What are tip to woo a girl? A greenhorn here

[Christin]

I always try to impress a female, over my time, but always fail

I try buy her gift, tell her joke, she only treat me as friend or rejected

Recently then I know, I should not buy thing for her until she become my gf

how to know if it is a good timing to ask to be my gf?
I do not know what is appropriate and what is not when I go dating with a girl

Please advise

Some times I gotten from another forum

Oni buy woman gifts after she becomes Ur gf
Don’t crack dirty jokes until koon liao

anymore tips?

[chubbybastard]

Originally Posted by Christin

I always try to impress a female, over my time, but always fail

I try buy her gift, tell her joke, she only treat me as friend or rejected

Recently then I know, I should not buy thing for her until she become my gf

how to know if it is a good timing to ask to be my gf?
I do not know what is appropriate and what is not when I go dating with a girl

Please advise

Some times I gotten from another forum



anymore tips?

Just ask. And ask directly. On the second date. Don't beat around the bush. If its a no then move on.

But honestly why do you want a gf? Its not all fairy tales and sugar. I'd much rather be single and pay for sex.

[ValentinoVII]

Originally Posted by chubbybastard

Just ask. And ask directly. On the second date. Don't beat around the bush. If its a no then move on.

But honestly why do you want a gf? Its not all fairy tales and sugar. I'd much rather be single and pay for sex.

It's different for everyone, I just broke with my ex of 5 years. Keen to look for another partner. Personally I miss the companionship and the physical contact. Hugging a partner to sleep is very comforting for me. Got boobies is bonus.

[hellzell]

Originally Posted by ValentinoVII

It's different for everyone, I just broke with my ex of 5 years. Keen to look for another partner. Personally I miss the companionship and the physical contact. Hugging a partner to sleep is very comforting for me. Got boobies is bonus.

So no boobies aka man also can ah?

[ValentinoVII]

Originally Posted by hellzell

So no boobies aka man also can ah?

For some people maybe. But I don't look down on girls with flat chest.

[bodypleasure]

If you like her, ask on 3rd date

1st date is to introduce yourself
2nd date is to know her more
3rd date if you guys are actively chat after 1st date, you can confidently ask her or hold her hands. It's okay to be rejected.

My success rate is 4/7
2 tio rejected
1 need 4 more dates for her (me ex-gf) to confirm. Broke off because she is quite demanding and dominant

[Christin]

anything we shld not do

or should do

after 2nd date?

[fallen11]

Originally Posted by Christin

I always try to impress a female, over my time, but always fail

I try buy her gift, tell her joke, she only treat me as friend or rejected

Recently then I know, I should not buy thing for her until she become my gf

how to know if it is a good timing to ask to be my gf?
I do not know what is appropriate and what is not when I go dating with a girl

anymore tips?

you're not wooing
you're simping
no girls like simps
simps are only to be made use of
stop buying gifts and dont try too hard to impress
groom yourself, learn dress sense. be the You which even you would like to date. if you cant even imagine going on a date with yourself, no need to say about other girls.

[cbkia222]

Originally Posted by fallen11

you're not wooing
you're simping
no girls like simps
simps are only to be made use of
stop buying gifts and dont try too hard to impress
groom yourself, learn dress sense. be the You which even you would like to date. if you cant even imagine going on a date with yourself, no need to say about other girls.

As messed up as this sounds, there's truth in this.

You'll get the " you're too nice to me" or " i need my space, "

just be confident and give her the cold shoulder. ( somehow).

girls hate it when you suddenly turn cold and they will start to be pro active I HATED it when people told me this, but there's truth to this.

All the best

[BatamBro]

Just let her know you first.

Confidence in the way you talk, don't need to share until so much but make sure got reply her questions. Gifting is ok but not on first date, just observe what she likes based on convo then just give something simple / memorable.

What the bro @bodypleasure say is correct, 3rd date if can't then just drop it off, don't waste your precious time.

In the end, it depends on which country also lah, now tiktok / instagram teach them all the tell signs this that and alot also looking for those rich with car etc..

Think properly of what kind of end game you want, the girl will react differently to how you chase her.

Just let her know the real confident manly you
Keep your dark side private
Keep your problems personal