Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[eddy72]

when everything work well, she might be your biggest gain in life..

earning gd money at such a young age mean she quite steady la..

( unless her company stupid........ )

how I wish I have half of yr luck.. zzzzzzzzzz

anyway, not that easy to have baby on the first try..

( ok ok, u know I know.. the more eca, the better? )

[SsugarDaddy]

Originally Posted by eddy72

when everything work well, she might be your biggest gain in life..

earning gd money at such a young age mean she quite steady la..

( unless her company stupid........ )

how I wish I have half of yr luck.. zzzzzzzzzz

anyway, not that easy to have baby on the first try..

( ok ok, u know I know.. the more eca, the better? )

i long time ago got kena first time when i was 21....
i scare my commando sperm still around, i will jialat...

honestly, i think she is a nice girl, but im not sure if im ready to marry.


good things will happen to you too bro

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

You said it well, many single mother in Vietnam and this is where you dun understand their culture. In fact they are proud of it.

I seriously doubt they are proud to be single mum. No parent in this world will like their daughter to have kid without marriage or worst dunno who is the daddy.... The pressure from parents, family, relatives, peers, society..... how will the single mum be proud?

Originally Posted by willgo

i do have friends who meet up viet girl and date them, sleep with them and make them pregnant, then they just shrug off saiding vn man always make them pregnant, so it is normal we make them pregnant too, damn irresponsible.

This is how we label "fucking asshole" on ppl.

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

only for those rich and elite families...for these rich and elite families in Vietnam the children have no say who they going to marry...

Village still a lot of arranged marriage.

Originally Posted by SsugarDaddy

im starting to worry if she gets pregnant, i will sibei jialat liao

Song liao then worry, no use.... it is either, marry, abortion or "fucking asshole"....

[FireShark]

Originally Posted by SsugarDaddy

im having a massive headache due to this problem
im starting to worry if she gets pregnant, i will sibei jialat liao

Why worried? Either you marry; abort the baby or ditch her.

Originally Posted by Exis7ence

Really?whose market is it now?i was really disappointed when she didnt want to come with me.haiz.

Not really; many of their parents still thought that Taiwan is a good country where their daughters will be happy but many vb had secretly fly back to vn after marriage due to several reasons. I don't think the vb don't want to come to Singapore with you. Are you going to marry her? Have you seen her parents yet? To her parents; are you able to give them a big dowry in terms of $$$? Most parents are selling their daughters rather than wanted their daughter to have a blissful marriage. They thought that marrying a foreigner; they could come out from poverty.

Originally Posted by naemlo

I seriously doubt they are proud to be single mum. No parent in this world will like their daughter to have kid without marriage or worst dunno who is the daddy.... The pressure from parents, family, relatives, peers, society..... how will the single mum be proud?

Village still a lot of arranged marriage.

Song liao then worry, no use.... it is either, marry, abortion or "fucking asshole"....

Totally agreed.........

[eddy72]

To her parents; are you able to give them a big dowry in terms of $$$? Most parents are selling their daughters rather than wanted their daughter to have a blissful marriage. They thought that marrying a foreigner; they could come out from poverty.


bro, that abt how much.. a no. to figure..

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by naemlo

I seriously doubt they are proud to be single mum. No parent in this world will like their daughter to have kid without marriage or worst dunno who is the daddy.... The pressure from parents, family, relatives, peers, society..... how will the single mum be proud? .

Haizzzz...maybe I should not use "proud"...I had met so many single mother in Vietnam...they are happily living and not shy to tell us that they hv a kid....

Some hv kid since 18 yrs old and by 21 yrs old still very attractive...my fb alone has plenty...

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Haizzzz...maybe I should not use "proud"...I had met so many single mother in Vietnam...they are happily living and not shy to tell us that they hv a kid....

Happy, yes. Life still have to go on either happy or sad so it is smarter to live happily.

[FireShark]

Originally Posted by eddy72

bro, that abt how much.. a no. to figure..

I don't know.....If your vb love you; she will help you. She will talk to her parents. Some need only minimal amount of dowry but some asking a lot. My friend just gave abt S$10K for everything including of Jewellery; wedding photos; 40 wedding tables and Karaoke session. Hong bao; he had collected back about S$6K but gave his parent in law $5K.

40 Tables = est $6400
Karaoke = est 600
Photo = est $1000
Jewellery = est $4000
Total = $11K - Hong Bao $6K give parent in law $5K so S$10K.

My friend wedding was quite lavish to me. $10 to my friend consider is a small $.

[eddy72]

Originally Posted by FireShark

I don't know.....If your vb love you; she will help you. She will talk to her parents. Some need only minimal amount of dowry but some asking a lot. My friend just gave abt S$10K for everything including of Jewellery; wedding photos; 40 wedding tables and Karaoke session. Hong bao; he had collected back about S$6K but gave his parent in law $5K.

40 Tables = est $6400
Karaoke = est 600
Photo = est $1000
Jewellery = est $4000
Total = $11K - Hong Bao $6K give parent in law $5K so S$10K.

My friend wedding was quite lavish to me. $10 to my friend consider is a small $.

just meet only, how to love?

it ok if yr friend can afford it.. wa, so many tables?

still got $5k bk fm diner? the most important is the result..

not sure abt yr friend viet wife, my friend wife is a good catch..

if I also have the same luck.........

[xiaoqiang]

Originally Posted by eddy72

just meet only, how to love?

it ok if yr friend can afford it.. wa, so many tables?

still got $5k bk fm diner? the most important is the result..

not sure abt yr friend viet wife, my friend wife is a good catch..

if I also have the same luck.........

My wife ???

Nice to meet u bro!

[damong777]

Originally Posted by eddy72

just meet only, how to love?

if I also have the same luck.........

Not just luck. u need to take time to choose and decide. there are so many over there.

each exp with vb only make u wiser

[eddy72]

Originally Posted by xiaoqiang

My wife ???

Nice to meet u bro!

my verdict on yr wife is very high..

unless she prove me wrong..

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by damong777

each exp with vb only make u wiser

Not true... some men get more stupid.

[eddy72]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Not true... some men get more stupid.

shhhhh.. something no need no say 1..

the only thing that can save these men is when they got

no more $$$$$$

[Seletar]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

1)

.. the patch of blood may be the residue from her period?

** if I were the one traveling with the vbs... I would have makan them from day 1 of the trip.

The writer may mean the patch of blood could be the girl is a virgin but looking back the girl is earning 8 mil why on earth she wants to make love with a man she just met ??