Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Jonas21

Hi Bros anybody out here can translate the below vietnam sentance for me?

"neu y em that long thi hay lo cho e va gap gia dinh e. neu that long thi e cung that long den voi a"

Could not translate it using online translator, any Bros here know of any web page that can help to translate?

should be something like this:

if love me truely then better worry for me and see my family. if truely love then i also true love you back

VDict.com - Vietnamese Dictionary and Translation - T? ?i?n và d?ch ti?ng Vi?t

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Hanoi-Kid

Dear Bro,

I did ask the few gals I dated about who she will put 1st, the BF/Husband or her family..and the answer was BF....but I guess its still the 'honey moon' period and at this stage,,gals all want to say stuff guys want to hear,,,but if she say it,,means u can always remind her of what she says right?

Bro, the background of the gals make a big difference in the way they think. Gals from Hanoi or northern states think quite differently from gals from the south. The next being their education level also make big differences. No matter what the gal says, you have not married the gal yet. When i was single and cheonging in HCMC some years back, the gals all try to put a nice picture for me. Say all the things that i like to hear. True colours will show after you sign on the marriage papers and stay together.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by SingViet

My attitude towards my wife's family is simple `Don't be a HERO because HERO is first one to die'. When the parents need money for whatever cause, i give an amount that i am comfy with. The rest they have to think of other ways to raise the money. If try to be HERO and pay all the bill, next time there will be many many chances for you to be HERO and you will die of POCKET CANCER really fast.

Originally Posted by SingViet

u ask yr gal to choose between u and her family, she will ask u to FXXK OFF. she will surely choose her family. How i know this? from real life experience... hahahha... BIG MISTAKE... marriage almost ended but thank god, i managed to save it.

2 of the many good sharing by bro SingViet

[Jonas21]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

should be something like this:

if love me truely then better worry for me and see my family. if truely love then i also true love you back

VDict.com - Vietnamese Dictionary and Translation - T? ?i?n và d?ch ti?ng Vi?t

Thanks Bro, I had use VDict.com to translate but it could not translate it maybe becaused i did not type in viat. Thanks so much for it.

[papillon30]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Bro, u still have to learn a lot about vietnamese as spouse leh u ask yr gal to choose between u and her family, she will ask u to FXXK OFF. she will surely choose her family. How i know this? from real life experience... hahahha... BIG MISTAKE... marriage almost ended but thank god, i managed to save it.

Blood is thicker than water.

[polinim125]

Hi all, i was reading this thread and find it could be the best place to post this question. Sometime in the middle of May my friends and I might be visiting Vietnam.
Normally what kind of airlines/pricing of ticket that bros who visit Vietnam frequently purchase?
Pardon me as we newbies are visiting Vietnam for the first time.

[Honey Boon]

well, my case is slightly different as mine is "extra"... can live with or without.... so I have the slight upper hand to force her to make this decision ... she weights the pros and cons. But of course, it took her quite a while to make this decision .... as my monthly allowance is fixed based on my ability, ... if she wants her family more, then she will have less to spend on herself...

Bro Singviet, remember you have helped me to "calculate" what is the basic needs for a single lady to spend in her home town. Based on that, it has worked well for me and her .... now she only give her mother a bit every month.

Originally Posted by SingViet

Bro, u still have to learn a lot about vietnamese as spouse leh u ask yr gal to choose between u and her family, she will ask u to FXXK OFF. she will surely choose her family. How i know this? from real life experience... hahahha... BIG MISTAKE... marriage almost ended but thank god, i managed to save it.

[Panamera]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

should be something like this:if love me truely then better worry for me and see my family. if truely love then i also true love you backVDict.com - Vietnamese Dictionary and Translation - T? ?i?n và d?ch ti?ng Vi?t

Yo Bro KangTuo, how's ur church stuff? ok?

[FL Lover]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

can change this thread to Understanding FAMILY members of Vietnamese Life Partner and how to change their mindset?

really dunno how the family members think...
1) always think of using own daughter/siblings to earn money
2) always think that foreigner got alot $.

Experience bro here... how you due with them?

I just had a converstation with my galfriend.. she is very sad.

She had a big argument with her sister yesterday. Her sis asked her whether I give my girlfriend money before I return to Sillypore. She replied her sis that I gave $100. The last time I give a sum of $ to pay for their mum hospital bill is ok already.

Her sis said that I gave so little only. Why a foriegner dun have $ to give? Why my galfriend only think of love and willing to work as shop assitance eaning miserable pay. She said my galfriend not giving money and worry for the whole family. She asked my galfriend to come Sillypore to work after the ban is lifted. Don't need to stay with me.

My galfriend complained to me that she is just like a money machine to her family. She is really tired of them...

Listen to all this complain, I also feel fustrated.

Not just to Viet gers... Also applied to other nationalities, Thai, Prc...

The problem is that they all seems to think we are damned rich leh.

Got Cars = Rich
Got house = Rich
Got SGD dollars = RICHIE RICH

but they never know how hard to earn a living in SG... Knn.. same leh. my ex thai terak always talk abt $$ until i fed up. Have to tell her off that we are not ATM machine.. Then she keeps quiet. Sometimes reasonings will not work one cause in their minds, we are the $$ GOD, GOLD MOUNTAIN AND WALKING ATM.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by polinim125

Hi all, i was reading this thread and find it could be the best place to post this question. Sometime in the middle of May my friends and I might be visiting Vietnam.
Normally what kind of airlines/pricing of ticket that bros who visit Vietnam frequently purchase?
Pardon me as we newbies are visiting Vietnam for the first time.

wrong place to post this question...where are you visiting in Vn...Hanoi or HCM??

Hanoi - post in thread "Hanoi"

HCM - post in thread "Vietnam - HCM"

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by NewandLost

so that justifies bankrupting some Singaporean or non PRC, destroying their marragie, spreading STDS, and maybe even driving someone else to suidice? You guys say it takes 2 hands to clap but doe they not have a consience on the detrimental effects to the other party? I mean even if the PRC knows the effects are not good seems to me should just take a measured damage approach rather than omploding someone's life?

Originally Posted by NewandLost

whats te point in gettting married to her then?

hahaha...there are many positive points a Vn wife can provide which is hardly found in other nationalities...the advantages had been discussed in this thread...you need to read them to have clearer understanding...of course you have to live with the negative points at the beginning...

[haojian]

I am going to Tay NINH (East of HCMC) on friday with a viet marriage agency. Looking for a viet wife in a 4 day 3 nights trip.

1) Is it better if she is age older around 25?
never worked? only help parents with in farm and around the house?
speaks vietnamese only?

or

2) younger than 25?
worked in shoe/clothing factory?
speaks vietnamese only?

or

3) younger than 25?
worked in city and speaks some chinese/english?

Your opinions please,
Thank you

[Jonas21]

Hi Bro Kangtuo need help again,, pls help to translate.

"a hua cai gi voi e a nho do e se doi"

"bay gio toi buon lam a biet ko toi ko muon lam nhung toi ko lam ko co tien cho ba me toi"

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

the advantages had been discussed in this thread...

The clear advantage is the Viet ger will serve and take care of man.

[Jonas21]

Bro please help to translate this too,

"toi noi toi rat buon toi ko thich di lam ban biet ko"