Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Ya very smart n fierce..... remembering once my ger checked my sperm in the condom and demanded why the level so low.... Kena grilled till jialat jialat. From then, 2 or 3 days before going HCMC must preserve and reserve my sperm.

haha...you scared cat cu ha...

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

keep her in hcm...dun let her cum to sinkie...not good for you to expose her to all the luxury and rich sinkie...also when she learnt all the things in sinkie...then she dun need you roi...

Another life example, years ago I got to know a Viet ger from JC. 1 fine evening, I brought her to a KTV in town area. She was talking to another Viet ger working in the KTV and realise the tips there is min $50 and she immediately told me, she wanted to work there.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

haha...you scared cat cu ha...

I didn't think of cut kuku but I am surprised how "smart" she is.

[asshol3]

Originally Posted by shysaint

What you mean by "what is this type of situation"? What advice do you need ? WHy confused ?

What i mean is that is it still worth investing in this relationship ? Because this is my first time with a vietnamese girl, therefore i really have no idea whether they will be truthful or just investing hoping to come over and marry a singapore guy. Basically we did not xao each other, but just only me who did a little bit of lieing.

You see mordern parent wont be able to accept the facts. Therefore, I had to hide some truth from her for the time being. Plus i am still young and studying part-time as well. So i am kinda of confuse to be trap in this situation. Is it me that is too naive ? thats why i ask for some help.

[asshol3]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

keep her in hcm...dun let her cum to sinkie...not good for you to expose her to all the luxury and rich sinkie...also when she learnt all the things in sinkie...then she dun need you roi...

just tell her you will visit her in hcm whenever you can make it...

If she can't even pass this test, then would means this relationship is based on money. So what if it is to keep her in HCM, well if one day I am broke too, she would have left.

If thats the case, might as well stick back to Sg girls, even though they are materialistic but most are still serious in relationship.

I suspect one of the reason why these viet girls like me is because of my looks. Sorry but not to boast, i do attract lots of them in vietnam, JC, GL. They will always comment i am a dep trai =.=" Well, if one day, i am to be broke and old, all will leave me

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by asshol3

Oh dear .. I think I had been KC-ed recently . I would need some advice from the seniors here.

So the story goes like this, been to HCM on 25/12/11 with friends. Under guidance of Fuckger, get to know some of the local Ktv, airport joint , bla bla bla. Lets cut the story short.

So was just wondering if this is a what type of situation. Any advice ? she just went to do passport hoping to come singapore work and find me.

suddenly feels like this is becoming a WL thread.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by shysaint

you also same same mah ... getting more and more handsome day by day ...

long time no meet. how you know i getting more handsome?
you hiding behind somewhere to beo me?

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by asshol3

she just went to do passport hoping to come singapore work .

many bros will only be interested to know WHEN?

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by asshol3

I suspect one of the reason why these viet girls like me is because of my looks. Sorry but not to boast, i do attract lots of them in vietnam, JC, GL. They will always comment i am a dep trai =.=" Well, if one day, i am to be broke and old, all will leave me

hahhah, they also say i dep trai. Its the standard line in this line. When you have no money to give them, then you khong dep trai roi.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by asshol3

Oh dear .. I think I had been KC-ed recently . I would need some advice from the seniors here.

So the story goes like this, been to HCM on 25/12/11 with friends. Under guidance of Fuckger, get to know some of the local Ktv, airport joint , bla bla bla. Lets cut the story short.

So met this girl at local ktv on my second, asked her for khach san but got rejected. Following few days sms her quite a bit and asking her for hotel just to sleep but rejected. so came the last night before returning back to singapore, went to her work place to find her but once again denied me. She say she had "Da Yi Ma" - menstruation. So i left, all set to return the next day.

But out of nowhere came a good new, she agree to join me for one night just to chit chat and sleep at khach san cause she's having "Da Yi Ma". So bought her along to club which my friend wanted to try, afterwhich back to hotel. Btw I dont understand any Tieng viet at that time. So communicate with her using google translate.

Went for a bath, after which you all know la ... action started but she really got "Da Yi Ma" . The next morning we left and she did not demand any $$. So back in Singapore, thought that story was to end .

But here is where the story begins. she got my SG number, afterwhich ask me for yahoo messenger. which we chatted every night for 3-4hrs. at least 6 night out of 7 nights . and average of 3-4hrs. She would be online after work once home to chat . So we Kc each other nhieu nhieu for 2 months already and i did learn quite a bit of tieng viet now.

So was just wondering if this is a what type of situation. Any advice ? she just went to do passport hoping to come singapore work and find me.

Standard storyline. Standard starting, standard kc, will expect standard ending.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by vietboy

suddenly feels like this is becoming a WL thread.

This is the GREY AREA....

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by asshol3

What i mean is that is it still worth investing in this relationship ? Because this is my first time with a vietnamese girl, therefore i really have no idea whether they will be truthful or just investing hoping to come over and marry a singapore guy.

Everything is worth doing IF you think it's worth doing else why you study part-time.

1st and Important ... ask yourself ... How much TIME do you have to invest and find out about this relationship ?

U now ONLY meet 1 gal and you are so crazy about it ... thats the problems with 1st timer in HCM .. meet 1 and you think that is the one and treat them like a rare Diamond find.

To find the truth ... you have to exercise many trips down to HCM, spend alot of time with her and etc .... NOT coming here and asked for help ... Reading advice don't help !

Gals are different, Opinions are different.

Originally Posted by asshol3

Basically we did not xao each other, but just only me who did a little bit of lieing.

Obviously thats the case ... I hope .. you are NOT another AH in the making ....

Originally Posted by asshol3

You see mordern parent wont be able to accept the facts. Therefore, I had to hide some truth from her for the time being. Plus i am still young and studying part-time as well. So i am kinda of confuse to be trap in this situation. Is it me that is too naive ? thats why i ask for some help.

Accept what facts ? Hide what Truth ? Trap in what Situation ? Seiously WHAT help you want ?

From the way you post and reply .... YES .. you not only young and naive ... you are also ignorance ... Yes, you could be a person that can study BUT not in such affairs or matters of the heart.

Originally Posted by asshol3

If thats the case, might as well stick back to Sg girls, even though they are materialistic but most are still serious in relationship.

What make you think Vietnamese is NOT serious in relationship ??? Vietnamese have many Chinese traditional influences and believes.

You practically step foot into VN once, Don't even know their cultures and you want to develop a relationship and comments so much on their behavior adn thinking.

Originally Posted by asshol3

I suspect one of the reason why these viet girls like me is because of my looks. Sorry but not to boast, i do attract lots of them in vietnam, JC, GL. They will always comment i am a dep trai =.="

In Vn, Gals only consider Korean as Handsome .. because they are expose to too many koren drama.

Reason why gals attract to you because they know you are simply NOT a Vietnamese, they are curious about you, for a start they will think you are an korean ... want to speak to you to see where you are from ... IF from there on, you are able to carry yourself , YEs they will like you as probably a harmeless person for a start.

As long as you are NOT ugly .. they WILL always say you are DEP TRAI ..

Sorry to tell you ... I can CONFIRM its not because you are good looking.

Originally Posted by asshol3

If she can't even pass this test, then would means this relationship is based on money. So what if it is to keep her in HCM, well if one day I am broke too, she would have left. ..... Well, if one day, i am to be broke and old, all will leave me

IN basic, you need $$ for survival ... cannot say dun based on money ...

If you find a "GOOD" one ... they are not loooking for $$$$ , Looks , Age ..

If that day really come .. I CAN confirm , you have choose the WRONG gal or you have done WRONG to the gal ...

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

long time no meet. how you know i getting more handsome?
you hiding behind somewhere to beo me?

no need to beo 1 lah sure 1 mah , no need to see u in person also know

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by asshol3

If she can't even pass this test, then would means this relationship is based on money. So what if it is to keep her in HCM, well if one day I am broke too, she would have left.

If thats the case, might as well stick back to Sg girls, even though they are materialistic but most are still serious in relationship.

I suspect one of the reason why these viet girls like me is because of my looks. Sorry but not to boast, i do attract lots of them in vietnam, JC, GL. They will always comment i am a dep trai =.=" Well, if one day, i am to be broke and old, all will leave me

Young boy...why dun just concentrate on study...earn good money then settled down with a ger who loves you and you love her no matter which nationalities she from...also make sure your parents like her...

I always tell VBs me 60 yrs old liao....hahaha...the VBs also always said me dep trai....you think I trust them...ask bro asiancigar, seletar and deptrai4u (becuz we are in this age group) then you understand me always had fun with all these VBs...

I had 2 failed relationships with VBs throughout my 5 yrs exploration in hcm...heard and seen enough of what goes on in ordinary vietnamese life....of course I had my share of gfs willing to live and bear my child...but I always never trust them till years later...answer like what SingViet said wait and see after a few years...

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by asshol3

What i mean is that is it still worth investing in this relationship ? Because this is my first time with a vietnamese girl, therefore i really have no idea whether they will be truthful or just investing hoping to come over and marry a singapore guy. Basically we did not xao each other, but just only me who did a little bit of lieing.

are you sure you want to invest in this relationship with a WL...?????

A WL is a ger who earns $$$ from men...including having S*X with many men...so indirectly ask yourself "are you going to marry a whore..."...

my quote "if you trust a WL then pigs can climb trees..."