divorced women/widow will be alone

[36SCE]

Originally Posted by Soul_Reaper

In this era and time and especially for Singapore...... only fools get married and place themselves at the mercy of the WC.

Pussies are so readily available in so many forms.... just find, fu*k & forget and save yourselves from all that troubles of the WC.

A good marriage with kids fulfill a different part of our soul and existence. Its not about great sex alone, although that certainly helps.

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by sunhuan-con

Nowadays people are selfish and self centered because of the KS society.....

everyone has high expectation of everything. no wonder we r seeing so many long faces in sg.

[nikeguy]

Slowly look for the one, that will change your life not just your status. After Divorce this is what I keep in my heart. Look for ways to improve your life, more happier, richer, more time, enjoy your life as life is too short to stop n keep looking at the past. Look forward there are many great for you ahead. Take care.

[queeniegal]

I know a few of Caucasian man they don't mind having divorcee. Some are very rich too, the fate of the woman really changed.

One of my Caucasian friend, he is holding management post. Used to be super playboy till he was late 30s meet his current wife. He got married when he was ard mid 40s his wife got a 20 year old son. He turn to become super homely and yes man to his wife totally diff person.

Rare to have Asian guys accepting divorcee but quite common for Asian guy who is a divorcee to re-married,

[Atasbeng]

Originally Posted by topcook1

Sure...however my 2 princess also migrated together with my ex wife....Now left me alone here...

Count me into the club

[superdrill]

Sis EdyTa

Never give up. I am a divorcee with a 15 yo son, and if it gives you a little comfort, the same difficulty it is for men, but never give up.

I have had girlfriends in that past who are young and single and eventually came to the conclusion that it is a challenge for a young single women to be with a divorce man with a child and accept the child.

I am currently with a gf who is a divorcee herself with a 10 yo son, we accept each other;s child and the understanding we have over issues concerning single parents makes it even easier.

Never give up

[ProjectAlice]

Originally Posted by 36SCE

A good marriage with kids fulfill a different part of our soul and existence. Its not about great sex alone, although that certainly helps.

I second that

[crood]

Originally Posted by surbana

Guess loneliness is the biggest factor which pull forward people to get marry...

Can co habit without signing the papers. Free to come, free to go.

[36SCE]

Originally Posted by crood

Can co habit without signing the papers. Free to come, free to go.

This is what many men would like . But Asian women are more traditional and I believe many would like to have the security and status of marriage. I notice many youngsters are now open to "test drive" before marriage and this seems to be the new normal.

But once the lady hits late 20s or see her friends around her get married and have kids, then this is usually when marriage is requested or at least discussed
.

Marriage also does make sense from a family with kids perspective as it will be tough in our conservative society for kids to have unmarried parents on birth certs.

[Edyta]

Originally Posted by superdrill

Sis EdyTa

Never give up. I am a divorcee with a 15 yo son, and if it gives you a little comfort, the same difficulty it is for men, but never give up.

I have had girlfriends in that past who are young and single and eventually came to the conclusion that it is a challenge for a young single women to be with a divorce man with a child and accept the child.

I am currently with a gf who is a divorcee herself with a 10 yo son, we accept each other;s child and the understanding we have over issues concerning single parents makes it even easier.

Never give up

I am really happy for both of u. Its a rare find.
I gave up awhile back

[micmac888]

For the life of me, I really prefer divorcees (with kids) over single women. That air of maturity is a turn on. Am speaking for myself. Dun like giddy headed girls.

[kt88_2]

Originally Posted by Edyta

I am really happy for both of u. Its a rare find.
I gave up awhile back

Be happy good to be single or single parent.life the same, in fact more simpler in a way.

[cmelater]

Originally Posted by surbana

There are so many fools still marries 2 or 3 times. They just cant fight loneliness.

Hearsay from a friend.

Marriage is a mistake and getting remarried is not learning from the earlier mistake.

Loneliness is self perceived. End of the day, we will all go alone. So, what if married or single. Its all the same. We are all born and meant to die some day, except earlier or later.

Its the media which has made loneliness appear like some frightening spectre. But, is it frightening? I think the hearts of (some) women are lagi more frightening than loneliness.

I don't mind facing the 4 walls alone, so long as there is no crazy woman chasing me to wake up 6 am to bring kid to school, bring home sufficient dough, nagged at to get kid to finish homework, coerced into visiting the extended family over cny..... and etc etc. Its worse than NS. Pardon me, if it sounds not "right" to any of the bros here.

[cmelater]

Originally Posted by Atasbeng

Count me into the club

Congrats!!! Welcome back to singlehood.

[cmelater]

Originally Posted by zan888

I disagree. Its because we love the woman and hope we can make the woman happy by marriage but in reality once the woman achieve this goal, they relax already. Btw even being married you can still be lonely cos the partner is not in-sync with you. Marriage often create more problems than solve it. Just ask any married man or woman! haha

I definitely agree with your statement. Marriage leads to loneliness too, especially after a few episodes of damaging "civil war".

Its also the only war where the man gets to sleep with the enemy or the woman beds the enemy.