Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[inluv07]

Sorry if this is not relevant but I appreciate bros who have experience or advice to give. I met a sweet Viet girl here a few days ago. Kind of mutual attraction. I was surprised she asked me to bring her to a neighbouring country (Indo, M'sia, Thailand) and come back, so as to extend her social visit.

Anyone has experience to share? Is it safe? What are the potential problems.

[MIFAcafe]

You may be the one sided attracted by her..... I doubt she is attracted by you.

Surely she is attracted by your ability to extend her social visa so she can earn more by sleeping with more men.

The potential problem is "You may fall in love with a whore."

Originally Posted by inluv07

Sorry if this is not relevant but I appreciate bros who have experience or advice to give. I met a sweet Viet girl here a few days ago. Kind of mutual attraction. I was surprised she asked me to bring her to a neighbouring country (Indo, M'sia, Thailand) and come back, so as to extend her social visit.

Anyone has experience to share? Is it safe? What are the potential problems.

[elth]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

I hv been to Mui Ne...dun like the beach there...you should visit Nha Trang, Danang and Phu Quoc beaches...read my signature...tabs outside of hcm...

Nha Trang very beautiful... me and my friends book tour from the hotel.. bring us to a few island then go diving...

[SingViet]

Relating a real life case of a friend of mine, a tour bus driver with a Viet spouse. He married the viet spouse around 6 years ago and they have 2 kids. He turned his back against his mother because of his bx and MIL couldn't get along well with his mother. They have their own 3 room flat now. MIL flies in very often to take care of his children. For the past 6 years, he has been trying to get PR for his wife but to no avail.

he has always been telling me that his bx treats him real good. Always stay home take care of children and cook his favourite viet noodles when he comes back from work. But of course, he had sent money to his MIL to let them built house and buy motorbike in the province. His wife mixed around with a group of viet spouse who all have singapore bfs outside, but his wife reassures him that she is not their kind.

6 months ago, his bx got her PR and things started to change. His bx started to go out with friends to karaoke to drink till late night, leaving children home with the MIL. He argued with his bx and she said since he is not earning enough , he should let her go out to work with her friends as VSOP promoter in the bar. He is mid 40s while wife is 26. Wife started work as he had no choice. As time goes by, he realised that his wife started to post more `suggestive pose' photos on her facebook. He couldn't take it and argued with his bx again. His bx told him `if you cannot feed me, don't control me'. He regretted getting PR for his wife and now the marriage seems to be breaking down.

The wife really got good patience to wait for 6 years to get PR before her pattern come out. Simply VVVerry Viet !!

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by inluv07

Sorry if this is not relevant but I appreciate bros who have experience or advice to give. I met a sweet Viet girl here a few days ago. Kind of mutual attraction. I was surprised she asked me to bring her to a neighbouring country (Indo, M'sia, Thailand) and come back, so as to extend her social visit.

Anyone has experience to share? Is it safe? What are the potential problems.

Dun see any problem except spend money la...and you get to bonk free...if you still have to pay her then very expensive...

She may not be allowed to get in if she stayed too long in sinkie previously..so the responsibility is on you to send her back to Vietnam...

[curious76]

Singapore girls also the same pattern.. Marriage is a gamble. Sometime can win sometime can lose.

Originally Posted by SingViet

Relating a real life case of a friend of mine, a tour bus driver with a Viet spouse. He married the viet spouse around 6 years ago and they have 2 kids. He turned his back against his mother because of his bx and MIL couldn't get along well with his mother. They have their own 3 room flat now. MIL flies in very often to take care of his children. For the past 6 years, he has been trying to get PR for his wife but to no avail.

he has always been telling me that his bx treats him real good. Always stay home take care of children and cook his favourite viet noodles when he comes back from work. But of course, he had sent money to his MIL to let them built house and buy motorbike in the province. His wife mixed around with a group of viet spouse who all have singapore bfs outside, but his wife reassures him that she is not their kind.

6 months ago, his bx got her PR and things started to change. His bx started to go out with friends to karaoke to drink till late night, leaving children home with the MIL. He argued with his bx and she said since he is not earning enough , he should let her go out to work with her friends as VSOP promoter in the bar. He is mid 40s while wife is 26. Wife started work as he had no choice. As time goes by, he realised that his wife started to post more `suggestive pose' photos on her facebook. He couldn't take it and argued with his bx again. His bx told him `if you cannot feed me, don't control me'. He regretted getting PR for his wife and now the marriage seems to be breaking down.

The wife really got good patience to wait for 6 years to get PR before her pattern come out. Simply VVVerry Viet !!

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by SingViet

6 months ago, his bx got her PR and things started to change. His bx started to go out with friends to karaoke to drink till late night, leaving children home with the MIL. He argued with his bx and she said since he is not earning enough , he should let her go out to work with her friends as VSOP promoter in the bar. He is mid 40s while wife is 26. Wife started work as he had no choice. As time goes by, he realised that his wife started to post more `suggestive pose' photos on her facebook. He couldn't take it and argued with his bx again. His bx told him `if you cannot feed me, don't control me'. He regretted getting PR for his wife and now the marriage seems to be breaking down.

The wife really got good patience to wait for 6 years to get PR before her pattern come out. Simply VVVerry Viet !!

This is typical Singapore men who married Viet gals and cannot afford to keep the wife sextified....recently a viet beer lady just got pr and straight away move out of her married house...seeking to divorce her hubby...now eyeing on richer bf...hahah...

Also quit her beer lady job but become viet gals agent...bringing gals to come here to work...

Morale of the story - make sure your wife loves you more than you love her....

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by inluv07

Anyone has experience to share? Is it safe? What are the potential problems.

Not much problem... It is a mutual exchange... U pay for everything and in return she provides u with sex.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by curious76

Singapore girls also the same pattern.. Marriage is a gamble. Sometime can win sometime can lose.

Yes you are right. Marriage is a gamble, but both parties need to make sacrifices and effort to maintain it. Marriage will not survive if you just leave it to rot. It needs tender, loving and care. As for Singapore gals or foreign gals, both possible to break down the marriage. Simply saying, if cannot feed even oneself, don't think of getting married and start blaming gals only look at money.

[MIFAcafe]

I met a lot of beer ladies in Singapore. China; Malaysia; Vietnam and Singaporeans.

Most playful and open minded one are Vietnamese beer ladies. Most have one or more bf(s). Those without will do FL. Majority I talk to; say husband disappoint them, take money from them, beat them..... etc. All one sided "husband fault."

Notice they follow strict buddhist calendar of "an chay" and "Di Chua". Mainly because what they do is not buddhism teaching and it is mainly to clear their guilt.

Most vietnamese beer ladies I know; can play with you till the extend of kissing; hugging; groping. Especially when they are drunk and tipsy.

What we see when we drink and play with them; is what their husband will never got a chance to see........

So if you think you can tame a VB; think again. If you think you are playing them...... end of the day you will notice you are the one been played by and manipulated and taken advantage by them.

You want the truth? Problem is can you handle the truth?

[sunhuan-con]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Relating a real life case of a friend of mine, a tour bus driver with a Viet spouse. He married the viet spouse around 6 years ago and they have 2 kids. He turned his back against his mother because of his bx and MIL couldn't get along well with his mother. They have their own 3 room flat now. MIL flies in very often to take care of his children. For the past 6 years, he has been trying to get PR for his wife but to no avail.

he has always been telling me that his bx treats him real good. Always stay home take care of children and cook his favourite viet noodles when he comes back from work. But of course, he had sent money to his MIL to let them built house and buy motorbike in the province. His wife mixed around with a group of viet spouse who all have singapore bfs outside, but his wife reassures him that she is not their kind.

6 months ago, his bx got her PR and things started to change. His bx started to go out with friends to karaoke to drink till late night, leaving children home with the MIL. He argued with his bx and she said since he is not earning enough , he should let her go out to work with her friends as VSOP promoter in the bar. He is mid 40s while wife is 26. Wife started work as he had no choice. As time goes by, he realised that his wife started to post more `suggestive pose' photos on her facebook. He couldn't take it and argued with his bx again. His bx told him `if you cannot feed me, don't control me'. He regretted getting PR for his wife and now the marriage seems to be breaking down.

The wife really got good patience to wait for 6 years to get PR before her pattern come out. Simply VVVerry Viet !!

Truly sad case...btw vitamin M is still the most important element in a marriage...Ultimately it wont betray u..

[curious76]

Originally Posted by sunhuan-con

Truly are sad story...btw vitamin M is still the most important element in a marriage...Ultimately it wont betray u..

vitamin M is the important element.. Never let others (even your wife/BX) control it..

[sunhuan-con]

Originally Posted by curious76

vitamin M is the important element.. Never let others (even your wife/BX) control it..

True...must keep a personal account and dont let them knows too much...if not when comes to divorce...claim until u siao.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by sunhuan-con

True...must keep a personal account and dont let them knows too much...if not when comes to divorce...claim until u siao.

lesson learned from my 1st marriage... when divorce, flat is hers, joint account money is hers

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by sunhuan-con

True...must keep a personal account and dont let them knows too much...if not when comes to divorce...claim until u siao.

haizzzzzz....not sure you guys knew...once goes to divorce...the lawyers who will dig out and Court decides the percentage split of the assets...you can hide...but after a few years if your ex wife found out...still can apply to Court to claim...this is Women Charter Law...kkkk....