Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[owen10]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Don't scare people lah... Not whole village of people ask for ang pow.
Last time i spend one cny in vn at my wife province. I only give ang pow to her direct family member who are back at the province to celebrate.

Hehehe ... No la ... Cos I didn't hear fr only one friend, but a few, some of whom also have vietnam wives/husbands. Maybe juz coincidence ?

[Kim91]

Originally Posted by owen10

Huh? All my friends with viet wives are not goin back to Vietnam for cny to avoid giving out angpows to a whole village. Yr boy may be happily collecting angpows but yr pocket could end up with a big hole!

haha my face very thick one... I only give direct niecez n nephews n grandparents. .. others bx n me dun give a shit... even when they crowd ard we also not bothered. ..dun ever start giving to otherz relatives. .once u give must always give..Thus we never give b4.

[volcano]

Originally Posted by owen10

Hehehe ... No la ... Cos I didn't hear fr only one friend, but a few, some of whom also have vietnam wives/husbands. Maybe juz coincidence ?

then maybe all ur friend's wife like to show off...

me too never give out much ang pow,only to my MIL,younger BIL and a few nephews and niece..

[damong777]

curious on some points that i need some assistance to understand more

1) does all Viet WL go out with men? or are there really ones that have principles? (see my summary below)
2) does vg mind married sg men? or how big age group? (around 10 years)
2) if they reject offer of money to help sustain her, is it out of pride or she does not like you? Or true concern for your pocket? (talking around 1k)
3) when a vg start to sms or call you ongxa occasionally , is it a good sign or bad sign? (i sometimes call her baxa or ban gai?)

Reason is that i gotten to know a VG who worked in a ktv here, but she is now back in vietnam for tet.

Maybe i KC her too fast in 15 days and because to her, she came to sg to escape from her ex bf who can call her at least 10 times a day and want her to return to his side. And she told me that i was very similar to him. I told her to think it through and let me know whether she wants to be with me.

During the days together, i noticed she has a lot of "loyal customers" who would call or sms her. And got one guy who can send her to work and pick her from work. This really made me ask her on the reason why she went out with me instead of the rest. And she told me it was out of "feel". But i am not sure on how much is a facade? Reason is that when i am at ktv before i start to kc her, i really do not see her going out with people.

And why i gotten so close to her is that she gave up working on certain days or skipped SH to be with me and never ask for money. I did gave her on my own account as i know she need the cash for home. And when she flew off, i also passed some money to her as ang bao for her family. And also bought some CNY goodies for her family

During our recent phone call, she mentioned that she was intending to go to Malaysia to help her cousin at her shop selling soup and working later in a pub at night. When i mentioned that i could help her out financially, she said no. And yet ask me to wait for her in sg via we chat.

Hence my questions above? Or is it a pit for me to step in?

[Kim91]

Originally Posted by damong777

curious on some points that i need some assistance to understand more

1) does all Viet WL go out with men? or are there really ones that have principles? (see my summary below)
2) does vg mind married sg men? or how big age group? (around 10 years)
2) if they reject offer of money to help sustain her, is it out of pride or she does not like you? Or true concern for your pocket? (talking around 1k)
3) when a vg start to sms or call you ongxa occasionally , is it a good sign or bad sign? (i sometimes call her baxa or ban gai?)

Reason is that i gotten to know a VG who worked in a ktv here, but she is now back in vietnam for tet.

Maybe i KC her too fast in 15 days and because to her, she came to sg to escape from her ex bf who can call her at least 10 times a day and want her to return to his side. And she told me that i was very similar to him. I told her to think it through and let me know whether she wants to be with me.

During the days together, i noticed she has a lot of "loyal customers" who would call or sms her. And got one guy who can send her to work and pick her from work. This really made me ask her on the reason why she went out with me instead of the rest. And she told me it was out of "feel". But i am not sure on how much is a facade? Reason is that when i am at ktv before i start to kc her, i really do not see her going out with people.

And why i gotten so close to her is that she gave up working on certain days or skipped SH to be with me and never ask for money. I did gave her on my own account as i know she need the cash for home. And when she flew off, i also passed some money to her as ang bao for her family. And also bought some CNY goodies for her family

During our recent phone call, she mentioned that she was intending to go to Malaysia to help her cousin at her shop selling soup and working later in a pub at night. When i mentioned that i could help her out financially, she said no. And yet ask me to wait for her in sg via we chat.

Hence my questions above? Or is it a pit for me to step in?

1. WL are human too, just that they kc for living. they can chose and have choices. So whether u call it principal or not, I think its perspectives.
2. Whoever give them money, they can chose to like.
2.1 maybe she like u or maybe she trying to kc for more.
3. its part of her job to make customers feel loved.

15days wun shed lights.. only time will tell...

[MIFAcafe]

Originally Posted by damong777

curious on some points that i need some assistance to understand more

1) does all Viet WL go out with men? or are there really ones that have principles? (see my summary below)
2) does vg mind married sg men? or how big age group? (around 10 years)
2) if they reject offer of money to help sustain her, is it out of pride or she does not like you? Or true concern for your pocket? (talking around 1k)
3) when a vg start to sms or call you ongxa occasionally , is it a good sign or bad sign? (i sometimes call her baxa or ban gai?)

Reason is that i gotten to know a VG who worked in a ktv here, but she is now back in vietnam for tet.

Maybe i KC her too fast in 15 days and because to her, she came to sg to escape from her ex bf who can call her at least 10 times a day and want her to return to his side. And she told me that i was very similar to him. I told her to think it through and let me know whether she wants to be with me.

During the days together, i noticed she has a lot of "loyal customers" who would call or sms her. And got one guy who can send her to work and pick her from work. This really made me ask her on the reason why she went out with me instead of the rest. And she told me it was out of "feel". But i am not sure on how much is a facade? Reason is that when i am at ktv before i start to kc her, i really do not see her going out with people.

And why i gotten so close to her is that she gave up working on certain days or skipped SH to be with me and never ask for money. I did gave her on my own account as i know she need the cash for home. And when she flew off, i also passed some money to her as ang bao for her family. And also bought some CNY goodies for her family

During our recent phone call, she mentioned that she was intending to go to Malaysia to help her cousin at her shop selling soup and working later in a pub at night. When i mentioned that i could help her out financially, she said no. And yet ask me to wait for her in sg via we chat.

Hence my questions above? Or is it a pit for me to step in?

I like to start my answer by saying ....... you should believe only 10% what came out from that VB lips.

disclaimers: I am basing my answer on my experience in both Singapore and Ho Chi Minh WL scene since June 2013. (prior to that I am in the Chinese WL scene.)

1) does all Viet WL go out with men? or are there really ones that have principles? (see my summary below)

Did your girl go make love with you. If the answer is yes; what make you think she do not go and make love with other.

You already call her WL, they are trying to make money.
If there is a so call principle.; it may just be "making more in the shortest time".

If they claimed they do not go LT with customers, just assume 90% of them are lying.

2) does vg mind married sg men? or how big age group? (around 10 years)

They can marry you because you can give them money to help her & their family back in VN.

I know some 20ish girl married men in their 50-60s. Hence age is never a condition; money is.

3) if they reject offer of money to help sustain her, is it out of pride or she does not like you? Or true concern for your pocket? (talking around 1k)

Maybe she has deployed this trick successfully in the past. Or she have come across men whom have given her more money when she keep her mouth shut about money.

VBs are more concern with her pocket than your pocket.

When a VB I meet do not talk about money; I will be even more careful dealing with her.

There are good girl that do not ask for money; but I doubt this type of "good girls" ever reach our shoreline. You should go VN and find decent girl.

4) when a vg start to sms or call you ongxa occasionally , is it a good sign or bad sign? (i sometimes call her baxa or ban gai?)

I leave it up to the gals to call whatever she want to call.
When she call Onxa; I usually tell her off by saying....
Onxa baxa di KS LT Ko phai tra tien.

I usually message "em" and I will insist they type "anh".

They are no good or bad sign. They are great pretender, I know a VB whom told me "em yeu anh nhieu nhieu" and our relationship only lasted 5 days.


VBs are great to be with; they are street smart and pretty. However when you hook up with one; you are like playing a game. It can be very frustrating when they keep mentioning father sick mother sick etc. family problems, brother married and no money........

Everything they mentioned always point back to "MONEY".

In this game there are no win win unless you and the girl can stick together long enough and she can understand you more.

Conclusion:
You should read from page 1 of this thread.
You are wasting time on WL, there are good WL but I doubt you are so lucky to hook one.
I wanted to call you an idiot but I refrain myself; since TET coming I want to keep some good karma.

VBs are tough; you should not touch them if you are weak.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by damong777

curious on some points that i need some assistance to understand more

1) does all Viet WL go out with men? or are there really ones that have principles? (see my summary below)
2) does vg mind married sg men? or how big age group? (around 10 years)
2) if they reject offer of money to help sustain her, is it out of pride or she does not like you? Or true concern for your pocket? (talking around 1k)
3) when a vg start to sms or call you ongxa occasionally , is it a good sign or bad sign? (i sometimes call her baxa or ban gai?)

here similar stories...u just need to read and will find other similar cases here been discussed...

http://thesbf.shop/showpos...ostcount=18994
http://thesbf.shop/showthr...wl#post9568139
http://thesbf.shop/showthr...wl#post8172340
http://thesbf.shop/showthr...t=wl&page=1178

and many more...

Let me say this..."if you trust a WL then pigs can climb trees...:"

to me WL are here to earn money and even though they are human but their priorities are not for you...

[damong777]

just letting my thoughts.

I would know that it was a stupid move on my part. anyway we will all grow and learn from it.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by damong777

During our recent phone call, she mentioned that she was intending to go to Malaysia to help her cousin at her shop selling soup and working later in a pub at night.

Go malaysia work? ... Say bye bye to her...

Did you ask her whether she got fxxk with the guy who send to and fetch her from work?

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by damong777

just letting my thoughts.

I would know that it was a stupid move on my part. anyway we will all grow and learn from it.

No move is stupid... Experience it, learn from it

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by damong777

just letting my thoughts.

I would know that it was a stupid move on my part. anyway we will all grow and learn from it.

Nothing is Stupid ...

Feedbacks are given based on what u said ... Exact equations are based on what u feel, only u know ...

To each it's own ...

Grow n learn from it by Spend $ ... Time ... Heart ... Not really that worth it ...

[damong777]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Go malaysia work? ... Say bye bye to her...

Did you ask her whether she got fxxk with the guy who send to and fetch her from work?

actually i did ask.

Anyway told her if she can find more money from someone else; please go ahead

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by damong777

actually i did ask.
Anyway told her if she can find more money from someone else; please go ahead

the fact you asked already proved that you are ready to be told lies...WL need to earn a living...if you had bonked her means she allowed others to bonk her too...why bother to ask a WL if she has other clients...haha...

Brief story...
a WL from a ktv was in the room with my fren...she received wechat msg from her "ongxa"...the ox asked where she was...she told her at home sleeping...then ox dun trust her said wants to do video call...she said no wifi so cannot do video cal...hahaha...morale of story...dun ask and never get lies...")

[MIFAcafe]

A VB I know always told me "ssshhhh" when she use wechat to sent voice message to a Taiwanese guy.

It is an eye opener. She can sent all lies throughout the night. Amazing.

Some example while sleeping beside me...

1. Em benh.
2. Em o nha, ko di lam.
3. Ko co wifi.
4. Ko di lam ko co tien.
5. Nho anh Nhieu, rat buon.


I really give in to the expert liar, and I also have the privilege to listen to the poor guy reply. Poor guy try to be caring and comforting toward this undeserving vb while I Slept with his "so call girlfriend".

[mutantchicken]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

A VB I know always told me "ssshhhh" when she use wechat to sent voice message to a Taiwanese guy.

It is an eye opener. She can sent all lies throughout the night. Amazing.

Some example while sleeping beside me...

1. Em benh.
2. Em o nha, ko di lam.
3. Ko co wifi.
4. Ko di lam ko co tien.
5. Nho anh Nhieu, rat buon.


I really give in to the expert liar, and I also have the privilege to listen to the poor guy reply. Poor guy try to be caring and comforting toward this undeserving vb while I Slept with his "so call girlfriend".

but were you also the one who went to dalat with a ktv girl telling people how much she was genuinely in love with you