Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Jackie12]

Originally Posted by curious76

All the brothers here given you good advice.. But please have protected sex with her..

(1) You do not want to get diseases
(2) If she get pregnant, she might claim the baby is yours.

The best is not to fuck her at all.

I do not know how all these vietbu learn the acting storyline. Maybe from Television.

By the way i guess you stayed in landed property.. and that Vietbu know already that you are loaded. So better steel your heart when she start asking for more money.

i not rich or yandao but i stay my own 3room hdb, have a car, after expenses only have about 2k left mthly... she know my condition... i just a average singaporean...

i will tried to use protection next time, till now she havent ask me for expensive stuffs yet... i take note of that... so far for the past 2 weeks every night she at home... she could be seeing someone during the daytime too. i have fallen to the kc trap but i think i am able to get out if i caught her flirting outside again...

thanks for all the advices

[Jackie12]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

ICA QA with my custom officer buddy.

Entry to singapore will be granted even they come every month.

If vb come with return ticket with period less than 8 days.
Show officer they stay in 3 stars hotel or better.
Or a address which is the same everytime she enter. (Address raided for vice trade will be black mark)
Have Visa card with their name on it.
Have cash sufficient for period of stay.

Multiple entry will be granted. However if she was caught in vice trade or change the date of return ticket. She will be U turn

So if u are rich and don't care about money. You know what to do now.

1. less than 8days with return tickets
2. fill in same address
3. some cash for the few days...

thanks i take note of this 3 pts..

i plan to let her come to sin stay with me for 2-3days every fortnightly..
we can have more time together... i think better not bring her to geylang for supper.. if she being suspect for vice trade, she might have problem coming again next time.

[curious76]

Originally Posted by Jackie12

i not rich or yandao but i stay my own 3room hdb, have a car, after expenses only have about 2k left mthly... she know my condition... i just a average singaporean...

i will tried to use protection next time, till now she havent ask me for expensive stuffs yet... i take note of that... so far for the past 2 weeks every night she at home... she could be seeing someone during the daytime too. i have fallen to the kc trap but i think i am able to get out if i caught her flirting outside again...

thanks for all the advices

Haha my advice to you do not take too serious like me.. Just treat it as a fling.. No need to catch her. Is a definite yes.. Why? What good to being with you? You think she really love you?? If yes why she do not come and spend valentine with you? Please wake up your mind before too late..
And she is going to stay with her the one she really love in vietnam and that is not you. If you do not believe tell her you coming in valentine to visit her. You will see her true color

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by curious76

All the brothers here given you good advice.. But please have protected sex with her..

why you need to quote whole post...wait BOSS comes in to zap you...

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Jackie12

i not rich or yandao but i stay my own 3room hdb, have a car, after expenses only have about 2k left mthly... she know my condition... i just a average singaporean...

you meant she also knew you taking cialis...?

http://thesbf.shop/showthr...t=#post9064075
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my advice to you...dun over exert yourself and over-do anything...you are typical sinkees that goes for VB...pls read my posts here if you are trying to go for long distance relationship here...think long haul...and if you cannot go long haul then better make exit plans...had mentioned many times that VBs are not for weak hearted...so better beware...

[devilcheong]

Originally Posted by Jackie12

i not rich or yandao but i stay my own 3room hdb, have a car, after expenses only have about 2k left mthly... she know my condition... i just a average singaporean...

i will tried to use protection next time, till now she havent ask me for expensive stuffs yet... i take note of that... so far for the past 2 weeks every night she at home... she could be seeing someone during the daytime too. i have fallen to the kc trap but i think i am able to get out if i caught her flirting outside again...

thanks for all the advices

If she is able to contribute with the income with a decent educational background by getting a decent job is okay but if you were to support her together with her family is rather very risky somehow.. are you able to support her and family basic needs when times to come? Even she loves you dearly.. if financially having difficulties again, would she goes back to using the same tactics again by sleeping with other guys to solve the problems temporarily? Anyway there are many infos in this thread that you can read as a good reference..

[MIFAcafe]

You forgot to read the last line? If you are rich........

By the way I am just curious; why must she come to Singapore? You should go HCM. You can take a break from hectic life in Singapore.

You sure you still want to continue your "so call relationship" knowing all it takes is money to sleep with her?

Originally Posted by Jackie12

1. less than 8days with return tickets
2. fill in same address
3. some cash for the few days...

thanks i take note of this 3 pts..

i plan to let her come to sin stay with me for 2-3days every fortnightly..
we can have more time together... i think better not bring her to geylang for supper.. if she being suspect for vice trade, she might have problem coming again next time.

[Captainoceania77]

Originally Posted by Jackie12

1. less than 8days with return tickets
2. fill in same address
3. some cash for the few days...

thanks i take note of this 3 pts..

i plan to let her come to sin stay with me for 2-3days every fortnightly..
we can have more time together... i think better not bring her to geylang for supper.. if she being suspect for vice trade, she might have problem coming again next time.

Welcome to the beginning of hell......There is a saying rent it and dont buy it.....

[LOTR3]

贫贱夫妻百事哀
Thats why i hesitate to start a family.

[milfmilf]

Originally Posted by Jackie12

1. less than 8days with return tickets
2. fill in same address
3. some cash for the few days...

thanks i take note of this 3 pts..

i plan to let her come to sin stay with me for 2-3days every fortnightly..
we can have more time together... i think better not bring her to geylang for supper.. if she being suspect for vice trade, she might have problem coming again next time.

can hire her as maid?

[milfmilf]

Originally Posted by Jackie12

i not rich or yandao but i stay my own 3room hdb, have a car, after expenses only have about 2k left mthly... she know my condition... i just a average singaporean...

thanks for all the advices

wah not bad can save $2k per month..
include giving parents pocket $$?

[milfmilf]

Originally Posted by LOTR3

贫贱夫妻百事哀
Thats why i hesitate to start a family.

贫贱 .... can share some numbers.. ..earning vs expenditure

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by LOTR3

贫贱夫妻百事哀
Thats why i hesitate to start a family.

back in 1985...my ex-colleague a delivery driver earned basic salary $1,200 and after OT around $1,500 per month...those days CPF 25% deduction...he just married and starting to have kids...wife working earns around $ 800 per month...so depends on your expectation...and the type of livelihood you want...

you are correct to worry about all these...then again...why worry...

[sunhuan-con]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

back in 1985...my ex-colleague a delivery driver earned basic salary $1,200 and after OT around $1,500 per month...those days CPF 25% deduction...he just married and starting to have kids...wife working earns around $ 800 per month...so depends on your expectation...and the type of livelihood you want...

you are correct to worry about all these...then again...why worry...

Those time has no HP, internet ,erp, coe , lesser airline , lesser branded, cheaper ciggrattes ........etc.....Cost are much cheaper.....

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by sunhuan-con

Those time has no HP, internet ,erp, coe , lesser airline , lesser branded, cheaper ciggrattes ........etc.....Cost are much cheaper.....

HP - can always use cheap mobile phone with pre-paid (free call in)
Internet - driver dun surf internet much
ERP - company pay ERP
COE - company pay COE
Lesser airline - he cannot afford airline holiday except free company incentive trip if any
lesser branded - buy those cheap $10 clothings from Giant supermarket or any cheap offer or wear those branded who donated
cigarettes - he dun smoke or drink
restaurant - dun think so - just eat hawker centre...or free company dinner
any etc...