk the whole stetch of Rathcada MPs from Nataree to poseidon n back to Nataree n took 1 hr just to look for a WL to bonk??? Will a papasan tell u, "knn your friend come here like looking for a wife." Will u believe in someone who sms another person "oi want to go n drink", "U buy us drink then on", "Buy u drinks might as well buy drinks for gers"??

The above are the truth... if u doubt me, go Nataree, ask the chinese papasan who can speak Hokkien whether he remembers a guy who took more than 1 hr to pick a ger n always go Nataree to collect mobile numbers.

Originally Posted by pussyman72

also hear from them. they got burn by WL before so they hate WL ma.

Hahhaha now I tell u he has 2 dicks, u believe???