Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[FireShark]

Originally Posted by curious76

Maybe.. Lets see first.. but all the above does not include my expenses there.. Air ticket, Hotel stay.. She keep on want to come to Singapore.. I told her it is cheaper that i go there instead of come here unless she come to work in the bar...

How much is one motorbike cost in Hanoi??

Northern Vn woman are smarter than Southern Vn Woman. They are more smarter

Originally Posted by curious76

haha.. nothing.. I take everything with a bit of salt.. Even she cheat me, i also got no choice..

As i mentioned everything have a limit, is just that if she cross that limit or not??

You got a choice not to get cheated.

Originally Posted by profx

My guess for "du de" in 1st sentence is "enough to"
Du de iu a roi = enough to fall in love already

"chua du de sac sao" i read as "not good enough"

I cannot handle the sign well so always read without it.

Another expertise now in this thread

[curious76]

Originally Posted by FireShark

Northern Vn woman are smarter than Southern Vn Woman. They are more smarter



You got a choice not to get cheated.

Sigh love is blind.. I will say this..

[damong777]

Originally Posted by curious76

Sigh love is blind.. I will say this..

But at least you know where to look for help

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by curious76

Sigh love is blind.. I will say this..

Are you sure its LOVE? I am sure LUST is blind and leads to pocket cancer and emotional blackmail. Welcome to UNDERSTANDING VIETNAMESE LIFE PARTNER . You still got lots to learn.

[milfmilf]

when the vb get our $$, beside "thanking" us, wonder if she also does have a bit of Hweeling (feeling with hokkien accent ) .. and pondering if we could be their future ...

[curious76]

Originally Posted by milfmilf

when the vb get our $$, beside "thanking" us, wonder if she also does have a bit of Hweeling (feeling with hokkien accent ) .. and pondering if we could be their future ...

Haha well I will say lar. They only care of their pockets. By the way hospital in Vietnam got no subsidiary?

[MIFAcafe]

New blood..... So old man like me can retire.

Newbie should read first 500 pages before spill their story. As their story will be the same........

Meet a lady (work in ktv, bars, Geylang coffee shop etc)
Go fuck one or a few times.
Think they found true love.
Never ending money request.
Same old story of father sick, mother sick, brother accidents, sister cannot study.
Came here asking for advice.
Become angry, thinking we trying to break the love birds apart.
Few months later start to see who is helping them.

Originally Posted by SingViet

Are you sure its LOVE? I am sure LUST is blind and leads to pocket cancer and emotional blackmail. Welcome to UNDERSTANDING VIETNAMESE LIFE PARTNER . You still got lots to learn.

[seabass]

Dont retire bro

I enjoy reading these postings and hope you share more.

Cam On.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by curious76

Haha well I will say lar. They only care of their pockets. By the way hospital in Vietnam got no subsidiary?

Think u never been to a Vietnam hospital...let me describe briefly...

2 types go hospital in Vietnam...

Private hospital - posh luxury specialise in some medical treatment...and meant for rich and foreigners who can afford to pay...doctors are foreign trained or affiliated...heard some Singapore and foreign doctors fly there bi-weekly to meet patients...

Gahmen hospital - also specialized in some area...not all are general hospital...but is cheap and fully subsidized...but places are cramped and full of patients...each patient may have to share bed with another patient...patients expected to have one or more relatives to be present to help out in the hospital if warded...the relatives who cannot afford to rent a bed or room nearby will sleep on the corridors or staircases...the hospital is crowded and smell bad...doctors and nurses are over-worked here...if anyone want to jump queue for any services then need to bribe doctor and nurse with lixi...

The above are just my observations and experiences...not here to upset anyone...pls skip if you dun like to read...

[curious76]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Think u never been to a Vietnam hospital...let me describe briefly...

2 types go hospital in Vietnam...

Private hospital - posh luxury specialise in some medical treatment...and meant for rich and foreigners who can afford to pay...doctors are foreign trained or affiliated...heard some Singapore and foreign doctors fly there bi-weekly to meet patients...

Gahmen hospital - also specialized in some area...not all are general hospital...but is cheap and fully subsidized...but places are cramped and full of patients...each patient may have to share bed with another patient...patients expected to have one or more relatives to be present to help out in the hospital if warded...the relatives who cannot afford to rent a bed or room nearby will sleep on the corridors or staircases...the hospital is crowded and smell bad...doctors and nurses are over-worked here...if anyone want to jump queue for any services then need to bribe doctor and nurse with lixi...

The above are just my observations and experiences...not here to upset anyone...pls skip if you dun like to read...

Point noted

[MIFAcafe]

Went and do charity at a local hospital with H88 and a few friends.

Saw the condition of the place..... Due to shortage of bed, some families just sleep on the corridor.

Kids carrying babies, old folks, sick patient. Really bad living condition.

Majority are born and brought up in tough living condition. So for sinkees whom are born and brought up in Singapore surely got no match for vbs.

And a lot of Viet men hammer their wives. Sinkees will find it hard to do......

I try it on a few vbs..... Slapping their thigh until red and some even cry....... I notice most love me more after slapping them......

I slap my current girl on her thigh and tears star flowing down........ And 5 minutes later she is hugging me and say "em thuong anh".

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

Went and do charity at a local hospital with H88 and a few friends.
Saw the condition of the place..... Due to shortage of bed, some families just sleep on the corridor.
Kids carrying babies, old folks, sick patient. Really bad living condition.

oops you forgotten to say that "many kids with tubes poke thru their little bodies"...what a sight...phew trying to give out milk, biscuits and VND 50K to 500 recipients with vouchers is really tough job...but a nice experience...good karma to donors and those helping to give out...

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Think u never been to a Vietnam hospital...let me describe briefly...

2 types go hospital in Vietnam...

Private hospital - posh luxury specialise in some medical treatment...and meant for rich and foreigners who can afford to pay...doctors are foreign trained or affiliated...heard some Singapore and foreign doctors fly there bi-weekly to meet patients...

Gahmen hospital - also specialized in some area...not all are general hospital...but is cheap and fully subsidized...but places are cramped and full of patients...each patient may have to share bed with another patient...patients expected to have one or more relatives to be present to help out in the hospital if warded...the relatives who cannot afford to rent a bed or room nearby will sleep on the corridors or staircases...the hospital is crowded and smell bad...doctors and nurses are over-worked here...if anyone want to jump queue for any services then need to bribe doctor and nurse with lixi...

The above are just my observations and experiences...not here to upset anyone...pls skip if you dun like to read...

Vietnam Public Hospital is what Bro H88 has described, dirty and overcrowded. I had the opportunity to visit my wife's relative at Cho Ray hospital at Q5 some years back. I was dismayed by the condition of the hospital. Rats were running around !! I was told there's a private ward for foreigners at Cho Ray and that its nice and air conditioned, but looking at their public wards, i simply have no confidence.

I think i am the rare few Singaporeans that had surgery in Vietnam. Around 5 years ago, i had my spinal surgery at Franco-Vietnamese Hospital at Q7, Phu My Hung. Its a private hospital set up by the French. Although French in nature, most doctors there are actually Vietnamese, but with a post graduate diploma from Paris. Whole hospital is air-conditioned and its clean . I was operated by one of the rare few Neurosurgeon in Vietnam (heard there's a only a few neurosurgeon) , stayed in single room for 10 days before i was discharged (i requested for it) and was transported back to Singapore on a wheelchair + stretcher. My spinal surgery was complicated and it lasted for around 8 hours. Total cost was around US$10k. Still relatively much cheaper than Singapore. My follow-up Specialist neurosurgeon in Singapore told me that it could have cost me around S$100k for the same procedure and service in Singapore.

[MIFAcafe]

A good reason to retire in HCM.

Already set up a retirement spot in Johor near Peter Lim Vantage medical hub. May set up another retirement spot in HCM.

Medical cost in Singapore is a killer.

I wonder is it worthwhile to do medical and dental checkup in HCM?

Originally Posted by SingViet

I think i am the rare few Singaporeans that had surgery in Vietnam. Around 5 years ago, i had my spinal surgery at Franco-Vietnamese Hospital at Q7, Phu My Hung. Its a private hospital set up by the French. Although French in nature, most doctors there are actually Vietnamese, but with a post graduate diploma from Paris. Whole hospital is air-conditioned and its clean . I was operated by one of the rare few Neurosurgeon in Vietnam (heard there's a only a few neurosurgeon) , stayed in single room for 10 days before i was discharged (i requested for it) and was transported back to Singapore on a wheelchair + stretcher. My spinal surgery was complicated and it lasted for around 8 hours. Total cost was around US$10k. Still relatively much cheaper than Singapore. My follow-up Specialist neurosurgeon in Singapore told me that it could have cost me around S$100k for the same procedure and service in Singapore.

[curious76]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

A good reason to retire in HCM.

Already set up a retirement spot in Johor near Peter Lim Vantage medical hub. May set up another retirement spot in HCM.

Medical cost in Singapore is a killer.

I wonder is it worthwhile to do medical and dental checkup in HCM?

Not only that.. the living expenses in Singapore is sky high....