Events In CP

[pting]

Originally Posted by krone

I think this way still need to clear custom by foot... Only way to skip the long queues is by taking the direct train from Kowloon to CP train station as far as I know...

If we take the direct train from Kowloon to CP or the other way round, do we clear immigration at the boarding and alighting train station instead?

[khyber_pass]

thanks to metalblow for the pdf. sharing an excerpt everyone wont find unfamiliar!

Commodifying Intimacy and Romance

Huang was married to an urban man but still slipped out to do hostessing.
She said that she was despised because of her rural background, and everyone
in his family treated her as a domestic maid. As a result, she secretly
worked as a hostess to earn her own income, and hence her independence,
worth, and self-esteem.

Hostess Hua said to me, “I would rather be a mistress [qingren] than
a wife [airen].” I asked her why. She said, “Because I can get much more
by being a mistress [zuo qingren dedao de gengduo].” She commented:

What good does love do? What’s the use of it [ai you sha yong ya]? Can
you eat it or drink it [ai nengchi haishi neng he ya] ? If a man does not give
me money and only says he loves me, I don’t want this kind of love.
What’s the use of such a man? If I want sex, I am not looking for you. So
many men are waiting in line. I am still young and have my capital
[ziben]. How can I give it to you without any remuneration? I will not be
able to say this when I grow old, but at least at this moment I can choose
and select. If you don’t give me money, only talk love and try to take
advantage of me, I will never let you get me. I will tempt you—I will kiss
you and hug you to the extent that you cannot stand it, but I will not let
you get me. I will make you want to touch me, but I will not allow you to
touch me; even if you succeed in touching me, you cannot get me. Until
you pay out of your pocket.

Commodifying romance and intimacy is the pervading discourse in the
hostesses’ coterie. Hostesses feign intimacy and romance with clients and
men in general to obtain financial security. By feigning this closeness,
hostesses are commodifying not only the physical aspect of intimacy such
as sexual contact but also the emotional aspects of intimacy, including
devotion, care, considerateness, trust, intimate exchanges, emotional en -
gagement, and love.

Hostess Lin talked about her former hostess friend Fang who exited
hostessing and enjoyed the life of being a “second wife.” Fang worked for
an insurance company during the daytime. According to Lin, insurance
companies did not demand any educational or professional background,
nor did they pay any monthly income. Employees had to earn their own
income by selling insurance policies. Lin said, “Fang joined the company
in order to get closer to the powerful men there. Every day she dressed
up very womanly [hen nu ren] and appeared very gentle and pure in front
of the boss”; with these words, Lin was mimicking Fang’s demeanor, casting
her eyes down and looking very subservient. She continued, “She
had the techniques to convey her devotion and romantic feelings to the
boss. She finally succeeded in hooking up with him and became his second
wife.” Needless to say, with her changed status, she obtained financial
mobility.

In order to increase the appearance of intimacy and romance, hostesses
called their client or nonclient boyfriends “husbands” (laogong). This was
tinged with a coquettish, delicate, and charming tone. They commented
that such an intimate and romantic address intoxicated men so much that
they immediately “forgot who they were and were easily conquered.” Most
important, this appellation changed the nature of the relationship and
reshaped it from an economic transaction into an intimate husband-wife
exchange. The reconfigured intimacy instigated men’s feelings of responsibility,
the same kind of responsibility that they carried for their own wives,
such as taking care of them in financial and living terms and protecting
them in dangerous and risky circumstances. Thus the intimate address of
“husband” shrinks the distance and draws the two parties together.

Hostesses also conveyed their devotion to their lovers by obeying the
men’s demands. As illustrated above, once they set up a semipermanent or
permanent relationship with a client lover, they promised to be faithful
and not go out with others. Oftentimes, clients sent their friends to test
the hostesses, in which case the hostesses needed to prove their loyalty
and fidelity through refusal of other men’s sexual advances. Hostesses also
catered to their client lovers’ tastes in their appearance. Hostess Teng’s
lover did not like her doing her hair up, because, in his terms, “you looked
too loose [tai sao] with your hair up.” So every time they had a date, she
would let her hair down to please him. Most important, she wanted to
convey the message to him that she cared about his opinions. Hostesses
also accompanied their lovers on business trips and to business banquets.

When their lovers were absent, they would call to remind them that
they loved them and were missing them. However, the frequency and content
of the calling posed another intractable issue. As the hostesses told
me, they should call but never too much. Ling said, “You cannot give him
the wrong impression—that you are totally dependent on him—because
then he would get scared and leave you. When calling, you have to make
him feel like you are always busy, you are not just sitting there waiting
for him to come, you have many things to do, yet you still miss him and
love him.” Ling had been expecting her client lover for a whole week, but
when calling him, she said, “I love you and I miss you very much, but if
you are busy, you don’t have to come.” In the end, her client lover came
by and took her on a four-day tourist trip to many scenic spots. She said
she had a wonderful time. Before he left, he gave her another 3,000 yuan.
Ling’s carefully rehearsed phone calls not only conveyed her devotion
despite her “busy schedule,” but also expressed her understanding of his
work. She knew that her techniques worked, when he came to spend four
days with her and left her a handsome amount of money. She compared
dealing with men to flying a kite: “You cannot hold on to it too tight, but
not too loose either.”

In karaoke rooms, hostesses sang romantic songs insinuating or, at
times, expressing boldly their romantic feelings toward the men. They also
exhibited their love through physical contact. In the karaoke rooms, they
gently massaged the men’s back and chest, resting their heads on the men’s
shoulders, singing songs when gazing at the men, or shedding bitter, sad,
or happy tears, depending on the nature of the intricate relationship
between the two, kissing the men’s cheeks or lips, sitting on their laps and
embracing their heads and shoulders, dancing with their bodies together
(tie mian wu), embracing their waist intimately, and so on. Sometimes the
aggressive ones would even grasp the men’s penis or pull down their pants
to invite more sexual intimacy and physical contact, depending on the men’s propensities. They also indicated their devotion to the men through
serving them food and drinks, peeling fruit skins or melon seeds, and feeding
them what they liked.

[krone]

Originally Posted by pting

If we take the direct train from Kowloon to CP or the other way round, do we clear immigration at the boarding and alighting train station instead?

Yep u clear immigration at the train station instead so those whose passport will be checked better not go by this way as the chop will say entry via 常平 haha..

[TonyCheong]

Originally Posted by krone

Yep u clear immigration at the train station instead so those whose passport will be checked better not go by this way as the chop will say entry via 常平 haha..

Yah if girlfriend or wife saw this stamp chop hong kan liao!

[lacoruna69]

Originally Posted by RotiPrata Man

I think my last trip all my 3 nights mm are from wechat. What I did was i add them during my previous trip then slowly qc until left 3 gals..then arrange to meet them 1 day after another one of them is a Dj then one more is not working and the last one was a ktv gal..

You are right. Wechat is really very powder-ful

want to check whether worth going for previous kc or find new ones.

previous kc are like those who give you memorable time from previous trips...then you contact them directly when u go cp....

will they take for granted with lesser service?

[pting]

Originally Posted by krone

Yep u clear immigration at the train station instead so those whose passport will be checked better not go by this way as the chop will say entry via 常平 haha..

K, thanks for the valuable info.

[krone]

Originally Posted by lacoruna69

want to check whether worth going for previous kc or find new ones.

previous kc are like those who give you memorable time from previous trips...then you contact them directly when u go cp....

will they take for granted with lesser service?

This is probably akin to saying every fruit in a basket will taste exactly the same... When it comes to this, sometimes it really is hard to say. Some might some might not... But I guess the easiest way to assure that they will take good care of u is by making sure u take good care of them... If u can $ati$fy them then they will most probably also do their part to make sure u are sextified be it in kc or on the bed...

[krone]

Originally Posted by pting

K, thanks for the valuable info.

No worries, the first time I took that train I also didn't know.. Nobody told me and I was laughing to myself when I saw the chop "常平” on my passport... So bros who will kena check better steer clear of this way...

[TigerGuy]

Originally Posted by khyber_pass

welcome!


yes airport is 190HKD. the rest (majority) is 90HKD.


yes need to clear foot. my experience is taking morning bus 7-10am from hk, the queue at custom (shenzhenwan) is light. perhaps other bros can advise their experience, so can find out what works best in a situation given the variety of tpt options.

up +9 for your info

[travelcraze88]

Originally Posted by khyber_pass

resourceful

It prompt us to SMS to a 14xxxxxxx number.

Do not seem to be a local number.

Is there a charge or something ?

[RotiPrata Man]

Originally Posted by lacoruna69

want to check whether worth going for previous kc or find new ones.

previous kc are like those who give you memorable time from previous trips...then you contact them directly when u go cp....

will they take for granted with lesser service?

We are man right and man like to conquer new pussies But do keep your kc as reserve squad.

I don't think kc will give u less service when u repeat them. Most of the time is us who will be sian becos no 新鲜感..

[khyber_pass]

u mean to dl the pdf?

perhaps can ask the bro who uploaded to megaupload ... it is quite tricky to dl from the website

Originally Posted by travelcraze88

It prompt us to SMS to a 14xxxxxxx number.

Do not seem to be a local number.

Is there a charge or something ?

[metalblow]

Originally Posted by travelcraze88

It prompt us to SMS to a 14xxxxxxx number.

Do not seem to be a local number.

Is there a charge or something ?

bro you having trouble downloading?

I just tried the link, 'Direct Download' works fine for me.

Do you need me to upload to other file host?

[Allanooi]

Originally Posted by metalblow

bro you having trouble downloading?

I just tried the link, 'Direct Download' works fine for me.

Do you need me to upload to other file host?

Bro kum siah u pls do upload to other file host...

[metalblow]

Originally Posted by Allanooi

Bro kum siah u pls do upload to other file host...

链接：http://pan.baidu.com/s/1hq5LAQw 密码：p174

Not sure if password is needed, but list here just in case.