Batam Info / Interest / Help Thread

[BFOMF5]

Originally Posted by beardbastard

if you outsource the girl from outside batam, why not have her land in singapore instead?

should have save you the hassle of going to batam

Yes you save the hassle of going to btm.
But that will be more hassles for letting her land here.

[dumboy99]

Originally Posted by Black Page

Nomen omen

Hahaha
Dont go on name bro !!!

What is there in the name!!!

[Sawadecup]

Bro....Pls aware that e WECHAT Scam Gal as follow :


Last named as MELIA now changed the name as TANIA. ganged with her BF then accused you molested on ST service.


Any bro got any bad gal pls share here. Thanks.

[newyorker88]

Originally Posted by Sawadecup

Bro....Pls aware that e WECHAT Scam Gal as follow :


Last named as MELIA now changed the name as TANIA. ganged with her BF then accused you molested on ST service.


Any bro got any bad gal pls share here. Thanks.

That's one reason not to engage in WeChat gals or FL unless they were introduced.

Gang up w BF to cheat? Wait until they meet some real gangsters.

[Black Page]

Originally Posted by newyorker88

That's one reason not to engage in WeChat gals or FL unless they were introduced.

That's too drastic. If we remove any activity involving a risk, then we have very little or nothing to do in our life. This includes sex.

Truth is that, among many honest and fun girls who simply try to get some extra cash by way of WeChat or meeeting guests in disco, there is also a number of sharks who hunt small fish.

I would not recommend to avoid any risky activity, but, specifically in case of WeChat:
1) meet them outside the hotel
2) take the time to chat and feel who is in front of you, before welcoming her to your room
3) excercise the maximum caution and, possibly, your 6th sense
4) if you never ventured beyond Geylang legal houses, avoid WeChat and the Unknown Lands.

Originally Posted by newyorker88

Gang up w BF to cheat? Wait until they meet some real gangsters.

Well said, but this kind of people can detect when to attack


(Thank you Sawadecup for having the courage to report also such a dramatic mistake and bad incident. That's very useful for everyone here. I believe that the majority of fails are not reported, and people may tend to believe that "shit does NOT happen". It happens indeed.)

[nono1973]

Originally Posted by Black Page

Once sit at the cafe, she even refused the coffee due to lack of time, to come to my room immediately to help me for luggage. This request for help works always.
Needless to say, once in my room I had to shower and then...

I believe you have good judgement on people (face to face). Otherwise you wouldnt have allow her to come to your room to HELP you with your luggage (arent exactly lightweighted for a small built-girl,hehehe...). And you went to shower leaving her alone in your room with your luggage? Or did she join you?

Originally Posted by Black Page

She claimed to have NEVER tried a BJ, but, as she was on mens, she felt kinda obliged to learn on the job. She did her best to imitate what she has seen only in porn movies. For some reason, many Indonesian guys interpret sex as just penetration in vagina. All other holes seem not interesting for them.

You got yourself a BJ since she was on menses (i believe many readers may have overlook this). And looks like you found yourself a gem.

My analysis : Which "working lady" would start their job when she was on menses? I believe none. If she is a regular "working lady",she would probably be very very new or thats, she isnt one at all.

Originally Posted by Black Page

Only at the door, leaving the room with me to checkout, she tried to ask me if I could give her a gift for her birthday next week....
OK, understood. I gave her 300, then rounded up to 400 to make her very very happy.

Too shy to even ask for a gift? My guess.

Dont forget to wish her Happy Birthday this coming week,hehehe...

Originally Posted by SheldonXX

When mongering, never be too sure if anything too soon.

I agree with your words,when it comes to mongering,there's nothing really "Absolute". What's suitable for you may not be for me, the same situation met by different person can have different results too.

In a way,one who is wise enough in mongering will NEVER expect "Absolution".

*If you plan to reply to my post, avoid quoting my whole post. Or if you do not know how to de-quote, dont "Quote" at all and just type , "@nono1973" in a new post to reply me.

Thank you for sharing your FR here. Looks like you have a better next trip.

Keep all of that up!

Cheers!!

Originally Posted by BFOMF5

Lontong taupok,tempeh, kang kong, clam ,sotong ....on kuah kacang


SELAMAT HARI RAYA IDUL FITRI

Hmm...i am curious now,how come some of the dish photos you post,i have not seen them in Batam before.

Home cook food?

[fde83]

Barely a day after Lebaran, my hp had been ringing non stop from gals asking me when coming. Since money dried up. Sabar ya, brapa hari lg.

[iicycold]

Originally Posted by newyorker88

...usually they kena Bao by someone Liao, usually they have a house of their own n do a small business like small mama shop or other stuff

usually wen big boss bao a btm ger,mus reli need 2 find smthg 4 em 2 do aso...otherwise the ger's mind beside being bored, will tink here tink tere tink too much,& wen they do tat too often,it often wil blow a hole in the big boss's pocket or b jus waitin 2 wear 'green hat'...lol.

Originally Posted by hawkeye007

For those who were fans of the Bak Chor mee from Instar coffeeshop, this is where they have shifted to. The bak chor mee is still as good and great value at 19k rupiah.

Thx 4 tis info bro!!

Originally Posted by BFOMF5

Also not to forget the Bailong that move from Hai kee (Utama) is in the
Coffee shop at the far end.

Oh,u mean there's 2 bailong? 1 @ penuin wet market tere & another at hai kee tat move to btm ctr?

[nono1973]

Originally Posted by Cougar21

Thanks nono. Nice FR. Btw, can I ask u, how much was the half kg kueh lapis?

Not sure which version of layer cake you are asking,so i shall try to reply as best as i could. Diana brand of normal Kueh lapis cost 125k rupiah for half kilo. The prune version cost 150k for half kilo. Below picture for your reference :

photo below was base on 1kg pricing,divide by 2 for half kilo

The Tea Story version one on my 38th summary cost about 120k to 130k rupiah depending on the type of Kueh Lapis they sell. Again,below picture for your further reference :

https://thesbf.shop/showpost.php?p...postcount=7311

Photo also taken on same trip,just that its not in my summary

*i have censored off the address of the cake shop on the picture in order not to breach the forum rules (otherwise my post may subject to be removed).

The Diana brand is definitely the one with better taste,and FRESHLY-made too. (base on my own taste bud)

[newyorker88]

Originally Posted by Black Page

That's too drastic. If we remove any activity involving a risk, then we have very little or nothing to do in our life. This includes sex.

Truth is that, among many honest and fun girls who simply try to get some extra cash by way of WeChat or meeeting guests in disco, there is also a number of sharks who hunt small fish.

I would not recommend to avoid any risky activity, but, specifically in case of WeChat:
1) meet them outside the hotel
2) take the time to chat and feel who is in front of you, before welcoming her to your room
3) excercise the maximum caution and, possibly, your 6th sense
4) if you never ventured beyond Geylang legal houses, avoid WeChat and the Unknown Lands.


Well said, but this kind of people can detect when to attack


(Thank you Sawadecup for having the courage to report also such a dramatic mistake and bad incident. That's very useful for everyone here. I believe that the majority of fails are not reported, and people may tend to believe that "shit does NOT happen". It happens indeed.)

For those who are new to batam, or don't know much about this place, I recommend not to go for FL or WeChat gals. You never know what they can do to you or frame you with drugs( in cohort w police) to scam money from you


As for scammers, can always get someone to sort out with them, if their so call boy Friend comes along to demand for money. If you know who to call for help when such things happens. Don't ask me who I call. This is private contacts for such things

[Sawadecup]

Originally Posted by newyorker88

That's one reason not to engage in WeChat gals or FL unless they were introduced.

Gang up w BF to cheat? Wait until they meet some real gangsters.

Yes Bro...u are right, she want earn money we can give them, but be honest and give gd service la. I believed KARMA.


So I did WARNED you guys here.

[Black Page]

Originally Posted by nono1973

I believe you have good judgement on people (face to face). Otherwise you wouldnt have allow her to come to your room to HELP you with your luggage (arent exactly lightweighted for a small built-girl,hehehe...). And you went to shower leaving her alone in your room with your luggage? Or did she join you?

Yes. I don't leave anyone wandering around my room without having a discreet eye on her.
I asked her to help me to pack, not to carry my luggage LOL (I am not so bad.)
No, she did not join me. I was still playing the role "You-are-here-to-help-me-with-luggage-ok-now-sit-down-here-I-hope-you-don't-mind-if-I-shower-SORRY-I-must-shower-before-leaving-it's-so-hot-outside-PANAS!"
She was kind of embarrassed when I came out of shower with pants but not with shirt

I trust my good judgement (see footnote *). This girl is NOT a FL. She was simply genuinely interested to become friend of a foreigner. She is a good girl, student at the (a?) local university. I would have been really surprised to see her trying to steal something! Not that type of person (ok, nothing is impossible, but as I wrote before, we must learn to live with small-probability events).

How do I know? I trust my introspection ability into people. Mistakes are possible, but we must work and improve to make them rare.

About helping with luggage, that was my idea to find a reason to invite her to my room without saying "I want to fuck". That does not sound nice on a first date.
We agreed to meet at JCo just for few minutes before I had to leave, just to see each other. Then, I tried to suggest "I really cannot stay with you more than 10 minutes because I have to pack my luggage. If you want, you can follow me to my room to help me with it". She did not think a second and replied "ok I don't want the coffee let's go you have no time".
Once in the room, she did not comment the fact that my luggage was almost completely packed already . Not much help needed on that.

Originally Posted by nono1973

You got yourself a BJ since she was on menses (i believe many readers may have overlook this). And looks like you found yourself a gem.

Let us not make this story better than it actually is. She is not ugly, but looking below average, a bit chubby, small tits. I would call "gem" other ladies I met.
And the BJ was more a lesson from me to her. Good student, willing to learn, btw.
The good point is that she is genuinely willing to have a foreign friend. We could speak using Google Translate and my few words of bahasa, as she knows nearly zero English.

Originally Posted by nono1973

My analysis : Which "working lady" would start their job when she was on menses? I believe none. If she is a regular "working lady",she would probably be very very new or thats, she isnt one at all. Too shy to even ask for a gift? My guess.
Dont forget to wish her Happy Birthday this coming week,hehehe...

Of course she is NOT a working lady!! That was clear to me since the first messages on WeChat. A working lady makes clear since the first messages that she offers ST/BO (these are the hardcore pros) or at least that she needs money for something.
This simply wanted a new friend.
About money, in Indonesia this has a different perception than in Western world (I cannot judge about other Asian countries).
No girl in Europe would EVER ask money after or before meeting someone, or she would fall into the category of prostitute (social stigma). In Indonesia, it is perfectly common that a lady welcomes a monetary gift from some foreigner, and she does not see that as something diminishing her reputation.

________________
Note *
I realize I am becoming maybe too much confident on others. I wrote before that one of my highlights of my holidays, 10 days ago, was the night I spent with THREE girls: my friend, with whom I already spent 3-4 nights since when I met her first one year ago, and two friends of hers, who she kindly invited with us to make me happy (very happy indeed).
Well, after dinner I wanted to have some free 15-20 mins for me (call home, withdraw money from ATM,...), so I gave them my room key and I told them to go and wait me there. Since I am not a light weekend traveler and in my room I have my computer and personal stuff, plus various gifts to bring home, that means 101% trust. The irony was that my key did not work, and when I came back I found them at the reception where they already got it renewed by staff (I wonder if this is the usual policy for a hotel ).
No, I don't think I will do that again, and certainly not if I don't have long time of acquaintance with someone.

[BFOMF5]

Originally Posted by nono1973

Hmm...i am curious now,how come some of the dish photos you post,i have not seen them in Batam before.

Home cook food?

Ya you're right....
It's not from any ordinary food store.

Can Only find in the one and only Michelin 5 stars restaurant in batam.....

"The N GOURMET"


In facts....
Just make full use of the left ovr sate kuah....
boil some Kang Kong and what ever thing availabe from our fridge.

[Black Page]

Originally Posted by newyorker88

For those who are new to batam, or don't know much about this place, I recommend not to go for FL or WeChat gals.

These are Golden Words indeed, that everyone should stamp in his head. I agree 100%.

Originally Posted by newyorker88

[B]As for scammers, can always get someone to sort out with them, if their so call boy Friend comes along to demand for money. If you know who to call for help when such things happens. Don't ask me who I call. This is private contacts for such things

That's a serious problem. Scammers can be anywhere. Although not so common, any of us WILL meet some sooner or later. NOBODY should feel immune. Shit happens.

It happened to me too! Unfortunately for me, I don't have a local hook as you to call for support in case of need.

I remember those two 30+ yo ladies who came to my room from disco several years ago (sorry, I still had to learn to discriminate well people, and anyone can make mistakes).
They started first to play silly (red flag warning: at that point I knew I would have not had any good time) then tried to threaten with arguments like "you give us 1.5 millions to each of us or we call police because we have friends in police".
I laughed back to them saying that me too I have some friends working in police, then I got them out of the room showing 100k as a "tip for your taxi". They were lured by the 100k out of the room.... So mean.
Once out of the door, the problem was solved, seen from my perspective. I closed quickly the door and left them there in the corridor while I took the stairs to go down. I said bye I go and that was it. I really felt relieved.

[BFOMF5]

Originally Posted by iicycold

Oh,u mean there's 2 bailong? 1 @ penuin wet market tere & another at hai kee tat move to btm ctr?

Pasir Puteh 白龙 franchised from Penuin 白龙

First set up at HaiKee (Saw it When I stay H18 beginning last year)
Move to PP mid last year

https://thesbf.shop/showthread.php?p=15131879&highlight=30333+40857#po st15131879