Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

Senior KT, when I say play I meant go tour or outing lah.

I am still young... Cannot be called a senior.

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

Read to 600 pages.

Some of the statement posted are priceless.....
I do not mention the nicks, but thanks for this top 2 priceless quote.

1. In VBs mind Lend and Give has the same meaning.
Hence if your lend VBs money; it is as good as giving it away.

2. VBs are short sighted. Only interested in short term gain.
When they are with you; they count how much they can gain in shortest period of time. They never think about "long term relation or long term gain".

Brother,u are damm good,sum up everything simple and clear to understand,fully agreed with u,seem like u are progressing so fast until no horse run

[MIFAcafe]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

I am still young... Cannot be called a senior.

You enter 师门 earlier. So you are senior aka 师兄。Age do not matters.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

You enter 师门 earlier. So you are senior aka 师兄Age do not matters.

Bro KT also longer than me...shi xiong too...

[MIFAcafe]

Real life encounter with a VB I know for 6 months.
I meet up with her on Valentine 2014. She told me prior to my arrival that her mother is suffering from cancer. Ask whether I can help....

I told her "I will help her mother, surely."

When I meet up with her that very night; she expect me to folk out cash for her mother sickness.....

Instead I gave her a bottle of Vitamin B17 500mg which cost me US$100 including shipping.

I did not tell her how much the vitamin cost; as I do not want her to think I am rich.

My intention is as such....
1. I do not want to be cheated if her story is a lie.(although the vitamin cost US$100, but to a VB it is worthless.)
2. If her mother really suffer from cancer; B17 can really help her mother.

This story is still ongoing.........

Her side of story:
Last I heard is that the mother is not suffering in pain now. And her mother wish to meet me when I go VN again.

My side of the story to her.....
I am disappointed that she did not took leave to be with me. And I may not even travel to VN anymore. (I xnn)

Her reply...
"Em biet anh gian em, em cam on anh rat nhieu. Em rat moun gap lai anh. em nho anh nhieu nhei".

To be continue.......(maybe a few months later.....)

Originally Posted by Golden question

Brother,u are damm good,sum up everything simple and clear to understand,fully agreed with u,seem like u are progressing so fast until no horse run

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

Real life encounter with a VB I know for 6 months.
I meet up with her on Valentine 2014. She told me prior to my arrival that her mother is suffering from cancer. Ask whether I can help....

I told her "I will help her mother, surely."

When I meet up with her that very night; she expect me to folk out cash for her mother sickness.....

Instead I gave her a bottle of Vitamin B17 500mg which cost me US$100 including shipping.

I did not tell her how much the vitamin cost; as I do not want her to think I am rich.

My intention is as such....
1. I do not want to be cheated if her story is a lie.(although the vitamin cost US$100, but to a VB it is worthless.)
2. If her mother really suffer from cancer; B17 can really help her mother.

This story is still ongoing.........

Her side of story:
Last I heard is that the mother is not suffering in pain now. And her mother wish to meet me when I go VN again.

My side of the story to her.....
I am disappointed that she did not took leave to be with me. And I may not even travel to VN anymore. (I xnn)

Her reply...
"Em biet anh gian em, em cam on anh rat nhieu. Em rat moun gap lai anh. em nho anh nhieu nhei".

To be continue.......(maybe a few months later.....)

I knew who you talking about...hahaha...

[mutantchicken]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

Real life encounter with a VB I know for 6 months.
I meet up with her on Valentine 2014. She told me prior to my arrival that her mother is suffering from cancer. Ask whether I can help....

I told her "I will help her mother, surely."

When I meet up with her that very night; she expect me to folk out cash for her mother sickness.....

Instead I gave her a bottle of Vitamin B17 500mg which cost me US$100 including shipping.

I did not tell her how much the vitamin cost; as I do not want her to think I am rich.

My intention is as such....
1. I do not want to be cheated if her story is a lie.(although the vitamin cost US$100, but to a VB it is worthless.)
2. If her mother really suffer from cancer; B17 can really help her mother.

This story is still ongoing.........

Her side of story:
Last I heard is that the mother is not suffering in pain now. And her mother wish to meet me when I go VN again.

My side of the story to her.....
I am disappointed that she did not took leave to be with me. And I may not even travel to VN anymore. (I xnn)

Her reply...
"Em biet anh gian em, em cam on anh rat nhieu. Em rat moun gap lai anh. em nho anh nhieu nhei".

To be continue.......(maybe a few months later.....)

as a pharmacist i doubt the effiecacy of vit b17..and to proof my claim heres a quote from wiki

Since the early 1950s, both amygdalin and a modified form named laetrile or Vitamin B17 have been promoted as cancer cures. However, neither of these compounds nor any other derivatives are vitamins in any sense,[3] and studies have found them to be clinically ineffective in the treatment of cancer, as well as dangerously toxic. They are potentially lethal when taken by mouth, because certain enzymes (in particular, glucosidases that occur in the gut and in various kinds of seeds, edible or inedible) act on them to produce cyanide.[4][5][6][7][8] The promotion of laetrile to treat cancer has been described in the medical literature as a canonical example of quackery,[9][10][11] and as "the slickest, most sophisticated, and certainly the most remunerative cancer quack promotion in medical history.

That being said i agree that giving money isnt teh best solution as these girls will say and do anything, but giving her something that could effectively kill her mom, and sending 100usd for that...in this case maybe giving her 100usd would have been the better option.
my two cents

[MIFAcafe]

Thanks for your concern.....

She wanted VND10 million every month...

Did not want to reveal too much facts, but since you bring it up.....

USD$100 is not what she wanted.

Since I did not have all the facts and she is not willing to show me medical record of her mother.... there is nothing much I can do for her.

Like I say before, I do not know how to love anymore. But if I can help I will; but I do not like to help a liar. (which I hope she is not... but it is up to her to prove it.)

Originally Posted by mutantchicken

That being said i agree that giving money isnt teh best solution as these girls will say and do anything, but giving her something that could effectively kill her mom, and sending 100usd for that...in this case maybe giving her 100usd would have been the better option.
my two cents

[mutantchicken]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

Thanks for your concern.....

She wanted VND10 million every month...

Did not want to reveal too much facts, but since you bring it up.....

USD$100 is not what she wanted.

Since I did not have all the facts and she is not willing to show me medical record of her mother.... there is nothing much I can do for her.

Like I say before, I do not know how to love anymore. But if I can help I will; but I do not like to help a liar. (which I hope she is not... but it is up to her to prove it.)

I totally agree with your assessment, my point is u effectively gave her mother a poison and even spent 100usd for it, in that case its a lose lose if this ends up hurting her mom. It would have been betetr just to give her 100usd, as then sure u lose 100usd but at least she gains something...that being said it would also be foolish to agree to give her 10mill without anything in return, i have had girls ask me for a measily 700k, but without then doing anything for me, i know it is wasted money, often they have bfs already also giving them money....

[Hurricane88]

Chuc mung ngay Quoc Te Phu Nu vui ve 8-3...

Tomorrow international women day...wish and buy present for your beloved...

[Pohchuan]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

Read to 600 pages.

Some of the statement posted are priceless.....
I do not mention the nicks, but thanks for this top 2 priceless quote.

1. In VBs mind Lend and Give has the same meaning.
Hence if your lend VBs money; it is as good as giving it away.

2. VBs are short sighted. Only interested in short term gain.
When they are with you; they count how much they can gain in shortest period of time. They never think about "long term relation or long term gain".

Point 2 is very interesting. If you don'y believe in KARMA, you can play Russian roulette with it. Either she gains financially from you in the shortest possible time or you gain from her physically in the shortest possible time. Who blinks first or who CABUT first. If you can reign in your emotion, there is chance of winning the roulette.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Pohchuan

Point 2 is very interesting. If you don'y believe in KARMA, you can play Russian roulette with it. Either she gains financially from you in the shortest possible time or you gain from her physically in the shortest possible time. Who blinks first or who CABUT first. If you can reign in your emotion, there is chance of winning the roulette.

maybe you are the black sheep among the sinkie men...planting all the seeds in Viet gals and de-flowering V then disappeared to other cities or provinces MIA...hahaha....

if anyone proud of what you had done above as suggested then one day bad karma will befall on you....

above is my personal opinion...not against anyone or Pohchuan who wrote above...nam mo adi da phat...

[MIFAcafe]

Should be more sensible when you post. We are talking about potential life companions here.

There are people whom go around hunting women everywhere in the world, but this is not such a thread to talk about "gaining a girl physically".

Originally Posted by Pohchuan

Point 2 is very interesting. If you don'y believe in KARMA, you can play Russian roulette with it. Either she gains financially from you in the shortest possible time or you gain from her physically in the shortest possible time. Who blinks first or who CABUT first. If you can reign in your emotion, there is chance of winning the roulette.

[MIFAcafe]

http://www.amazon.com/Vitamin-B17-50...owViewpoints=1
Click above for people whom are taking B17 daily.

The B17 I gave away is for my own use as a preventive measure against potential cancer cell.

I did know there a component in B17 that can have small trace of cyanide.
I have been taking B17 for 3 years. And my quarterly medical report did not show I am been poisoned.

Do not want to get into B17 debate as that is not the main point. As she say her mother will not get treatment at all; so no harm trying B17 which I am also eating myself.

If my parents have cancer now; I will let them take B17 also. I will never let them go thru cancer treatment which may still result in death.

Just clarified that I am not trying to kill anyone mother.

Originally Posted by mutantchicken

I totally agree with your assessment, my point is u effectively gave her mother a poison and even spent 100usd for it, in that case its a lose lose if this ends up hurting her mom. It would have been betetr just to give her 100usd, as then sure u lose 100usd but at least she gains something...that being said it would also be foolish to agree to give her 10mill without anything in return, i have had girls ask me for a measily 700k, but without then doing anything for me, i know it is wasted money, often they have bfs already also giving them money....

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by Golden question

I am not pouring cold water at u but I do hope she will last long with u,sorry to say your understanding of them is still not that strong yet

Hope in near future you have free time so that I can jio u out to hear of your understanding