Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[KangTuo]

something to learn from Viet_Kor marriages
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Mutual misunderstandings underlie Vietnamese-Korean marriages

Most marriages between Vietnamese women and South Korean men fail as they know little about each other and the women enter a spousal relationship very different to those at home, experts told a conference on April 22.

South Korean husbands tend to “over-guard” their wife and money, while most Vietnamese women expect to manage the family’s income and spending as well as to keep a close watch on their man, a report released by the Chungcheongnam-do Women’s Policy Development Institute (CWPDI) said.

The institute co-organized the conference in Hanoi with the Gender and Development Research Center of the Hanoi University of Social Sciences and Humanities.

Chungcheongnam-do, a province in western South Korea, is home to many Vietnamese women married to South Korean men.

Other studies done by the institute show that the number of divorces between South Koreans and foreigners, many of them Vietnamese women, has tripled since 2003 and around 80 percent of such marriages last for a maximum of four years.

Vietnamese women, who sometimes discover only after their marriage that they are at least 10 years younger than their husbands, are not accustomed to always staying at home after marriage and are depressed when they are forced to do so.

Also, the women are required to study South Korean culture, including the language and cuisine, while the husbands make no effort to reciprocate. Their children, meanwhile, are only taught their father’s language, culture and social mores, and none of their mother’s.

Kim Kyung Suk, head of the Chungcheongnam-do Institute, said Vietnamese women should know what life with their husband’s family entails and be prepared.

Most Vietnamese women who marry South Korean men look forward to sending money back home, and this makes the husbands tighten their control even more.

Several studies show that marriages between Vietnamese women and East Asian men have surged in the past decade.

Most Korean-Vietnamese marriages are arranged by illegal brokers and the prospective spouses lack information about each other.

Some Korean men want their potential wives to know the truth about them, but the brokers prefer to boast, and the Vietnamese women become disillusioned after they’re married.

The conference also raised the problem of Vietnamese wives finding it very difficult to attain South Korean citizenship.

They need to attend at least 200 classes of the country’s social integration program in 17 months.

But most Vietnamese women that marry South Korean men are from poor families in Vietnam’s rural areas and have little education.

Surveys in the Mekong Delta show that more than 60 percent of natives marrying Korean men are very poor, Dinh Van Quang from the Family Department of Vietnam’s Ministry of Culture, Sports and Tourism told the conference.

The Vietnamese government in January announced a plan for the nation’s first matchmaking firm to prevent the abuse of Vietnamese women by foreigners. The plan is to be submitted to the prime minister by the end of June.

Reported by Le Tung

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

something to learn from Viet_Kor marriages
Vietnam latest news - Thanh Nien Daily

Mutual misunderstandings underlie Vietnamese-Korean marriages

yes heard quite a bit of news regarding Vn gals marrying Korean men...now Vn gals dun favour Korean men anymore...unless those con by the marriage agency...Taiwan men too is not favoured...alot of bad publicity...

[ekemono]

Originally Posted by 69ASIMO69

Any cons and pros for the applicant to be pregnant or not? pregnant can get the approval more easy or? Can any bro advise?

I dun agreed to pregnancy for LTVP or PR.
I knew a friend, no CPF, no own house. Viet wife pregnant and give birth liao but still her PR wait long long. Almost 2 years coming
Now my friend big headache.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by ekemono

I dun agreed to pregnancy for LTVP or PR.
I knew a friend, no CPF, no own house. Viet wife pregnant and give birth liao but still her PR wait long long. Almost 2 years coming
Now my friend big headache.

Like i mentioned before, too many vietnamese ladies think that pregnancy is key to PR and Citizenship. In fact, by getting pregnant before the official marriage is doing more harm than good to the vietnamese lady's application for PR. The Viet gals may be clever but ICA is surely a few steps higher than the intelligence of these viet gals

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by ekemono

I dun agreed to pregnancy for LTVP or PR.
I knew a friend, no CPF, no own house. Viet wife pregnant and give birth liao but still her PR wait long long. Almost 2 years coming
Now my friend big headache.

hahaha...pls be realistic...without certain amount of income per month, how to feed family??? Sin gov is not stupid to allow such things to happen...who is going to feed these ppl...

[ekemono]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

hahaha...pls be realistic...without certain amount of income per month, how to feed family??? Sin gov is not stupid to allow such things to happen...who is going to feed these ppl...

Ya...
alot of guys think that the ICA are not convince of their sincerity in marriage and thus pull up the pregnancy stunt.
Actually they dun give a shit about the child, they are more interested in the husband's financial capability. Not that we need to earn 5 figure monthly, but somewhere reasonably enough. Thru examples of friends and myself during my ex PRC wife, I am suspecting the min figure of 2.5K for a good consistency few years. But I may be wrong

[David_Villa]

Originally Posted by ekemono

Thru examples of friends and myself during my ex PRC wife, I am suspecting the min figure of 2.5K for a good consistency few years. But I may be wrong

I ever come across a viet bride match agency stated the min income for the man must be at least 1.8k per month before they can consider getting a viet bride.

[ekemono]

Originally Posted by David_Villa

I ever come across a viet bride match agency stated the min income for the man must be at least 1.8k per month before they can consider getting a viet bride.

as in nett or gross?

[Honey Boon]

haha.... Singaopre is still a very conservative society, pre-marital sex is considered "not so nice" la .... haha

Originally Posted by SingViet

Like i mentioned before, too many vietnamese ladies think that pregnancy is key to PR and Citizenship. In fact, by getting pregnant before the official marriage is doing more harm than good to the vietnamese lady's application for PR. The Viet gals may be clever but ICA is surely a few steps higher than the intelligence of these viet gals

[KangTuo]

just asking to understand vn gals in general.
Any bro encounter vn gal with the following thinking?
1. Have baby even though not married, no husband is ok
2. Let guy go fcuk other gal but cannot masturbathe reason because dun wan guy get too use to hand and cannot cum when fcuk pussy

I totally blur out when a vn gal tell me this

[jackbl]

So late already u still cant get to sleep? Troubled by these questions???

Originally Posted by KangTuo

just asking to understand vn gals in general.

I totally blur out when a vn gal tell me this

[David_Villa]

Originally Posted by ekemono

as in nett or gross?

Never mentioned. The agency is at the golden mile.

[ekemono]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

just asking to understand vn gals in general.
Any bro encounter vn gal with the following thinking?
1. Have baby even though not married, no husband is ok
2. Let guy go fcuk other gal but cannot masturbathe reason because dun wan guy get too use to hand and cannot cum when fcuk pussy

I totally blur out when a vn gal tell me this

Just a guess hor.

1) She is probably refering to a guy she knew of, mostly a good for nothing that cannot gives her sense of security for long term. But on short term the guy is fun to be with

2) The guy told her that after he was unable to cum onto her cos he's probably bonk her til he gets bored. So one fine day kena cornered and throw such excuses. But even though too much DIY can desensitize the dick, the male must have been tired of the pussy in the 1st place to have resort to DIY instead. Unless some lousy event happen they ain't together

[papillon30]

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"Most Western men are attracted to Vietnamese women for their charming, considerate, emotional, tactful and caring nature."

I don't understand why S'porean men like to waste their time and
money; trying to find love with a Vietnamese WL.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

just asking to understand vn gals in general.
Any bro encounter vn gal with the following thinking?
1. Have baby even though not married, no husband is ok
2. Let guy go fcuk other gal but cannot masturbathe reason because dun wan guy get too use to hand and cannot cum when fcuk pussy

I totally blur out when a vn gal tell me this

1. yes...i heard of this because in Vn when a gal love and trust the man, she is willing to have baby even without marriage and even later the man dun want to marry her oso can...the Vn gal is willing to do such things...

2. this one I heard before too but this is telling you she is magnanimous and see if you go fooling around...as for masturbate, the Vn gal will feel inferior if she can't fulfil her duties as baxa or gf to make her man cum...this is the way they are brought up...because even if the gals dun mention the man will still go ahead to fool around without telling them...all the gal want is to ensure the man comes home after fooling around...

above is my opinion and what I knew after discussing with frens...