I caught my hubby

[arsenal_84]

Originally Posted by joanne321

Same situation happens to me. I cannot ignore the fact he has done it with other women especially a FL. So decided to divorced.

why does it sound like as if the situation would be better if he had an affair ?
you seem to underestimate that affairs are way more complicated than commercial bonking.

[jd12345]

Read this from start to finish and quite frankly, aside from the obvious "why would you come here for advice", why would you go on this santicmonious tirade against your husband and his needs?

If you want to be wanted and desired, then you have to be desirable, period. FFS if you let yourself go and ask yourself why your husband's primal instincts took control in going for someone firmer, perkier and more beautiful, then honestly you're more delusional than you let on. And this is JUST talking about physical attraction. Throw in the fact that whores don't nag at you, snap at you for incessant bullshit and that 150-450/hr/shot seems pretty damn worth it.

Check yourself before you wreck yourself. Fucking retarded new age female mindset.

[tsc2828]

hi dear

I promised that was last time

[YELLOW]

its ok bankrupt himself .... no work and he wont pay u a single cent ..... veri doable

Originally Posted by aaaa1986

sadly to say most men will go cheat at one point of their life. there is a word once a cheater always a cheater. if cannot accept that this is his decision to cheat, i guess the best way is to file for divorce, make sure he pay alimony

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by tsc2828

hi dear

I promised that was last time

lol are you the TS husband?

[HonkyTonkyMan]

Originally Posted by YELLOW

its ok bankrupt himself .... no work and he wont pay u a single cent ..... veri doable

that what you think, bankrupt no need to pay? unpaid alimony still have to be paid up to the last cents..if he can't pay, the ex can get court to throw his ass into prison, that still doesn't clear him cos he still have to pay up after serving time...that how screw up and fuck up the familee cock is..make sure the man is screw through and through..

[JacqueMerlin]

Originally Posted by hiswife

I don't really have much to add to this thread so I've been staying away but your response, or rather hostility, caught my attention.

Why did I come here? Because I was sad. Instead of picturing a domineering woman who henpeck her husband, try a sad woman who cries her eyes out. Do you know you can cry until the corner of your eyes crack? I did not know that either but now I do. But that pain was nothing compared to the pain in my heart.

You can give yourself a million reasons why your wife caused you to seek our prostitutes but you and I both know, you chose to do that. You destroyed her heart and her life. When she discovers your "hobby", and trust me she would, don't picture a screaming woman who seek to destroy you. Picture a sad crying woman whose heart has been broken into pieces. Don't kid yourself by saying it's no big deal and nothing to cry about. I guarantee you that she will be sad and she will cry buckets. Just like if you ever find out your wife screwing other men behind you.

He hurt me but I let him stay as long as he gives up that side of his life. My problem was what if he lies. I don't care if he wants to be with hookers 24/7, I just do not want to be part of that life. You want hookers, you go with hookers. But leave me alone. Don't lie and keep me in a false marriage while you go fuck around. How's that not a reasonable expectation?

But I've made peace with that too.

I may not be good looking, but I tried my best on my career, ensured she has a place to stay, tried my best to not let her suffer hunger, never gambled never went for sex outside marriage. Then I caught her first affair just 2 years into the marriage... she could even find all sorts of incredulous excuses to justify the affair but...
my ex wife went on to have several affairs during our marriage and she had the cheek to find all sorts of excuses to justify her rights to have affairs and threatened to ruin my life with the WC if I divorce her. Seems like your husband is not too bad.

[january29]

Originally Posted by JacqueMerlin

I may not be good looking, but I tried my best on my career, ensured she has a place to stay, tried my best to not let her suffer hunger, never gambled never went for sex outside marriage. Then I caught her first affair just 2 years into the marriage... she could even find all sorts of incredulous excuses to justify the affair but...
my ex wife went on to have several affairs during our marriage and she had the cheek to find all sorts of excuses to justify her rights to have affairs and threatened to ruin my life with the WC if I divorce her. Seems like your husband is not too bad.

i feel you bro .... if no kids are involved is easier .... having kids .. theya re innocent .. what to do ?

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by JacqueMerlin

I may not be good looking, but I tried my best on my career, ensured she has a place to stay, tried my best to not let her suffer hunger, never gambled never went for sex outside marriage. Then I caught her first affair just 2 years into the marriage... she could even find all sorts of incredulous excuses to justify the affair but...
my ex wife went on to have several affairs during our marriage and she had the cheek to find all sorts of excuses to justify her rights to have affairs and threatened to ruin my life with the WC if I divorce her. Seems like your husband is not too bad.

so sorry to hear of your plight my friend

like I have always said, the time where women say men are cheaters is over

women do it, and often much better than men do already

its no longer relevant that men cheat and women suffer. Its vice versa in this age

[Chantelfin]

[QUOTE=JacqueMerlin;she had the cheek to find all sorts of excuses to justify her rights to have affairs and threatened to ruin my life with the WC if I divorce her. Seems like your husband is not too bad.[/QUOTE]

Time to move abroad with your assets quickly so that WC cannot reach you in a divorce.

[JacqueMerlin]

Originally Posted by Chantelfin

Time to move abroad with your assets quickly so that WC cannot reach you in a divorce.

We divorced when she had her last affair. She initiated a divorce after she got another new bf. Same scary sense of self entitlements when she was justifying that. I paid her one time lump sum of 60k to stop her from demanding for maintenance. She agreed and I grabbed the deal. 'There will be no maintenance for the plaintiff' was included in the divorce. But she demanded me to be a real man to let her stay in my flat even after divorce, the flat which she agreed to sell to me at a very good deal for her and defined in the court order. Money she wants, flat she wants. Then she finds all sorts of selfish self entitled excuse to justify it. I remember telling her off for not telling her new bf to ensure her accomodation is taken care of like how i did for so many years.

Why do commercial sex forums thrive? Many times it's not due to the man's horniness. Imagine good men can give up on a marriage to the point he overcomes his taboo of fucking outside marriage. What have you as a wife done to cause that?

[JacqueMerlin]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

so sorry to hear of your plight my friend

like I have always said, the time where women say men are cheaters is over

women do it, and often much better than men do already

its no longer relevant that men cheat and women suffer. Its vice versa in this age

The Women's Charter needs review or repeal. It had emboldened women to fuck around and the husband pays even if he has been faithful all the way.

[january29]

Originally Posted by JacqueMerlin

We divorced when she had her last affair. She initiated a divorce after she got another new bf. Same scary sense of self entitlements when she was justifying that. I paid her one time lump sum of 60k to stop her from demanding for maintenance. She agreed and I grabbed the deal. 'There will be no maintenance for the plaintiff' was included in the divorce. But she demanded me to be a real man to let her stay in my flat even after divorce, the flat which she agreed to sell to me at a very good deal for her and defined in the court order. Money she wants, flat she wants. Then she finds all sorts of selfish self entitled excuse to justify it. I remember telling her off for not telling her new bf to ensure her accomodation is taken care of like how i did for so many years.

Why do commercial sex forums thrive? Many times it's not due to the man's horniness. Imagine good men can give up on a marriage to the point he overcomes his taboo of fucking outside marriage. What have you as a wife done to cause that?

if it is was me .. i would pretend to forgive her and transfer all of my money out ... finding excuses to sale the flat before divorce ...

divide the money and ciao ciao

only in ideal condition of course .. just be patient to find the condition

[january29]

Originally Posted by JacqueMerlin

The Women's Charter needs review or repeal. It had emboldened women to fuck around and the husband pays even if he has been faithful all the way.

couldnt agree more ... we need to find a loophole ...

[hiswife]

Originally Posted by JacqueMerlin

Why do commercial sex forums thrive? Many times it's not due to the man's horniness. Imagine good men can give up on a marriage to the point he overcomes his taboo of fucking outside marriage. What have you as a wife done to cause that?

Do you not realize the irony of your statement? You asked me what I've done to cause my husband to eat out but have you ask yourself what you've done to cause your wife to have affairs?

I'm sorry that your ex-wife cheated on you. She may have no good reason to have affairs other than just to have sex with other men. I've came to accept that cheaters are just wired differently.

I understand that sex could be boring in a long term relationship but to a non-cheater like myself, my solution to that is to think of how to spice up things in the bedroom. Cheaters solved that by having sex with other people.
That's why people said once a cheater, forever a cheater. You can't change how a person is wired, that's how they think.

I do not know what I've done to cause my husband to stray. I do know, however, what he has done to cause me to do that, if I ever. Life's changed once you're cheated on, when your innocence was taken away. While I used to "see" happy couples around, all I'm seeing now are perverts and hookers, hookers everywhere. No wonder so many women have affairs outside of marriage. What else can you do when your husband is busy eating out? Be a nun? All you men who claim that your wives have no sex drive, really?