Events In CP

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by adidas88

back to sillypore after spending 10 days in DG ...
get to meet up with the taikors .... vertu, FGG, waikeekee and 爺爺 PTR ..

busy trip for me as i travel up and down to GZ & SZ for most of my trips ...

on my last nite in CP ... i decided to pay miraton hotel sauna a visit ...
i think i've only been to miraton sauna once, a few yrs ago, in all my trips to CP and staying in this hotel all the time ...

Brother,

All good things must to an end. I had the same feeling five days ago....

You are good in giving me new title. Now you call me 爺爺
I wonder what title you will give me next time!

Oh yes, we were together in Miraton Hotel, why you did not bring me there to enjoy as you did. Sigh.... Because I am an old man?

I am back in China since yesterday in the South also ....hahaha.....

[TonyCheong]

Originally Posted by 1nottiboy

It's freaking COLD in CP!!! and some of the hotels have really poor heating. I am never gonna come in winter ever again

Yes it's 6°C now at 4:05am.
The lowest I've seen in Dec/Jan.
I feel the winter in 2012/2013 is a bit colder than 2011/2012.

After going through many winters here I've more or less gotten used to it.
You just have to put on thermal clothing.

Originally Posted by adidas88

taikor ..... liddat u must try miraton sauna ......
30mins on the water bed and u're not gonna feel any coldness becoz of the heat generating ceiling lights they've installed inside the bathroom ....
even after getting off the water bed when the gal will give u a standing wash down ... u will not feel cold at all ....

Yes correct.

[aakumu]

Hi bro,
Sorry to hijack to thread for a while.
I have been to CP for about 4 to 5 years,
The one thing I learn is that, no matter how much you want to built a relationship with a meimei in CP, it normally will not work out...99%....not a 100%....thank goodness.
I have seen relationship got started well and end badly; I was wondering if the meimei from the get go are out for your money or the are influenced by their sisters with bad habits....
I had seen many of my bros take meimei under their arms, and some were taken for a ride from the get go..., others have been cheated very well and the end of the day they themselves did not know what hit them...
These are quite common, and understandable, plus you can sometimes see it coming, the most frustrated part is when the meimei start out fine and start to ask for thing and money at a exponentially quick rate....
It boggles the mind how they could change so fast; could it be that their sisters told to get more from their man, or maybe the could not hold their wished back to grab as much money as possible.....
Appreciated so sound advice, as I am at a lost.

My humble two cents.

[sheridan]

Originally Posted by aakumu

Hi bro,
Sorry to hijack to thread for a while.
I have been to CP for about 4 to 5 years,
The one thing I learn is that, no matter how much you want to built a relationship with a meimei in CP, it normally will not work out...99%....not a 100%....thank goodness.
I have seen relationship got started well and end badly; I was wondering if the meimei from the get go are out for your money or the are influenced by their sisters with bad habits....
I had seen many of my bros take meimei under their arms, and some were taken for a ride from the get go..., others have been cheated very well and the end of the day they themselves did not know what hit them...
These are quite common, and understandable, plus you can sometimes see it coming, the most frustrated part is when the meimei start out fine and start to ask for thing and money at a exponentially quick rate....
It boggles the mind how they could change so fast; could it be that their sisters told to get more from their man, or maybe the could not hold their wished back to grab as much money as possible.....
Appreciated so sound advice, as I am at a lost.

My humble two cents.

bro,

If you compared 99% of the gals in CP with those gals who come to our shore, you will find CP gals' tactic rated at most as semi-pro

If you or your firends were into baoing CP gals, make sure you have the time to play. It's useless if otherwise.

Normally I will pay 100 or 200 more if the gal impresses me with good service or good chemistry
cheers

[Vertu]

Originally Posted by aakumu

Hi bro,
Sorry to hijack to thread for a while.
I have been to CP for about 4 to 5 years,
The one thing I learn is that, no matter how much you want to built a relationship with a meimei in CP, it normally will not work out...99%....not a 100%....thank goodness.
I have seen relationship got started well and end badly; I was wondering if the meimei from the get go are out for your money or the are influenced by their sisters with bad habits....
I had seen many of my bros take meimei under their arms, and some were taken for a ride from the get go..., others have been cheated very well and the end of the day they themselves did not know what hit them...
These are quite common, and understandable, plus you can sometimes see it coming, the most frustrated part is when the meimei start out fine and start to ask for thing and money at a exponentially quick rate....
It boggles the mind how they could change so fast; could it be that their sisters told to get more from their man, or maybe the could not hold their wished back to grab as much money as possible.....
Appreciated so sound advice, as I am at a lost.

My humble two cents.

Let me copy these from a mm QQ and show to all bro here .....and i am 99.9% sure if we know the mm in CP .

男人请你明白，我追求的是钱，你给我足够的钱，我不会因为你去找女人而生气。假如我追求的是爱，你给我足够 的爱，我也不会因为你没钱而看不起你。问题是我要的爱，时间你无法给我，你我的年龄，生活也差太多了，不和 你讲钱的话我无法和你走下去。。。

[Vertu]

Originally Posted by sheridan

bro,

If you compared 99% of the gals in CP with those gals who come to our shore, you will find CP gals' tactic rated at most as semi-pro

If you or your firends were into baoing CP gals, make sure you have the time to play. It's useless if otherwise.

Normally I will pay 100 or 200 more if the gal impresses me with good service or good chemistry
cheers

Totally agreed on these ....

Baoing gals in CP is for those multi rich ...

Even i do have gals which i know for years wanted to be with me without demanding any monthly fee , i also rejected their offer as i wont know and cant read what is their plan later .

with my 2 regular who did not demand any money from me, i always hear many of their story about we man stupidly spending money on them .

Every time i visit CP , i do it this way . Will inform which day i will be in but telling them i might not have time for them , max would be 1 night each cos both of them know each other. Spend some happy time with them , pay them a little more extra than normal rate .... that it !

Dont you guys agreed that each month you will find new gems .... new target .... new play ground . So whats the point of baoing ? Solely yours ? Fat hope!

Dont commitment on monthly fee and when you give them extra on that visit , they will feel lagi happy.

[SEAJ]

Originally Posted by aakumu

.........
The one thing I learn is that, no matter how much you want to built a relationship with a meimei in CP, it normally will not work out...99%....not a 100%....thank goodness.
...........
It boggles the mind how they could change so fast; could it be that their sisters told to get more from their man, or maybe the could not hold their wished back to grab as much money as possible.....
Appreciated so sound advice, as I am at a lost.

Firstly, most "relationships" in CP starts off based upon $$ changing hands - so one can only expect that $$ is in the back ground at all times. Not realistic to expect that the girl will have a change of her heart/her actual motive in coming over to CP - that is to make as much money as possible using her body. Whether doing it per time, taking on semi long "assignments" with clients who wants to spend their time in CP with them, by being actually Bao'd, by coming up with elaborate scams, cons...whatever.

And there is a variety of reason why and how a gal will "progress" in her pursuit of $$ when you're in a relationship with her; from learning from her friends, from being jealous of how some of her friends are being treated by their patrons compared to how you are with her, from demands (continual or emergency) from her family, from realizing that her own youth is slowly but surely being wasted on a relationship that has no future - again whatever - and not really important for you to understand/care about - just that it surely does happen!!

Remember, she had all along resigned herself to selling her body for $$$ and that is not something she easily forgets; yeah, maybe at the beginning she may just let herself slip a bit and also enjoy the light and music and romance of the relationship - but the cold stark reminder of reality always comes back to her.

My advise and how I usually handle this - go right ahead and enjoy such "romances" to the full. Enjoy the fluttering heart, the light, the music of love to the hilt...FOR THE MOMENT.... but ALWAYS have it at the back of your mind that the relationship IS based upon $$ changing hands. Remind yourself this and even remind her too - for on the off chance that she gets caught up in the whole thing herself/forgets her real purpose, that she will not be unnecessarily hurt too.

Just my POV
SEAJ

[Icemanlow]

Originally Posted by aakumu

Hi bro,
Appreciated so sound advice, as I am at a lost.

My humble two cents.

There can be many reasons why a gal attitude changed... some examples:

1. It's part of their plan... it's call 放长线钓大鱼... if you play with feeling, this usually hurts the most...

2. Along the way, they become greedy and expectation increase ... maybe they know that you are rich

3. They got influence by their sisters, the fact that you will never really love her... so dun be stupid to commit to one guy... get as most $$ out from him as possible while he still love you...

4. She found out that you are playing with other gals... so she decided to take revenge by squeezing you dry... I have seen this before...

There are of course many other reasons.

Experience cheongsters will cheong with $$, while younger cheongsters will tend to put in more "real" feeling, as they really enjoy that kind of romance with the gal... Nothing wrong with that, but always be mindful of what might happen later, just be careful, and you are alright.

I have also seen good examples;
- my friend met an OY gal and got married, now with kids... together for many years now
- my friend's gal went back hunan, but everytime my friend go CP, she will come over to look for him, although he only give her gifts and not cash
- etc etc

I will believe that they are still good gals around in CP who will really love a man or customer. They sell body for $$$ doesn't mean they can't fall in love. For me, I prefer the gal to have their own live, so I prefer not to bao them. One of my gal still goes to work, but she put as 不方便 every day, and she will call me or video call with me every night when she reach home. I will tell her i'm not rich, so that she knows i'm not a big fish, and i dun give her too much extra. In my last trip, i ran out of cash, she even rejected my money and offer to pay for my hotel. Of course i wanted to test her too. Well, is this consider 放长线钓大鱼? But for sure, i'm not a big fish cause i never give much extra. So i'm enjoying this game right now, but i'm always cautious that this is not a long term game, and while I do lie to her sometime, i expect her to lie to me sometime too....

Btw, i have also seen gals who will stick to a guy not because of his money... but because that guy give her really good sex everytime!!! haha....

[kenny_boy]

Originally Posted by SEAJ

Oh WOW....this is the very first time I've ever seen a price decrease in China!!
Took the CRH train up from Shenzhen to CP and it now only costs RMB 44.50 instead of 45 for the coach class!!

Ooops....sorry to have posted about something that its not directly related to mongering services....but this is to me quite monumental....in that something actually went down in price in China....all of 1% !! LOL

The cashier was going nuts with having to do more complicated calculations when giving change...especially for multiple ticket purchases!

SEAN

Yes, GZ East to DG is 54.50rmb, decreased fr 55rmb

[sheridan]

Originally Posted by Vertu

Totally agreed on these ....

Baoing gals in CP is for those multi rich ...

Even i do have gals which i know for years wanted to be with me without demanding any monthly fee , i also rejected their offer as i wont know and cant read what is their plan later .

with my 2 regular who did not demand any money from me, i always hear many of their story about we man stupidly spending money on them .

Every time i visit CP , i do it this way . Will inform which day i will be in but telling them i might not have time for them , max would be 1 night each cos both of them know each other. Spend some happy time with them , pay them a little more extra than normal rate .... that it !

Dont you guys agreed that each month you will find new gems .... new target .... new play ground . So whats the point of baoing ? Solely yours ? Fat hope!

Dont commitment on monthly fee and when you give them extra on that visit , they will feel lagi happy.

Agreed. Sound advice, bro.

Every trip I found new gems .... new target .... new play ground. During the last trip there, I asked one ktv gal what she want as gift when i see her again. Answer: chocolate

[jameschong1]

Originally Posted by Vertu

男人请你明白，我追求的是钱，你给我足够的钱，我不会因为你去找女人而生气。假如我追求的是爱，你给我足够 的爱，我也不会因为你没钱而看不起你。问题是我要的爱，时间你无法给我，你我的年龄，生活也差太多了，不和 你讲钱的话我无法和你走下去。。。

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why bother to keep such a bitch?
even if u give her $$$ every month, one month u don't give, she will fuck u off too.
even if u give her $$$ every year, she will still go outside tou jiak as she will give the cock excuse about your age gap.
so best thing, fuck her gap, ask her to shut up her gap

i again thake this chance to apologise to UFO that i leak out he is a bankrupt.
sorry UFO, no U dont need to Fuck Off and i don't blame u for being so angry

[Vertu]

Originally Posted by sheridan

Agreed. Sound advice, bro.

Every trip I found new gems .... new target .... new play ground. During the last trip there, I asked one ktv gal what she want as gift when i see her again. Answer: chocolate

You are so lucky ..... mine are usually Iphone haha....

So i always reply , 4S = 3 ON and 5 = 5 ON , OK ?

[Vertu]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

Brother,

All good things must to an end. I had the same feeling five days ago....

You are good in giving me new title. Now you call me 爺爺
I wonder what title you will give me next time!

Oh yes, we were together in Miraton Hotel, why you did not bring me there to enjoy as you did. Sigh.... Because I am an old man?

I am back in China since yesterday in the South also ....hahaha.....

I remember hearing someone call you YeYe instead ......

Originally Posted by TonyCheong

Yes it's 6°C now at 4:05am.
The lowest I've seen in Dec/Jan.
I feel the winter in 2012/2013 is a bit colder than 2011/2012.

I think i came across once 5degree back in 2010 when some wayang was going on outside park hyatt ....

[chinaboy69]

Originally Posted by SEAJ

Firstly, most "relationships" in CP starts off based upon $$ changing hands - so one can only expect that $$ is in the back ground at all times. Not realistic to expect that the girl will have a change of her heart/her actual motive in coming over to CP - that is to make as much money as possible using her body. Whether doing it per time, taking on semi long "assignments" with clients who wants to spend their time in CP with them, by being actually Bao'd, by coming up with elaborate scams, cons...whatever.

And there is a variety of reason why and how a gal will "progress" in her pursuit of $$ when you're in a relationship with her; from learning from her friends, from being jealous of how some of her friends are being treated by their patrons compared to how you are with her, from demands (continual or emergency) from her family, from realizing that her own youth is slowly but surely being wasted on a relationship that has no future - again whatever - and not really important for you to understand/care about - just that it surely does happen!!

Remember, she had all along resigned herself to selling her body for $$$ and that is not something she easily forgets; yeah, maybe at the beginning she may just let herself slip a bit and also enjoy the light and music and romance of the relationship - but the cold stark reminder of reality always comes back to her.

My advise and how I usually handle this - go right ahead and enjoy such "romances" to the full. Enjoy the fluttering heart, the light, the music of love to the hilt...FOR THE MOMENT.... but ALWAYS have it at the back of your mind that the relationship IS based upon $$ changing hands. Remind yourself this and even remind her too - for on the off chance that she gets caught up in the whole thing herself/forgets her real purpose, that she will not be unnecessarily hurt too.

Just my POV
SEAJ

sound advice. I just finished my cp trip and nearly fell into a kc trap with the ktv gals over there.

[donjoe1000]

Me and friend taking Jetstar flight to GZ on 17th Jan 830pm.
Reaching GZ around 1250pm and will take private car to cp.
Anyone wanted to share can pm me.
Gz to CP is RMB $400 per car.
Thanks.