Singaporeans are Suckers at least thats what some think of us...

[Mr.romantic]

Originally Posted by Huzige

I was lucky – I had a Sifu many many moons ago who shared with me his principle for cheonging – and it has always been the 5Fs for me since then: Find them, Feel them, Finger them, Fcuk them, and (most importantly) Forget them! It still works wonder for me anywhere. Of ‘cos, I am talking about cheonging and not about looking for wife! Indeed, I am sure there are loads of MMs in China who made great wives, but I don’t think those MMs hang out in KTVs, SNs, BBSs and similar places that brothers like to hang out.

But I decided to go check out the local BBSs – uumph…. not too shabby… Aiyah, too many MMs too little time… life is too short to waste on one MM only when you are cheonging!

hahaha uncle i like your outlook on cheonging!

these days when you say you are a Singaporean in China which includes Hong Kong and Macau. the PRCs will think of how to chop your carrothead liao. i realised overall Singaporeans are very timid when they face some bullshit scenario. i always try to be cool about it but if it is too much i will make my stand and complain. be firm and talk gentlemenly with the establishment you are patronising. eg. sauna, ktv, etc.

[Mr.romantic]

Originally Posted by Shutruk Nahunte

I have a similar sad story to share - with one who I met in the basement of the Lisbao Casino in Macau. She was a sweet young thing from Sichuan who a body that could kill - as most brothers will know, Sichuan mei-meis are particularly well endowed and this one was no exception. I have to admit that besides her pretty face, tall and slim stature, creamy white skin - the 36D knockers were the ones which really captured my fancy.

haha was just at the Lisboa "race track" this afternoon. eating wanton mee at Crystal Palace restaurant while looking at the premium "horses" galloping by. yes those 36D knockers are sure hard to resist. bounce bounce bounce. killer bods to boot. 去不去? HKD800 a pop. spend on sauna babes better.

glad you are able to move on. care to share your damages of your sponsorship?

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by Mr.romantic

these days when you say you are a Singaporean in China which includes Hong Kong and Macau. the PRCs will think of how to chop your carrothead liao.

like that ha ... next time we'll said we r from Malaysia, Indonesia or Thailand lor .. maybe they will chop our head instead ...

[Mr.romantic]

Originally Posted by adidas88

like that ha ... next time we'll said we r from Malaysia, Indonesia or Thailand lor .. maybe they will chop our head instead ...

hahaha say from Brunei also can.

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by Mr.romantic

hahaha say from Brunei also can.

sure or not ?? brunei have many princes ...
we might be mistaken as one ... and they r oil rich ...
afterward kenna chop deeper until come off ...

actually HKD800 a pop for those 36D knockers is not too ex provided their service is good ...
in BKK ... we even pay 4K to 5K for those "models" in MPs ...

[longwinter]

Originally Posted by Huzige

I was lucky – I had a Sifu many many moons ago who shared with me his principle for cheonging – and it has always been the 5Fs for me since then: Find them, Feel them, Finger them, Fcuk them, and (most importantly) Forget them! It still works wonder for me anywhere. Of ‘cos, I am talking about cheonging and not about looking for wife! Indeed, I am sure there are loads of MMs in China who made great wives, but I don’t think those MMs hang out in KTVs, SNs, BBSs and similar places that brothers like to hang out.

ya l am sure that we cheongster do noe all these golden rules. But keeping to the rules is kinda hard, can bro huzige guide us how u can strictly keep up to those policy that ur sifu had taught u?

Sometimes when we patronise a gal and she is nice, we will of cos like to find her back again for another session, instead of risking or going to find another new one again and oso had to start all over again mah. But l noe the more times u visit, the more u kum cheng la.

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by longwinter

ya l am sure that we cheongster do noe all these golden rules. But keeping to the rules is kinda hard, can bro huzige guide us how u can strictly keep up to those policy that ur sifu had taught u?

Sometimes when we patronise a gal and she is nice, we will of cos like to find her back again for another session, instead of risking or going to find another new one again and oso had to start all over again mah. But l noe the more times u visit, the more u kum cheng la.

bro ... it's okay to have feeling for the gal that we like ...
that's normal ... we r human ...
but don't cross the line beyond "feeling" ... else u will be stepping on mine fields ..
it's very difficult to say how and what u can do to keep up those policy cos bottomline is ... the individual ... it's all abt self control and discipline ...
but then, saying is easy than doing ...
i believe all these will have to come from each individual ... we can share our experiences here but how many will take it into practise ??

Knowledge is something that can acquire overnight but not understanding.
Understanding is acquire from experiences.
And experience is a good teacher but her fees are high.

Sometimes the most difficult lessons are learnt through mistakes.

[longwinter]

Originally Posted by adidas88

bro ... it's okay to have feeling for the gal that we like ...
that's normal ... we r human ...
but don't cross the line beyond "feeling" ... else u will be stepping on mine fields ..
it's very difficult to say how and what u can do to keep up those policy cos bottomline is ... the individual ... it's all abt self control and discipline ...
but then, saying is easy than doing ...
i believe all these will have to come from each individual ... we can share our experiences here but how many will take it into practise ??

Knowledge is something that can acquire overnight but not understanding.
Understanding is acquire from experiences.
And experience is a good teacher but her fees are high.

Sometimes the most difficult lessons are learnt through mistakes.

Ya, l sort of agree, after a few bad experiences, l did learn a bit from my mistakes, and now l noe how to control and refrain my feelings from going deeper. Indeed, l believe l hav become stronger a bit.

yea tat is why, saying is easy than doing, we can warn our cheongster frenz and teach them and lecture them all these rules, but sumtime even we ourselves oso cant control and break the rules ourselves.

it is like sometime u meet this working lady, and she has got the looks u like, very initiative and very nice to u, toks to u alot, let u feel the warm and hot feeling, u will feel good. And when l feel good, l began to go and look for her more and more. And of cos seeing that she is so good to me, l began to treat her very good as well. My cheongster friend sumtime even mock at me, say u tink u friends wif the working ladies ah?

anyway if there is a sure way to avoid kc traps and keep to the 5 golden rules, l will gladly accept it and master

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by longwinter

Ya, l sort of agree, after a few bad experiences, l did learn a bit from my mistakes, and now l noe how to control and refrain my feelings from going deeper. Indeed, l believe l hav become stronger a bit.

What cannot kill me will make me stronger.

Originally Posted by longwinter

yea tat is why, saying is easy than doing, we can warn our cheongster frenz and teach them and lecture them all these rules, but sumtime even we ourselves oso cant control and break the rules ourselves.

Bend the rules but don't break them.

Originally Posted by longwinter

it is like sometime u meet this working lady, and she has got the looks u like, very initiative and very nice to u, toks to u alot, let u feel the warm and hot feeling, u will feel good. And when l feel good, l began to go and look for her more and more. And of cos seeing that she is so good to me, l began to treat her very good as well. My cheongster friend sumtime even mock at me, say u tink u friends wif the working ladies ah?

i know how u feel bro ... it's alright to feel good with someone ...
when the gal treat us nice, being man, we'll be touched ... that's normal ..
we can treat them nice in return by buying them small gifts, dinner etc etc ..
just treat them like friends ... who says that these ladies cannot be our friends ?? just be careful not to cross the line ...

Originally Posted by longwinter

anyway if there is a sure way to avoid kc traps and keep to the 5 golden rules, l will gladly accept it and master

sure ... just don't go to these places and u'll avoid kc traps and do not have to adapt the 5 golden rules ... and u r the master urself ..
Like i said ... no textbook theory can teach u how and what to do ...
just cheong with a open mind ...
Think before you act - but not too much and too long.

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by adidas88

What cannot kill me will make me stronger.


Bend the rules but don't break them.


i know how u feel bro ... it's alright to feel good with someone ...
when the gal treat us nice, being man, we'll be touched ... that's normal ..
we can treat them nice in return by buying them small gifts, dinner etc etc ..
just treat them like friends ... who says that these ladies cannot be our friends ?? just be careful not to cross the line ...

Errhh.. sometimes the line is very blur hoh...U cross already then realise jialat.. then too late, no more neutral ground


sure ... just don't go to these places and u'll avoid kc traps and do not have to adapt the 5 golden rules ... and u r the master urself ..
Like i said ... no textbook theory can teach u how and what to do ...
just cheong with a open mind ...
Think before you act - but not too much and too long.

For me, i am also victim. But not to think too much is good, the more you think, the more you want and the more you get into trouble

Me juz want to start afresh now.. Machiam like kena ONS with girl before you know her then after the physical intimacy, u try to start dating normally.. kinda tough but that is wat i will do.. build the foundation from the 2nd floor down before the pillar cracks.

[longwinter]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

For me, i am also victim. But not to think too much is good, the more you think, the more you want and the more you get into trouble

Me juz want to start afresh now.. Machiam like kena ONS with girl before you know her then after the physical intimacy, u try to start dating normally.. kinda tough but that is wat i will do.. build the foundation from the 2nd floor down before the pillar cracks.

The more u think, the more fan and moody u become, worst outcome is u are tinking abt it, and on the other hand, the gal didnt even go to tink abt it, wah tat is damn sad sia.

[longwinter]

Originally Posted by adidas88

What cannot kill me will make me stronger.


Bend the rules but don't break them.


i know how u feel bro ... it's alright to feel good with someone ...
when the gal treat us nice, being man, we'll be touched ... that's normal ..
we can treat them nice in return by buying them small gifts, dinner etc etc ..
just treat them like friends ... who says that these ladies cannot be our friends ?? just be careful not to cross the line ...


sure ... just don't go to these places and u'll avoid kc traps and do not have to adapt the 5 golden rules ... and u r the master urself ..
Like i said ... no textbook theory can teach u how and what to do ...
just cheong with a open mind ...
Think before you act - but not too much and too long.

yea, l oso tink the same as u, who says these ladies cannot be our friends? They are oso human being like us lo. For my friend, becos he is english speaking de, he jus cheong but never communicate much wif the gals, he always ask me why u always like so frenly and nice to the ladies? Got so much to tok wif them mehs? But l jus laugh it off.

Asking me not to go these places is as good as asking to go die....l am a sex addict le

okies sure, thanks bro for ur valuable lessons

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by longwinter

The more u think, the more fan and moody u become, worst outcome is u are tinking abt it, and on the other hand, the gal didnt even go to tink abt it, wah tat is damn sad sia.

precisely ... u think the gal will bother abt what u r thinking ??
they don't give a damn ...
so based on these understanding, don't u think we should be wise and not worried abt it ...
yes, we think abt them ... me too... i still think abt the syt in LHL or BKK but that's abt it ...
It's okay to think abt them, just don't go crazy for them. It's ain't worth it.

Originally Posted by longwinter

yea, l oso tink the same as u, who says these ladies cannot be our friends? They are oso human being like us lo. For my friend, becos he is english speaking de, he jus cheong but never communicate much wif the gals, he always ask me why u always like so frenly and nice to the ladies? Got so much to tok wif them mehs? But l jus laugh it off.

there are many type of cheongsters ... some go for quantity bonk, some go for quality bonk, some look for GFE, some hunting for life partner etc etc ..
that's no right or wrong here ...
just do what u feel good .. as long as no one get hurt .. that include u ..

Originally Posted by longwinter

Asking me not to go these places is as good as asking to go die....l am a sex addict le

hm .. looks like we have something in common ..

[Crazi]

All of us cheong is to be happy. To make us happy, everybody have their own demand ... some like to KC and talk to ger until the sun rises, some like to bonk and forget, some dont want to bonk, just treat like GF and sweet talk them , but whatever it is, as long as we are happy can liao.

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by adidas88

precisely ... u think the gal will bother abt what u r thinking ??
they don't give a damn ...
so based on these understanding, don't u think we should be wise and not worried abt it ...
yes, we think abt them ... me too... i still think abt the syt in LHL or BKK but that's abt it ...
It's okay to think abt them, just don't go crazy for them. It's ain't worth it.


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True.. They will not think about it (Not too much, at least while they are still in this line).. thinking make them moody and surface their feelings and conscience.

Makes it very tough for them to continue working as in this line, you must be able to "shield" your heart. My MM was thinking so much that for a few days she cannot sleep.

Then after one huge quarrel, we decided to leave things to when she is back to herself in ZH. After that agreement, things are smoother and less stressful for both of us now.

So if you love her and it is mutual, dun put more pressure on her esp if you cannot give commitment.

Like my fellow bro like to say "Que Sera Sera" ... ...