Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[volcano]

Originally Posted by deptrai4u

He is a Vietnam native that thru some fluke shot managed to get a Singapore Passport!

hahaha....yeah yeah....and i just got my new IC as well this year....


Greatking,i am a Sillyporean who happens to be staying in Vietnam for a period of time liaoz...nowadays i am more "Vietnamese then Sillyporeans" bcos i spend 350 days per year in Vietnam....

[xxxx4]

Originally Posted by volcano

hey dude,u have a gd gf and u shld treasure her.

trust me,i know wat condition u r talking abt...i myself have stayed at the village for a month b4...and on some days when the water is being cut off,i actually use the river water to shower.

Vietnamese staying in the villagers are already used to those kind of conditions,i feel that u shldn't try to "contribute" if unnecessary...sometimes its better to be "blind and mute"....hope u understands wat i mean.

just my 2 vnd opinion....

Thanks for the opinion Bro Volcano.
I understand. Just that we did not bring anything and we came a total of 5 people including the driver, she cooked alot of dishes for our lunch and we only stayed for 3 hours there.

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by volcano

hey dude,u have a gd gf and u shld treasure her.

trust me,i know wat condition u r talking abt...i myself have stayed at the village for a month b4...and on some days when the water is being cut off,i actually use the river water to shower.

Vietnamese staying in the villagers are already used to those kind of conditions,i feel that u shldn't try to "contribute" if unnecessary...sometimes its better to be "blind and mute"....hope u understands wat i mean.

just my 2 vnd opinion....

great advice

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by xxxx4

Thanks for the opinion Bro Volcano.
I understand. Just that we did not bring anything and we came a total of 5 people including the driver, she cooked alot of dishes for our lunch and we only stayed for 3 hours there.

is normal that they cook a lot of dishes,is their 'hospitality' way

[ilovedoggie]

Originally Posted by Golden question

is normal that they cook a lot of dishes,is their 'hospitality' way

where ever a robert goes... he gets lots of nice treatment... sometimes i wish i can be rich enough to be robert... shd change my nick to iloverobert (no pun/offense intended to any bro though peace!)

Originally Posted by volcano

sometimes its better to be "blind and mute"....hope u understands wat i mean.

wise words... wise words...

when a VB start telling me she lost her necklace/phone/handbags/purse etc or she say iphone so deppppp and ask me if i can help her buy a second hand one... i usually just ti gong(act stupid) like i dun get what they trying to say...

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by xxxx4

FYI, the house is very small size, bamboo fence, front windows with no glass, just a decorated iron bars with curtain. Floor is uneven laid bricks. The house sectioned into 2 part, front part where the TV and dining table, back part is where the kitchen and bed. That's it. Walk about 5 to 6 metres from the back door to toilet. The house close to padi (rice) field.

I had seen worst living conditions...and dun ever be hero...

not that they have no money...they have...I saw they have lots of $$$ for gambling...but not willing to build a nice house...these are siblings issue...not willing to take out money to build nice house...so living conditions forever bad...so the answer...just move away to work and stay in saigon...

any amount of $$$ is never enough for them...always ko co tien...never bother to save money and spend lavishly...

[Seletar]

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

where ever a robert goes... he gets lots of nice treatment... sometimes i wish i can be rich enough to be robert... shd change my nick to iloverobert (no pun/offense intended to any bro though peace!)



wise words... wise words...

when a VB start telling me she lost her necklace/phone/handbags/purse etc or she say iphone so deppppp and ask me if i can help her buy a second hand one... i usually just ti gong(act stupid) like i dun get what they trying to say...

very strange, the VB always lose things.... I can't tahan any more.. Now I no more give a single cent. Let them suffer. Don't bother any more, now I believe bro, Hurricanes 's words, a WL is always a WL,...don't know what pigs can fly..i forget the term. My next trip try to hook decent girls

[xxxx4]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

I had seen worst living conditions...and dun ever be hero...

not that they have no money...they have...I saw they have lots of $$$ for gambling...but not willing to build a nice house...these are siblings issue...not willing to take out money to build nice house...so living conditions forever bad...so the answer...just move away to work and stay in saigon...

any amount of $$$ is never enough for them...always ko co tien...never bother to save money and spend lavishly...

Hi Bro Hurricane,
How is your Phu Quoc trip? I bet much better than Mui Ne?
Planning to go Phu Quoc, end of October.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by xxxx4

Hi Bro Hurricane,
How is your Phu Quoc trip? I bet much better than Mui Ne?
Planning to go Phu Quoc, end of October.

read here...http://thesbf.shop/showpos...ostcount=12449

[Greatking]

Originally Posted by volcano

hahaha....yeah yeah....and i just got my new IC as well this year....


Greatking,i am a Sillyporean who happens to be staying in Vietnam for a period of time liaoz...nowadays i am more "Vietnamese then Sillyporeans" bcos i spend 350 days per year in Vietnam....

So... bro or uncker, business there? I am very keen to know bout Singaporean life there... like why are they for... for how long liao... cos... i'm very interested to be a Vietnamese husband

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by Greatking

So... bro or uncker, business there? I am very keen to know bout Singaporean life there... like why are they for... for how long liao... cos... i'm very interested to be a Vietnamese husband

Bro Greatking,

No point Getting Theory Lesson ... You have to go there Stay n Experience ..

To Him, To Me n To Some , Vn is a Good to stay ... Our Good also differs in certain way ...

To Others, Vn is a No No .. n the No No differs as well ..

Some may like the place for short transit but can't stand the place if staying for long ....

If you are interested to be a VH ,, then fly in n experience ... No Point "Talking War on Paper"

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Greatking

So... bro or uncker, business there? I am very keen to know bout Singaporean life there... like why are they for... for how long liao... cos... i'm very interested to be a Vietnamese husband

really dun understand what you want...who can bring a horse to the pond and force the horse to drink....

for me...i must be there to like the place...not just be a vietnamese husband but also to stay there long long...

unlike you I will nvr give up my safety sinkie passport...nvr will because after all that's still my safety nest...

I had been traveling to hcm more than 50 times monthly for more than 4 yrs...and had purchased my tix till end of the year...knew some bros here bought till Jun 2012 liao...

how can we pass our experience to you with just words and you dun see them 1st hand...dun be lazy...just hop on the plane...can be as cheap as SGD100.00 return and surprised your gf...

hope you knew what you are getting into and leanred quickly the Viet culture...can be damn shocking...but nothing ever shocking to me anymore here....^_^

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

...and had purchased my tix till end of the year...

Soon I will be doing this

[batty]

Thank you for your answers to my previous queries. The Vietnamese are considered spendthrift by Singaporean Chinese standards. Malay and Filipinos farmers are also like that too. I can only guess it is because people indigenous to tropical climates have all they need. There are rice growing all year round. Vegetables. Fruit growing on the fruit trees. Farm animals like chickens, pigs, water buffaloes etc... Jungle food too.

Singaporean Chinese are from originally China with four seasons and harse winters. Our ancestors had to work hard blah, blah ... If they did not grow or prepare enough food during the summer, they probably would starve during the winter. China also has many natural disasters. (Vietnam too, but I do not hear they happen in Vietnam as often as in China). Hence the average Chinese, Japanese and Koreans are savers.

The Vietnamese girls I see in Singapore look pretty. Do the majority of them look just as pretty, if not prettier in Vietnam itself?

Do Vietnamese often keep firearms (guns and rifles) in their houses? The firearms can be licensed ones or illegal ones. These firearms can be used for hunting too. I would not be surprised if they are well hidden in their houses in Vietnam. Illegal firearms are not uncommon in village houses in Southeast Asian countries, except Singapore.

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by shysaint

Soon I will be doing this

So good. Many of our jobs dun allow us to say want to go on this weekend then we can go. Booking of tickets too far ahead will be a "dream" I think you have a good job, please treasure it