Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[jf66312]

Originally Posted by V|ernar

Slowly find lor , I still have time . Hehe

yup..no worries...guys is " the older u get , the higher your value"..

so keep trying....all the best...

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by jf66312

yup..no worries...guys is " the older u get , the higher your value"..

so keep trying....all the best...

Guys is must have money,good career or good business when u grow older

Always remember to let the girl look up on u

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by jf66312

yup....i asked her how much she need to bring back for TET ,she told me she intend to bring $3k....

3k seem a lot leh

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Its the tradition during TET to gamble day and night. They will always tell you its small money but i have heard of many Viet spouse losing US$3k to US$5k during TET gambling. Husband must bring money back to pay back before they return to Singapore. So always warn your spouse about gambling. I always tell my wife not to tell me its small money, many `small money' will snowball to `big money' . I also tell her, if she gamble away a lot of money, i will not pay for her. i do not allow gambling.

i also do not encourage gambling,luckily my wife also same as me,dont believe in gambling

But during that time during tet,she play with her relative,they play 5000 dong per game for fun,that one is ok for me cos she only come out less than 300 000 dong,so play finish if lose all,she quit

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by jf66312

yup....i asked her how much she need to bring back for TET ,she told me she intend to bring $3k....

wa .. 3k ??? do what sia ?

[jf66312]

Originally Posted by shysaint

wa .. 3k ??? do what sia ?

hai..thats why...not sure also...

think ang pao and everything plus stay there for abt 3 weeks....

its too much ?

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by shysaint

YEs . so far I have been flying ... and I observed that a Gal carrying a baby back home is sometimes too much for them to handle ... Baby ... Lugguages .. etc .. IF Beast Feeding .. Lagi Worse ...

HOwever ... I also see there are alot of kind soul Vietnamese GUY helping those ladies out !!!

If you guys are NOT jealous about it , I guessed that's fine or probably you won't get to know about it ... I guess if I Can I will help too .. knowing the difficulty of the situation ...

Therefore, I will NOT let my Wife Go Back alone unless Really NO Choice ...

remind me of a scene i saw in the airport last year.saw one viet girl,super small size,i think her height is only around 155,carrying a baby.

what suprise me is one hand she is holding her baby and the other hand was pushing the trolley.her trolley have 3 big luggage bag,while check in,she actually went and ask those viet ppl in the q,at first i thought she dont know how to check in,so want to help her but in the end i think she she exceed the luggage weight so was asking ppl to help her,poor thing man,wonder why her husband is not around

also saw a few carry their baby back alone,can be quite tough though

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by jf66312

hai..thats why...not sure also...

think ang pao and everything plus stay there for abt 3 weeks....

its too much ?

maybe u would like to check with her,for me 3k is a lot even for staying for 3 weeks cos is not staying at hotel but her house.

ang bao also does not require so much,pai seh bro,i a bit kapo

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by jf66312

am ok..its just that worry troublesome cost by that time , think my little one can walk already...then if naughty , got to run after him and also carry luggage...tough....

but whenever talk abt this topic, my bxa buc boi roi...keep thinking that i dun wan her to go back ( which is partly true ).... though i say not dun want her to go back but only not during TET when so crowded then bring little oc tough...

why u dont want her to go back,scare got viet man 'cow' her

[volcano]

Originally Posted by jf66312

hai..thats why...not sure also...

think ang pao and everything plus stay there for abt 3 weeks....

its too much ?

different people has different definition on 'how much then is enough'.

ur wife is considered a Viet Kieu now,so if back to Vietnam,then must have some face lor...

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by jf66312

hai..thats why...not sure also...

think ang pao and everything plus stay there for abt 3 weeks....

its too much ?

wa .. if my wife tells me that .. I faint !

3 weeks to use 3k ... alot alot sia ... 3k if give my wife she can use for 6mths

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by volcano

different people has different definition on 'how much then is enough'.

ur wife is considered a Viet Kieu now,so if back to Vietnam,then must have some face lor...

Agree cos due to singapore brand

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by shysaint

wa .. if my wife tells me that .. I faint !

3 weeks to use 3k ... alot alot sia ... 3k if give my wife she can use for 6mths

maybe her 3k is for her family 6 mths allowance leh

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Golden question

maybe u would like to check with her,for me 3k is a lot even for staying for 3 weeks cos is not staying at hotel but her house.

ang bao also does not require so much,pai seh bro,i a bit kapo

She may be thinking of giving her family and relatives a treat. Buy food and beer for 30 to 50 people may scale her back by around 10 to 12 million VND roi.

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by Golden question

maybe her 3k is for her family 6 mths allowance leh

IF like that okie lah ....