Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 1165

KangTuo · #**17461** 20-11-2012, 08:26 AM

Why vb think foreigner are rich? this start from young..

Yesterday play and talk to my 3 year old niece... I asked her if she miss her grandparents in vn. Her reply is that she miss her grandparents in vn and when grow up she will go earn money give her grandparents. I asked if she will give money to her grandparents in sillypore.. she replied that they are rich so don't need give.

I bang wall

vietboy · #**17462** 20-11-2012, 09:08 AM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

I share a post that i posted in our facebook page:

`My bx met a fellow Viet spouse outside the school. They started chatting. She told my bx that her son failed all subjects (English, Chinese and maths) for P2 and she asked my bx what's the results for my twin gals. My bx told her my twins got straight Band 1 for all subjects. She got a shock. My bx asked her what might be her son's problem in school, she said her son told her he doesn't understand what the teacher is teaching. As they continued the conversation, my bx understood what's the problem. She has been conversing to her son in Tieng Viet since he was borned. The son only spoke a bit of mandarin to the Singaporean father. My bx advised her to speak to her son in mandarin and she started to blar blar, saying her mandarin no good and since she is vietnamese, her son should speak tieng viet. She even said if school offered Tieng Viet to replace English and mandarin, her son sure score well. Troi oi !'

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

Why vb think foreigner are rich? this start from young..

Yesterday play and talk to my 3 year old niece... I asked her if she miss her grandparents in vn. Her reply is that she miss her grandparents in vn and when grow up she will go earn money give her grandparents. I asked if she will give money to her grandparents in sillypore.. she replied that they are rich so don't need give.

I bang wall

Examples of lack of proper education for both the adult n child. Haiz...

KT, u talk to her in TV or?

SingViet · #**17463** 20-11-2012, 09:56 AM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

Why vb think foreigner are rich? this start from young..

Yesterday play and talk to my 3 year old niece... I asked her if she miss her grandparents in vn. Her reply is that she miss her grandparents in vn and when grow up she will go earn money give her grandparents. I asked if she will give money to her grandparents in sillypore.. she replied that they are rich so don't need give.

I bang wall

This is the way Viets are brained washed since young. The way they are brained washed will ensure that future generation will continue to bring in the $$$ to them, so that they need not work or need not work so hard. I remember my wife told me about an article she read on the top leaders asking viets not to forget about their roots and to always have `close relations' with their viet relatives, no matter where they are in the world. On the surface, it sounds perfectly fine, but if you start to think of how their society values have evolved, you will be able to read what message is sent across. Maybe i should go VN to start Western Union agent office. hihihi

Kim91 · #**17464** 20-11-2012, 10:17 AM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

my bro child also sillyporean but travel with bro wife in/out vn with vn passport

I didnt know our children can hold two passport too.thot only PR can . Cos default citizen liao cant escape liao.. Thats something new

Hurricane88 · #**17465** 20-11-2012, 10:17 AM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

This is the way Viets are brained washed since young. The way they are brained washed will ensure that future generation will continue to bring in the $$$ to them, so that they need not work or need not work so hard.
hihihi

I also started brain washing them...asking them dun ask me for money...only love me and give me money...haha...

KangTuo · #**17466** 20-11-2012, 10:19 AM

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Originally Posted by vietboy

KT, u talk to her in TV or?

i talk to her in TV...

she know i know TV so she talk to me in TV
she know my parents don't know TV so talk to them in english

she is now the translator in the house between my bx and my mum

KangTuo · #**17467** 20-11-2012, 10:24 AM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

This is the way Viets are brained washed since young

this is true .... very true... if you do talk to small kids in vn, alot will reply you that the grow up they wanna earn money for their parents, build house for their parents...

nothing wrong with being filial piety ...

jackbl · #**17468** 20-11-2012, 11:18 AM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

Yesterday play and talk to my 3 year old niece... I asked her if she miss her grandparents in vn. Her reply is that she miss her grandparents in vn and when grow up she will go earn money give her grandparents.

I see they are also quite rich leh....

repsoi · #**17469** 20-11-2012, 01:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Spectrre

What if a wl is willing to fork out her money for your expenses and hotel stay while in singapore?

This is a 100% true story, May my whole family be cursed if this is untrue cause to bros out there, this may seem like a fairy tale.

Boy A met this WL when chionging KTV. First time saw this WL being book by his friend, neh neh also being squeeze by his fren. NVM. Cause only another vietnam lady.

2nd day, Boy A go same KTV and saw this WL again. Boy A remember her cause previous night got some small talk, so ask her sit down and talk to her as his fren not here yet. Boy A learnt that last night this WL want for ST with his fren. Well, Boy A's Fren never come so whole night, Boy A try to KC the WL and managed to jio WL to ON. Nothing special ON, shoot 3 times, then pay the WL SGD100 only...

3rd night and so forth, every night WL will call Boy A and almost every night, will go hotel ON for free, Boy A only pay hotel charges.

And so come this fateful day, Boy A on Leave, this WL call and ask Boy A to go out. Boy A say no money, and this WL say she paid for everything, is SGD300 enough?

So they went to book hotel, buy Bak Gua, eat frog leg porridge, everything the WL pay. I swear this is the truth.

So from that night onwards, everytime they go hotel or eat, the WL will pay. WL will work and then after work, use money earn to go out with Boy A.

So one day WL say no money sent home so Boy A give SGD500 to WL, but take note that previous outing and hotel stay already exceeded SGD500.

Last day, WL no money go home, so ask customer wan ON or not? Boy A not happy but dare not say cause he know he no money give WL. WL notice Boy A sadness and never go out with the customer for ON, despite she no money go home. Whole night, the 2 of them spent the night at Macdonald Bugis sleeping at the table.

WL go back, Boy A go Vietnam find her, then decided to get married. So arranged ROM singapore and come back get married. Boy A allow WL to work after marriage and allow ON and ST.

Boy A's family like WL, and there is no unhappiness between them, but due to transport problem, Boy A and WL move out to a rented house. It was at that time that Boy A got retrenched. WL never leave Boy A, instead go out working and use her own hard earned money to pay room rental and everyday expenses. Boy A in the meantime look for job.

Things that happen during their stay in the rented room. Boy A got into some serious argument with family. Boy A Mama come find WL, and talk nicely to the WL. WL go home scold Boy A to apologize to Mama.
No matter what happen, Boy A is always the first priority, even before her family in vietnam. Boy A go borrow money from licensed money lender because really need money to sent to her home, cause 2 month she come here, never even sent a single cent back, and WL's mama and children stay in HCM, house rental SGD200. That time, for 2 months only sent back SGD350.

WL tell Boy A everything, including sms, who sit with her, and let Boy A see all her customer, secretly of cuz. Sometimes, Boy A even sms customer on her behalf.

So now they have move back to Boy A's house, and after a few months of financial insecurities, they are still together and still very loving. And WL is still working, at the same time do housework, cook for Boy A's family before going to work. (Most of the time.) And everytime goes out with Mama, WL pay for food most of the time. So right now situation is like this. Will update even more in the future as this is a true story and is still ongoing.

So bros of this forum, did Boy A strike TOTO by getting to know such a WL and having her as his BX?

if all written is true then its very lucky.

SingViet · #**17470** 20-11-2012, 03:59 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

this is true .... very true... if you do talk to small kids in vn, alot will reply you that the grow up they wanna earn money for their parents, build house for their parents...

nothing wrong with being filial piety ...

yes nothing wrong with that. Then will you want your daughter to become WL to earn money to buy house for you?

Honey Boon · #**17471** 20-11-2012, 04:30 PM

this one not easy... but still need to try very hard

tell them, I have money, but I don't want to use money to buy your love. When too much money involved, I can't see clearly you love me or you love my money....

so better.... be patience, prove to me first that you love me and not my money... then finally I will give you my love and my money...

don't know talk like that, can work or not?

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

I also started brain washing them...asking them dun ask me for money...only love me and give me money...haha...

Honey Boon · #**17472** 20-11-2012, 04:32 PM

vietnam version of 养儿防老。。。。

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

this is true .... very true... if you do talk to small kids in vn, alot will reply you that the grow up they wanna earn money for their parents, build house for their parents...

nothing wrong with being filial piety ...

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Originally Posted by SingViet

yes nothing wrong with that. Then will you want your daughter to become WL to earn money to buy house for you?

KangTuo · #**17473** 20-11-2012, 04:50 PM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

yes nothing wrong with that. Then will you want your daughter to become WL to earn money to buy house for you?

i will be having a son

i will guide junior KT the way to kc and educate the WL

KangTuo · #**17474** 20-11-2012, 04:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Honey Boon

so better.... be patience, prove to me first that you love me and not my money... then finally I will give you my love and my money...

don't know talk like that, can work or not?

you are the master in this... you say can means can

shysaint · #**17475** 20-11-2012, 09:56 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

Why vb think foreigner are rich? this start from young..

Yesterday play and talk to my 3 year old niece... I asked her if she miss her grandparents in vn. Her reply is that she miss her grandparents in vn and when grow up she will go earn money give her grandparents. I asked if she will give money to her grandparents in sillypore.. she replied that they are rich so don't need give.

I bang wall

hahahhah ... classic

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

i will be having a son

i will guide junior KT the way to kc and educate the WL

Congrats congrats congrats