Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Honey Boon]

wonder the Samurai double still available?

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Regular? can up size?

[siamloverboy]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

yes...go down to ICA to apply for her visa...bring all her and her baby particulars...if she is caught and deported previously...the ban may be longer than 1 year...

if you need anymore advice, please post in this thread... http://thesbf.shop/showthr...179936&page=94

Thanks Bro Hurricane for your advice. Will do that. Thanks again.

[Hurricane88]

I re-post from HCM thread...

Originally Posted by XXSillyporean

I knew my wife from JC. We'r married for >7 years. I bought her an apartment in HCM after birth of our son then her attitude changes, keep wanting to go HCM to seek opportunities. I thought if she is able to bring $ home-good, thus let her continue her frequent trips home.

In few months, she took 700 mil D from me for investment & now disappeared with our son in HCM.

Ironically, she even changed the locks to our apartment. Years of marriage wins my trust for her. Yet when I believe she is the one for me forever, started to share $, everything falls within months.

I've spent a lot on lawyers , they are good-for-nothing, only send letters here & there.

• I seek a reliable Xe Om to bring me ard daily.
• I seek people to nego/snatch my son back. Her father & I have had several fights when I approached.
  CONG AN is not of much use since my wife is bio mother of my son.

your story is not new...i heard this too many times when foreigner marry a Viet and buy properties in Vietnam using her name...I am not surprised she may had sold the apartment...

seriously there is nothing you can do to her...the law protects her...if you want your son back...best chance is to find a PI to do so...get both Sinkie and Viet PI to work separately...you may still be able to find your son back...

Another case of WL in sinkie married a sinkie man kena con...but took 7 yrs...

[FireShark]

[QUOTE=XXSillyporean;8170793]I knew my wife from JC. We'r married for >7 years. I bought her an apartment in HCM after birth of our son then her attitude changes, keep wanting to go HCM to seek opportunities. I thought if she is able to bring $ home-good, thus let her continue her frequent trips home.

In few months, she took 700 mil D from me for investment & now disappeared with our son in HCM.

Ironically, she even changed the locks to our apartment. Years of marriage wins my trust for her. Yet when I believe she is the one for me forever, started to share $, everything falls within months.

I've spent a lot on lawyers , they are good-for-nothing, only send letters here & there.

Sorry to heard that dude.

Let me see that one of my good friend could help if you need a PI Lucklily his ex wife didnt cheat his $ but just bring her daughter back vn due to arguement and she ask for divorce. Thus, in the end, my friend engage a PI in viet to search them. 1st PI waste of $$ and 2nd PI really do his job within 1 weeks that PI manage to find out where she stayed and brought my friend there. Although now they are still together, but my friend had kept the birth cert and passport in a safe.

Although there are many bad stories about VB but I had also heard about good one. Just don't give them too much $.

[FireShark]

Dear all

Just for you info, if you had VB working in spore for the next 2 weeks, ask them to be careful during Thurs, Frid and Sat as there will be raid. Cong An had raided for the past 3 weeks and they will continue to raid until 22 Dec.

[Hurricane88]

I admire those samsters namely XXSillyporean and sanitsrsaf who openly admitted their failed marriage here...we just need more of these ppl to come here to share their experiences so that all readers will learned...

these 2 failed marriages are again linked to former WLs working here...these shall add to my hatred for WLs who came here to con men money...

my famous quote..."if you trust WLs then pigs can climb trees..."

also for those whose marriage still going strong...wish you all the happiness...

[Santaclaws]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

i am sorry if what i write here later will hurt your feelings but I apolgised to you in advance...need to highlight this as a typical sinkie man fell in love of WL and then this problem exist...

I am very negative about WLs in Sinkie land...the VBs are here to earn money and they will not care about you...after they married they expect to have good life and will not share the burden with you...this is why I had written since 5 yrs ago to forget about the VBs who came here to be whores and to con men money...sad to say many sinkie men still fell for such WLs...tell me what love is blind and small head taken over big head...all this are rubbish...dun waste time wooing after the WLs who came here to earn men monies...go to Vietnam to find decent Viet gal who can be better wife...of course you need to invest time and money to do such thing...to me gamble in marriage over 1 year courtship is not enough...needs longer to see a person clearly...i will say anything longer than 2 yrs and during this courtship make sure you travel frequently to Vietnam to see her and family...learn their culture and see for yorself...read this thread from front to back...and then follow this thread daily...you will not know what you are missing if you dun do so...of course there are some WLs who are special to some men here...I heard enough of the 98% to be sad cases...

女人变坏就有钱， 男人有钱就变坏 。 VBs who worked in this line have already become bad whereas poor guys like me can sill have chance to be good

Chk out this variety show, gives alot of insight on love. Especially after the 1hr part where the guy got cheated by the PRC hooker.

[Kim91]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

I re-post from HCM thread...



your story is not new...i heard this too many times when foreigner marry a Viet and buy properties in Vietnam using her name...I am not surprised she may had sold the apartment...

seriously there is nothing you can do to her...the law protects her...if you want your son back...best chance is to find a PI to do so...get both Sinkie and Viet PI to work separately...you may still be able to find your son back...

Another case of WL in sinkie married a sinkie man kena con...but took 7 yrs...

Sorry first...Actually alot of time what we heard is the man's side of story... Could it be the ox did something wrong that the bx run road?? I just being rational n impartial here... I'm sure there's bx who knows their ox still 'steal eat' but closed an eye....

[Kim91]

Originally Posted by Santaclaws

女人变坏就有钱， 男人有钱就变坏 。 VBs who worked in this line have already become bad whereas poor guys like me can sill have chance to be good

Chk out this variety show, gives alot of insight on love. Especially after the 1hr part where the guy got cheated by the PRC hooker.

Nice... fierce...

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by Kim91

Sorry first...Actually alot of time what we heard is the man's side of story... Could it be the ox did something wrong that the bx run road?? I just being rational n impartial here... I'm sure there's bx who knows their ox still 'steal eat' but closed an eye....

are u refering to bro KT

Bro KT,mai angry huh,joke joke only

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by Kim91

Sorry first...Actually alot of time what we heard is the man's side of story... Could it be the ox did something wrong that the bx run road?? I just being rational n impartial here... I'm sure there's bx who knows their ox still 'steal eat' but closed an eye....

Did the man do enough to 'protect' himself from getting cheated?

Did the man understand more about her before marry?

Did the man know the pro/con especially for marry a vietnamese?

Did the man take care of her especially her feeling after marry or just want to marry 1 for sex or just for companion?

Did the man learn more about vietnamese culture or just think after marry everything will be smooth?

The list go longer and longer

Pls for all SG man,ask yourself all this before u blame your vietnamese spouse.There is always good and bad apple but nobody force u to buy,u can choose to wait and see whether got good one next time or not.

Dont ever think young,pretty with hot figure,peel for u prawn shells,call u ox,say she miss u,etc etc etc etc and think marry is an easy thing.

Is never never easy and much much more tough than dating

[Kim91]

Originally Posted by Golden question

are u refering to bro KT

Bro KT,mai angry huh,joke joke only

Troi oi.. Bro GP, Mai anyhow arrow leh.. I'm just saying an eg that lead to divorce.. Not only for vb... For vb, divorce will be more ugly as the bx most prob will go back vn and the couple will have alot to split be it finance, property n kids in both sides...
For eg the story bro H88 posted, 7yrs to con a men is too long, i felt its not a con case but a divorce that turn ugly.. N what causes the split only he knows..

[XXSillyporean]

I was searching for clue/proof and found some Western Union transfer slips, a J.J.Tan has transferred 10 trieu - 17 trieu VND to her more than one time over a period of a few years between 2008 - 2011.

Who is J.J.Tan? Hope he is one of the samsters in forum and we can clear some shit! Maybe another cheongster from JC (back in 2004)?!

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by Kim91

Troi oi.. Bro GP, Mai anyhow arrow leh.. I'm just saying an eg that lead to divorce.. Not only for vb... For vb, divorce will be more ugly as the bx most prob will go back vn and the couple will have alot to split be it finance, property n kids in both sides...
For eg the story bro H88 posted, 7yrs to con a men is too long, i felt its not a con case but a divorce that turn ugly.. N what causes the split only he knows..

ai ya i mean only the 'steal eat' part lah

[FireShark]

Originally Posted by Golden question

Did the man do enough to 'protect' himself from getting cheated?

Did the man understand more about her before marry?

Did the man know the pro/con especially for marry a vietnamese?

Did the man take care of her especially her feeling after marry or just want to marry 1 for sex or just for companion?

Did the man learn more about vietnamese culture or just think after marry everything will be smooth?

The list go longer and longer

Pls for all SG man,ask yourself all this before u blame your vietnamese spouse.There is always good and bad apple but nobody force u to buy,u can choose to wait and see whether got good one next time or not.

Dont ever think young,pretty with hot figure,peel for u prawn shells,call u ox,say she miss u,etc etc etc etc and think marry is an easy thing.

Is never never easy and much much more tough than dating

Agree with Golden

Like me, I had one BX Chua which I intended to marry but unfortunately, she make me too disappointed. Too possesive. Everywhere I go, must check. I admit i do flirt around once in while but that was just flirting. I didnt do any wrong behind her back until one day I was so pissed of with her. I taught her how to use Facebook and yahoo messenger. She went to the extend and msg to all my friend in facebook. Asking who are they related to me. Some of them are even her friends. I got fed up and didnt want to her for a while and she kept calling me during my office hours and night. In the end, I got warning letter from the company and finally got sacked by the management due to too many calls during my working time.

I break off with her saying that I had some others VB outside and saying that I cant tolerate anymore. Today, I still love her in my heart but i still cant forget what she did to me.

Understanding them is very important and you also need them to understand you too. If not there are too many problems and arguement in the future.

There are still many good VB which I had seen but there are also many bad VB too.

I had one em gai went out with a one of her new customer. Thinking that the customer is reliable, went to hotel overnight. The next day when my em gai wanna to go home and ask him for money, the customer told her that he dont feel shiok to pay and threathen her to report to police. My em gai was so scared that he ran away without taking her shoe.

Another story which I heard from my ex. One of her friends went hotel with one customer, in the end, the VB got drug by the customers and all her belonging like bag, passport, walllet is all missing. Wake up without any $ and had to ask for help from her sisters to bring her back cos the hotel ask her to up as she oversleep for 2 hours.